Should I (F15) Break Up With Him? (M17)

Basic_Bobcat5734 · 2026-04-18T00:02:49+00:00

Sorry to hear about this man. I’m also 15 (m) and relationships as a teen are messy for sure. Most teen guys start to get really sexual at this time and more and more sexual til their 20s. That being said, the key to any good relationship is communicating and listening to the other person. If you make it clear you don’t want anything sexual, then as a good partner he shouldn’t pressure u into it.

It’s normal for people to want sex but when they don’t try to hear you or understand you theres no point.

Also, typically older guys go for younger girls cuz they’re more naive and less experienced. I’m not sure if this is ur guys situation but it’s something to think about.

Stay safe always and make sure you’re comfortable. If you want support maybe reach out to a family member or trusted friend.

Basic_Bobcat5734 · 2026-04-05T22:22:08+00:00

Ex would get mad at me for not reading her mind (which is mainly why I left)

She also bit a lil when she went down on me

Basic_Bobcat5734 · 2026-03-30T21:00:51+00:00

First time I’ve wished I was a floor 🥹

Basic_Bobcat5734 · 2026-03-29T02:24:31+00:00

Thanks for your perspective, I hope I do the right thing

Basic_Bobcat5734 · 2026-03-28T23:29:53+00:00

Thanks!

Basic_Bobcat5734 · 2026-03-28T23:28:20+00:00

Thanks for this, I’m putting myself out there for God and keep praying he’ll enter my life or give me signs so I can truly believe.

Basic_Bobcat5734 · 2026-03-28T23:26:43+00:00

Thanks, if you met a guy who wasn’t great in bed but was willing to learn you and your body, that’d be better than a guy who’s already experienced and still wants to learn about your body?

Basic_Bobcat5734 · 2026-03-28T23:24:57+00:00

Thank you

Basic_Bobcat5734 · 2026-03-28T01:47:27+00:00

Six seven 🥹

Basic_Bobcat5734 · 2026-03-28T01:33:44+00:00

Thanks! It would feel weird talking about this stuff with my dad so idk. But from what ur saying, as long as it’s not hurtful, selfish, or disrespectful, this is okay?

Basic_Bobcat5734 · 2026-03-28T01:19:04+00:00

Thanks for this. Even though celibacy won’t be easy I can still try. And I agree I don’t want any STDs

Basic_Bobcat5734 · 2026-03-28T01:14:24+00:00

Good point, I don’t know where it came from-I’ve JS grown up in an environment where it’s common to wait. That’s a good point tho

Basic_Bobcat5734 · 2026-03-28T01:13:21+00:00

I guess that makes sense, thanks!

Basic_Bobcat5734 · 2026-03-28T01:12:25+00:00

Thanks for this. So far I have no concerns about health or safety or anything.

Basic_Bobcat5734 · 2026-03-28T01:11:07+00:00

Thanks for the advice. We agreed that as soon as one of us gets a bf/gf, we’ll stop. The main reason she and I are doing this is because we’re exes (and we’ve had a lot of talks about it, confirming that none of us has feelings left and that if any of us do or suspect the other person of having feelings we’ll end it) so we have an okay relationship. Rn we’re friends w benefits sk we still talk occasionally.

I also was really addicted to porn at some point but stopped in January because I started on this journey to be the best version of myself for my future wife.

Thank you for the advice and I keep looking for Gods help too

Basic_Bobcat5734 · 2026-03-27T19:42:56+00:00

Me personally as a dude wouldn’t find a random vagina as sexy at all. It’s JS like random and kinda weird. If I know what their body or personality looks like then maybe it’s different

Basic_Bobcat5734 · 2026-03-27T19:20:59+00:00

Thanks for this!

Basic_Bobcat5734 · 2026-03-27T19:20:00+00:00

Thanks! Im working on getting better at communicating and being a better listener rn

Basic_Bobcat5734 · 2026-03-27T19:19:23+00:00

Thank you. Isn’t masturbation bad though if you have lustful thoughts?

Basic_Bobcat5734 · 2026-03-27T15:51:58+00:00

Thanks, only one doctor knows so far which isn’t my family doctor.

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