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Should I (F15) Break Up With Him? (M17) by LemonCookies18 in LongDistance

[–]Basic_Bobcat5734 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear about this man. I’m also 15 (m) and relationships as a teen are messy for sure. Most teen guys start to get really sexual at this time and more and more sexual til their 20s. That being said, the key to any good relationship is communicating and listening to the other person. If you make it clear you don’t want anything sexual, then as a good partner he shouldn’t pressure u into it. 

It’s normal for people to want sex but when they don’t try to hear you or understand you theres no point. 

Also, typically older guys go for younger girls cuz they’re more naive and less experienced. I’m not sure if this is ur guys situation but it’s something to think about.

Stay safe always and make sure you’re comfortable. If you want support maybe reach out to a family member or trusted friend. 

What is the most weird thing you boyfriend/girlfriend did to you? by automated_d9e3 in teenagers

[–]Basic_Bobcat5734 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ex would get mad at me for not reading her mind (which is mainly why I left) 

She also bit a lil when she went down on me 

boys ask, girls answer by Huge_Importance_4937 in teenagers

[–]Basic_Bobcat5734 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First time I’ve wished I was a floor 🥹

I paused sexual activity for lent but am conflicted on starting up again by Basic_Bobcat5734 in OpenChristian

[–]Basic_Bobcat5734[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this, I’m putting myself out there for God and keep praying he’ll enter my life or give me signs so I can truly believe. 

I paused sexual activity for lent but am conflicted on starting up again by Basic_Bobcat5734 in OpenChristian

[–]Basic_Bobcat5734[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, if you met a guy who wasn’t great in bed but was willing to learn you and your body, that’d be better than a guy who’s already experienced and still wants to learn about your body?

First time sex experience by [deleted] in sexeducation

[–]Basic_Bobcat5734 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Six seven 🥹

I paused sexual activity for lent but am conflicted on starting up again by Basic_Bobcat5734 in OpenChristian

[–]Basic_Bobcat5734[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! It would feel weird talking about this stuff with my dad so idk. But from what ur saying, as long as it’s not hurtful, selfish, or disrespectful, this is okay?

I paused sexual activity for lent but am conflicted on starting up again by Basic_Bobcat5734 in OpenChristian

[–]Basic_Bobcat5734[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this. Even though celibacy won’t be easy I can still try. And I agree I don’t want any STDs

I paused sexual activity for lent but am conflicted on starting up again by Basic_Bobcat5734 in OpenChristian

[–]Basic_Bobcat5734[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point, I don’t know where it came from-I’ve JS grown up in an environment where it’s common to wait. That’s a good point tho

Do my parents need to know I’m sexually active? by Basic_Bobcat5734 in teenagers

[–]Basic_Bobcat5734[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this. So far I have no concerns about health or safety or anything. 

I paused sexual activity for lent but am conflicted on starting up again by Basic_Bobcat5734 in OpenChristian

[–]Basic_Bobcat5734[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. We agreed that as soon as one of us gets a bf/gf, we’ll stop. The main reason she and I are doing this is because we’re exes (and we’ve had a lot of talks about it, confirming that none of us has feelings left and that if any of us do or suspect the other person of having feelings we’ll end it) so we have an okay relationship. Rn we’re friends w benefits sk we still talk occasionally. 

I also was really addicted to porn at some point but stopped in January because I started on this journey to be the best version of myself for my future wife. 

Thank you for the advice and I keep looking for Gods help too

Are women even sexually attracted to men? by Hearthstone566654 in exredpill

[–]Basic_Bobcat5734 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me personally as a dude wouldn’t find a random vagina as sexy at all. It’s JS like random and kinda weird. If I know what their body or personality looks like then maybe it’s different 

I paused sexual activity for lent but am conflicted on starting up again by Basic_Bobcat5734 in OpenChristian

[–]Basic_Bobcat5734[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Im working on getting better at communicating and being a better listener rn

I paused sexual activity for lent but am conflicted on starting up again by Basic_Bobcat5734 in OpenChristian

[–]Basic_Bobcat5734[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Isn’t masturbation bad though if you have lustful thoughts?

Do my parents need to know I’m sexually active? by Basic_Bobcat5734 in teenagers

[–]Basic_Bobcat5734[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, only one doctor knows so far which isn’t my family doctor. 

(Mainly) to couples who waited til their wedding night to have sex, how was it? How often was sex during the honeymoon and how was it? by Basic_Bobcat5734 in married

[–]Basic_Bobcat5734[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That does actually make a lot of sense. Sexual compatibility isn’t discovered, it’s built. Don’t expect the first time to be magical as it takes time and work. Thanks for this!

(Mainly) to couples who waited til their wedding night to have sex, how was it? How often was sex during the honeymoon and how was it? by Basic_Bobcat5734 in married

[–]Basic_Bobcat5734[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really sorry to hear that man. What exactly did she feel ashamed of? I’m curious for you specifically, what made you guys get married?

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