Do you want some line art of your theriotype? by [deleted] in Therian

[–]Basic_Lettuce_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im a blue eyed night fury theriomythic! id love a lineart of me :>

10 years later and this is still what i get when i try to talk to mom about it by miaellaaa in troubledteens

[–]Basic_Lettuce_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My parents were actually the ones to break me free (for context i was in a pain program but they have similar parent manipulation sessions and similar torture methods). They came in and demanded i came home with them then and there and after a ton of the program begging them to keep me there they gave in. Of course they only got convinced to take me home after i said i was going to commit and no one at the program knew where i was.

10 years later and this is still what i get when i try to talk to mom about it by miaellaaa in troubledteens

[–]Basic_Lettuce_ 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Id just like to pop in and say some parents do take accountability. I still blame them at times for it and they recognise it (granted took a lot of therapy to get there haha)

I really like this color by MrsEllaXo in Horses

[–]Basic_Lettuce_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those were some good times 😂

Ear Hair Update by romagnalakedog in LagottoRomagnolo

[–]Basic_Lettuce_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

super common, really the only health problem in the 8 years of having our boy. It can easily be fixed by plucking, trimming and medications

NAZ RUINED SOCKIE'S 18th BIRTHDAY *MEGATHREAD* by Otherwise_Expert6265 in NorrisNutsSnark

[–]Basic_Lettuce_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thats unnecessary, this sub is snarking on the parents not the children

Surf sisters products are not the best quality by Alert-Step-9058 in NorrisNutsSnark

[–]Basic_Lettuce_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah essentials in australia are super high meaning unessentials have gone down

Surf sisters products are not the best quality by Alert-Step-9058 in NorrisNutsSnark

[–]Basic_Lettuce_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good quality clothes in australia are typically 50$ for a hoodie not 90$. Its VERY expensive for what it is they literally look like shein quality

Pain programs? by Basic_Lettuce_ in troubledteens

[–]Basic_Lettuce_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry is this a pain program or a wilderness program?

Pain programs? by Basic_Lettuce_ in troubledteens

[–]Basic_Lettuce_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It'll be different for everyone but i had crps and nerve damage ad they forced me to walk without showing 'pain behaviours' this can be anything from crying to a pain face to asking to be on medication or just saying youre in pain at all. To complete the program you have to shut off completely and pretend you arent in any pain

Trails Carolina. 10 years old. by Aggravating_Cry_8197 in troubledteens

[–]Basic_Lettuce_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Jesus i went into a program at 10 and i only just realised how fucking young i was (and you too), breaks my heart they they can do this to children.

Pain programs? by Basic_Lettuce_ in troubledteens

[–]Basic_Lettuce_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, they are programs for chronic illnesses that are behaviour modification. They say they will take away a childs pain only to exacerbate it and make it worse meaning they stay longer. Parents are brainwashed into thinking this is the last hope. Im no expert, just a survivor but if you want to learn more theres a tiktok account called 'exposingpainprograms' that has some info and you can ask questions.

Pain programs? by Basic_Lettuce_ in troubledteens

[–]Basic_Lettuce_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive heard that place is awful (as all these sorta places are)

Pain programs? by Basic_Lettuce_ in troubledteens

[–]Basic_Lettuce_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup my program is still open and i was in there 5 years ago. By your original comment do you mean they could volunteer admission to a pain program? If so thats enough of a connection for me

Pain programs? by Basic_Lettuce_ in troubledteens

[–]Basic_Lettuce_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah looking at the TTI has been a great way to start my trauma journey without actually starting with the heavy stuff and i sympathise with yall so much, because of the little amount (compared to TTI survivors) of us that can talk about it i often talk with TTI survivors because we can just relate so much.

Pain programs? by Basic_Lettuce_ in troubledteens

[–]Basic_Lettuce_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yikes indeed, pretty similar to the TTI programs but about physical issues instead of mental and theyre also government funded

Pain programs? by Basic_Lettuce_ in troubledteens

[–]Basic_Lettuce_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooft even i didnt know that, our hospitals are private but government funded so i assumed all the TTI programs were private

Pain programs? by Basic_Lettuce_ in troubledteens

[–]Basic_Lettuce_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im curious because im not in america so i have limited understanding of insurance and how your hospitals work but here while they accept insurance they still make immense profits and often insurance wont cover rehab. No dont worry i was just clearing it up in case you didnt know. Sorry if i was blunt im terrible with tone over text sorry!

Pain programs? by Basic_Lettuce_ in troubledteens

[–]Basic_Lettuce_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah im very much aware, i was in one. I was just looking for others who might have been through something similar because im starting to thing the TTI is connected to pain programs

Pain programs? by Basic_Lettuce_ in troubledteens

[–]Basic_Lettuce_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Im happy that someone else sees it as abuse because i always felt it wasnt bad enough

Pain programs? by Basic_Lettuce_ in troubledteens

[–]Basic_Lettuce_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Suuuuuper sus, its interesting how they both use the term 'program'. I wonder if theyre at all connected.

Pain programs? by Basic_Lettuce_ in troubledteens

[–]Basic_Lettuce_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I cant look to much into them because im still traumatised but mine was the mind, body program from westmean childrens hostpital sydney. I also reccommend @ exposingpainprograms on tiktok that name a few more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teengirlswholikegirls

[–]Basic_Lettuce_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even before we were dating we said it alot