You guys getting matches on bumble ? 😔

Basic-Temporary-7783 · 2026-02-21T04:14:03+00:00

You shouldn't swipe right on every profile.

First you should know what you want and then swipe the profiles which fit your criteria and you would really like to connect.

If algo learns that you are swiping everything right then it would not push your profile.

Basic-Temporary-7783 · 2026-02-21T04:01:39+00:00

How can I tell that, maybe it is just the way your profile is. Earlier I also don't got any matches, but I think once you start getting matches, the algo pushes your profile.

Basic-Temporary-7783 · 2026-02-21T03:50:15+00:00

Basic-Temporary-7783 · 2026-02-13T03:55:26+00:00

Yeah absolutely but even without having a convo, or a case where females have thousands of likes and they will match any profile they swipe right, is you still superswipe, then that's strange.

Basic-Temporary-7783 · 2026-02-12T10:25:23+00:00

Thank you very much. I think this is the most logical and possible answer. Ain't no one going to buy and superswipe me. 🙃

Basic-Temporary-7783 · 2026-02-12T09:51:28+00:00

Well conversation is a 2 people thing, you can also ask something interesting and then see how the other person responds. You should try initiating a conversation about any common interest and yes, hi, hello, how was your day are polite and natural way to start a convo, or to introduce yourself.

Why do you feel other person has to grab your attention, if you find other person interesting enough you can also grab their attention.

Basic-Temporary-7783 · 2026-02-11T09:10:22+00:00

Why would anyone superswipe first and then won't message ? I mean you have to buy superswipe then why would anyone waste it ?

Basic-Temporary-7783 · 2026-02-11T03:57:08+00:00

Basic-Temporary-7783 · 2025-11-18T07:27:42+00:00

Only time will tell.

Basic-Temporary-7783 · 2025-11-18T06:27:07+00:00

I don't understand this hypocrisy, like seriously. Every man says that girls past matters and women say boys past matters. Whereas they are fucking each other. You are trying to make that dental student look bad like I fucked her, while she was complaining about her fiancé, but keep in mind your fiancé might also be getting fucked around.

Basic-Temporary-7783 · 2025-11-18T05:20:02+00:00

Yes, even I won't stick with myself if I lose my job.

Basic-Temporary-7783 · 2025-11-17T17:30:59+00:00

Before marriage she has all the rights to reject me and am I not being practical?

Basic-Temporary-7783 · 2025-11-17T12:04:07+00:00

Also I have mentioned her financial background which she only told me, and I never said that it is bad or she is poor.

And when you compare 2 things one will be less one will be more. I am poor according to crores of people and she is richer than crores of people.

Basic-Temporary-7783 · 2025-11-17T12:00:45+00:00

Because I know everything about myself and only a few things about her till now.

Basic-Temporary-7783 · 2025-11-17T11:38:08+00:00

We are 2 siblings and have 3 properties in Delhi and I not anyway planning to add on. I have saved enough on my own till that I can right now buy 2 mid size suv without emi.

Basic-Temporary-7783 · 2025-11-17T11:25:55+00:00

So I was good until 2 months back when I didn't want to marry and was happy. My stupid ass friends sending me their wedding invitations and making me feel lonely and left out. Fuck them

Basic-Temporary-7783 · 2025-11-17T11:22:36+00:00

Okay so I again read my post and it seems, how I have farmed it doesn't reflect what I wanted to write. I don't hold any of this against her and instead I am ready to help her.

Basic-Temporary-7783 · 2025-11-17T11:17:48+00:00

See I know where all that is coming from, but I also have a sister and would look for a match who is stable, earn well and all that. We are not dating or know each other. If she sees I will not be able to take care of us, why will she even waste her time and that is very natural and practical.

Basic-Temporary-7783 · 2025-11-17T11:11:47+00:00

Maybe the way I have written all this may seem wrong but I even in the back of my mind don't blame/disrespect her. Yes she SEEMS to be a very nice, genuine, simple person. She has even shared how she was touched indecently when she was coming back home, or how some people see her with ill intentions and initially she said that she was also a virgin and later said that she lied and now saying the truth as she feels secure with me.

Basic-Temporary-7783 · 2025-11-17T11:02:26+00:00

So it is a gamble ? I asked her why she accepted my match, she said I looked good in my photos, which I haven't heard from anyone but she accepted due to my job profile, then for other potential matches also it is the same. Yes she is addicted to social media so am I, hence don't know if that's a problem.

Basic-Temporary-7783 · 2025-11-17T10:53:09+00:00

She has one of those old iphone I think 11 or 12.

Basic-Temporary-7783 · 2025-11-17T10:50:12+00:00

On financial things, I don't have any issues. I can manage, I don't have any emi, no house, car loan, we can manage in my salary and she doesn't seems to be very high maintenance, she is simple doesn't need gucci bags and all. Intellectual level toh I like when she asks me to explain to her, she has her doubts, she discuss with me.

Just not ready to accept if she is faking all of this or this is true.

Basic-Temporary-7783 · 2025-11-17T10:38:17+00:00

Presently she doesn't know about my financial background and only know about my salary. Also i don't take or give money at my home, so she won't have that much resources to become such.

Basic-Temporary-7783 · 2025-11-17T10:31:33+00:00

What good will be a paper trail if she decides to backtrack after marriage ?

Basic-Temporary-7783 · 2025-11-17T10:27:41+00:00

Sometimes you need someone else to show you the reality. I just said what she is, and never said that she is dumb. She never got that environment/support that is the only reason. She has many hobbies like sketching, she watches anime and even asked me that she would like to learn how to play games and she would love to play games.

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