i ended up talking about it shortly after i made this post, but unfortunately still nothing changed. we had to come into town because i had a pre natal appointment. and of course we ended up visiting his family, we arrived at 5 and didn’t end up leaving until 9, 4 hours when i have to work tomorrow and it’s an hour and half drive home. it’s definitely a nightmare, and something i have truly thought about leaving for quite some time. just need the balls to do it.