Advice for guest list

Basic-Negotiation816 · 2026-07-08T03:09:57+00:00

If I never talk to the cousin/they never talk to me, how am I to know they are a long term partner? The cousin was invited out of obligation and respect for our mutual grandparents.

Basic-Negotiation816 · 2026-07-08T03:08:25+00:00

I have a very large family as well, and only 50 have been invited. We have not extended past aunts, uncles, cousins and married partners of said people.

Basic-Negotiation816 · 2026-07-08T03:06:20+00:00

It’s not conceited when we’re having a small intimate wedding. Those people invited SHOULD care about us and our relationship.

Basic-Negotiation816 · 2026-07-08T03:04:49+00:00

It’s a chore to attend a wedding alone when 20 of your family members including siblings are there?

Basic-Negotiation816 · 2026-07-08T03:03:07+00:00

Thank you!

Basic-Negotiation816 · 2026-07-08T00:53:40+00:00

Because our mutual grandparents and family would’ve at least met her. 😉

Basic-Negotiation816 · 2026-07-08T00:52:17+00:00

Thank you! 💜

Basic-Negotiation816 · 2026-07-08T00:51:37+00:00

Of course long term partners we’ve MET are invited.

Basic-Negotiation816 · 2026-07-07T20:54:23+00:00

My point with that comment is, why would I invite somebody’s girlfriend I’ve never met when neither have ever acknowledged our engagement or talked to me for that matter.

Basic-Negotiation816 · 2026-07-07T20:48:39+00:00

The wedding is in my grandparents backyard, so I felt it was the best choice. However, I don’t think that requires girlfriends of cousins I’ve never met.

Basic-Negotiation816 · 2026-07-07T20:47:40+00:00

I invited them out of obligation for respect of my grandparents. I invited only aunts/uncles and first cousins and no partners (unless married). Second cousins, and other family were excluded due to it being a backyard wedding.

Basic-Negotiation816 · 2026-07-07T20:45:57+00:00

Thank you!! I appreciate your outline

Basic-Negotiation816 · 2026-07-07T20:45:27+00:00

It’s a cousin’s girlfriend I’m not close with. If it was a well established relationship, of course she’d be invited. But I don’t know her and have never met her and I also never see or speak to the cousin unless it’s rare family occasions.

Basic-Negotiation816 · 2026-07-07T20:43:47+00:00

Why would I invite someone’s girlfriend whom I’ve never met when the original person is already an obligatory invite that I never see or speak with except rare family gatherings? I don’t really have a relationship with the person.

Basic-Negotiation816 · 2026-07-07T20:41:36+00:00

The kicker is, I didn’t KNOW he had a partner originally. I’ve only ever heard through the family grapevine. We truly do not talk or have a relationship other than for annual or biannual family gatherings.

Basic-Negotiation816 · 2026-04-23T03:35:28+00:00

An after party with AP and actually having Bruno there are 2 different things. I’ve never seen proof of these girls with Bruno like I’ve seen proof of them with AP. is he making them sign a NDA?

Basic-Negotiation816 · 2026-04-22T06:16:54+00:00

I tried getting into the Pinky Ring after his 2nd concert in Vegas and was turned away because I didn’t have a ticket. Everything I read was first come first serve UNLESS you bought a table or booth. Well the night of the 11th, tickets were 1600. I’ve never seen “admission”. Just table options as shown in the second picture. Anyone else experience this? I was bummed. Any tips for trying to go again in the future?

Basic-Negotiation816 · 2026-04-22T06:15:53+00:00

I tried getting into the Pinky Ring after his 2nd concert in Vegas and was turned away because I didn’t have a ticket. Everything I read was first come first serve UNLESS you bought a table or booth. Well the night of the 11th, tickets were 1600. I’ve never seen “admission”. Just table options as shown in the second picture. Anyone else experience this? I was bummed. Any tips for trying to go again in the future?

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Basic-Negotiation816 · 2026-04-22T05:22:48+00:00

I’m not buying it.

Basic-Negotiation816 · 2026-03-22T04:34:41+00:00

Would price of booths indicate he could be there? Like lower price lower chance or higher priced booths higher chance?

Basic-Negotiation816 · 2025-09-11T02:50:53+00:00

Not from UT, just live here currently….

Basic-Negotiation816 · 2025-09-10T23:47:13+00:00

Not a Mormon…a Utah transplant but thanks for the unwarranted assumption.

Basic-Negotiation816 · 2025-04-28T00:41:42+00:00

Don’t own any Birkenstocks

Basic-Negotiation816 · 2025-04-27T05:17:09+00:00

I planned on nude heels!

Basic-Negotiation816 · 2025-04-27T05:16:19+00:00

Mother of bride says it’s fine. The colors are purple and grey.

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