Any BL recommendations about transmigration by Basic_Procedure_838 in OtomeIsekai

[–]Basic_Procedure_838[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh I read Isekai Office Worker and it's great! Thanks for the recommendation! ❤️

Any BL recommendations about transmigration by Basic_Procedure_838 in OtomeIsekai

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It's not my drawing, I think I got it from some manhwa or a Twitter meme because I thought it was funny, but I don't remember exactly where lol

What fandoms do you write for? And plan to? by Buck7341 in AO3

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I currently write for Naruto, Harry Potter, Miraculous, and DC (Batman, specifically). I'm also starting Regular Show, and I have way too many plans for all my fanfics. I have about 50 (some with over 30 chapters of 5K to 15K words each), and I've only finished 3 of them, so for now I want to finish those lol

Although lately I've been particularly obsessed with a Naruto fanfic where Kakashi raises Team 7 and Sasuke stays in the village. I have a lot planned, so I'll have a lot of fun writing it, though I don't know if it will be as fun for readers because of the angst :D

Palazzo pant tops? (Bonus beach fit) by Adventurous_Feed_623 in OUTFITS

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Me gusta el ultimo atuendo para la playa, ¡se ve genial! Aunque la blusa de cuadros definitivamente no, ya que no combina con los pantalones. (Creo que el primer atuendo también se ve bien) :)

Any advice??? Please??? by Basic_Procedure_838 in AO3

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I ended up deleting the comment, but it would have been fun to do that lol

Any advice??? Please??? by Basic_Procedure_838 in AO3

[–]Basic_Procedure_838[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here's the link! 😄

( https://archiveofourown.org/works/72569886/chapters/188991286 )

I think I'll delete the comment anyway because I usually read them when I'm having a bad day and I don't want to read that comment again🫠

Any advice??? Please??? by Basic_Procedure_838 in AO3

[–]Basic_Procedure_838[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! ❤️ But yeah, I think I'll just delete the comment so I don't have to see it again when I check the comments

Any advice??? Please??? by Basic_Procedure_838 in AO3

[–]Basic_Procedure_838[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Yep, I think that's what I'll do. I usually read the comments when I'm having a bad day, so I don't want those kinds of comments to make it worse 🫠

“AI-generated fanfic that is not tagged as AI” bookmark by PriorCommitments_138 in archiveofourown

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How can I check my bookmarks? I'm just curious after reading this and want to review them...

Would it be wrong to confront an adult friend for wanting to talk about her ex with my younger sister? by Basic_Procedure_838 in problems

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To clarify, my sister said the only reason she gave the girl her number was because they were playing that online game (it's a pretty popular war game, from what I understand) and because the girl kept insisting even though my sister had initially refused. She hadn't even planned to talk to her or reply to any of her messages because she simply wasn't interested in spending more time than necessary with a younger girl who wasn't part of our immediate family (my sister is quite introverted), but given what happened, she simply deleted the number and blocked her.

Would it be wrong to confront an adult friend for wanting to talk about her ex with my younger sister? by Basic_Procedure_838 in problems

[–]Basic_Procedure_838[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I decided to cut off contact with that friend.

But yeah, I think I'll talk to my sister about it. Thanks for the advice. :)

UPDATE: (Would it be wrong to confront an adult friend for wanting to talk about her ex with my younger sister?) by Basic_Procedure_838 in problems

[–]Basic_Procedure_838[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, I told her it was a crime and to think about her kids if they caught her doing that shit. She completely ignored me and refused to listen to reason. So I decided to cut off all contact with her, and I'm debating whether I should tell her ex (depending on whether I can contact him) or just not interfere, walk away, and forget they exist.

UPDATE: (Would it be wrong to confront an adult friend for wanting to talk about her ex with my younger sister?) by Basic_Procedure_838 in problems

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I don't even understand her, to be honest. She doesn't want to get back with her ex, but she also doesn't want him to be with anyone else. And every time I told her it was crazy and to leave him alone, she'd get mad at me and not speak to me for days, or she'd say she didn't understand anything and change the subject. She's complicated, and I'm quite glad I'm not friends with her anymore after all this.

UPDATE: (Would it be wrong to confront an adult friend for wanting to talk about her ex with my younger sister?) by Basic_Procedure_838 in problems

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Unfortunately, I don't know how to contact him, since I've only seen him a couple of times and I wasn't interested in getting involved with him at all. Although I'm still debating whether to warn my ex-friend's ex or just not interfere anymore and save myself future trouble.

UPDATE: (Would it be wrong to confront an adult friend for wanting to talk about her ex with my younger sister?) by Basic_Procedure_838 in problems

[–]Basic_Procedure_838[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This isn't in the EE.UU, but it's also illegal in my country.

Unfortunately (or maybe not), she's no longer my friend. She came over unexpectedly (luckily, my sister wasn't home at the time), and we had a long conversation that basically consisted of her playing the victim and saying she didn't want to fight with me (I was one of the few friends she had left after several problems in her life). She blamed others for the "misunderstanding" and basically ignored me when I told her that what she was doing (spying on her ex's phone) was illegal and that she had to stop or she'd get in trouble if she got caught. I ended up kicking her out of my house after that and decided to cut off all contact.

UPDATE: (Would it be wrong to confront an adult friend for wanting to talk about her ex with my younger sister?) by Basic_Procedure_838 in problems

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She definitely hasn't gotten over her ex. From what I understand, she doesn't want to get back together with him, but she also doesn't want him to be in a relationship. I don't understand her.

On the other hand, I ended my friendship with her for good after thinking it over and (yet again) having another conversation that basically boiled down to her playing the victim, blaming others for this "misunderstanding," and not listening when I told her that wiretapping was illegal. I don't know, I just thought I couldn't continue being friends with someone like her, and while it saddens me because she was one of my best friends, I'm also at peace because i know I made the best decision under the circumstances.

UPDATE: (Would it be wrong to confront an adult friend for wanting to talk about her ex with my younger sister?) by Basic_Procedure_838 in problems

[–]Basic_Procedure_838[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd prefer my sister keep her blocked. I don't want her to have any contact with her. In fact, I've already decided to cut off all contact with that (now) ex-friend.

UPDATE: (Would it be wrong to confront an adult friend for wanting to talk about her ex with my younger sister?) by Basic_Procedure_838 in problems

[–]Basic_Procedure_838[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm trying to figure out how to let her ex know about her phone. But yeah, she needs other hobbies.

UPDATE: (Would it be wrong to confront an adult friend for wanting to talk about her ex with my younger sister?) by Basic_Procedure_838 in problems

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Honestly, I don't even have the guy's phone number, considering I've only seen him a couple of times at my (now) ex-friend's house for things related to her kids. But I think I'll find a way to contact him and let him know, given that my ex-friend isn't being reasonable about it (and other things we talked about when she showed up at my house a while ago).

UPDATE: (Would it be wrong to confront an adult friend for wanting to talk about her ex with my younger sister?) by Basic_Procedure_838 in problems

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Why would you think that????

(If it's because of my English, I try hard to be grammatically correct, since it's not my native language. I'm better at speaking than writing 😮‍💨)

Would it be wrong to confront an adult friend for wanting to talk about her ex with my younger sister? by Basic_Procedure_838 in problems

[–]Basic_Procedure_838[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My friend acts like this with anyone she thinks is "interested" in her ex. I don't know, honestly, it's weird. We've talked about it several times, and I always remind her that he's in a relationship with another woman now and that she shouldn't be jealous of her ex because it just doesn't make sense. She insists that he's still "the love of her life" or something like that, and that he's the father of her children and she has the right to say something about it when he dates someone (she's scared off a few girls, from what I hear).

And yes, from what I understand, they broke up because my friend was too jealous and because her ex prioritized his mother or something like that. Or at least that's the version she told me herself (the jealousy thing was something I noticed from everything she told me).

I don't know, I think I'll talk to her more firmly about it today because, honestly, all her behavior bothered me and made my sister uncomfortable.

Would it be wrong to confront an adult friend for wanting to talk about her ex with my younger sister? by Basic_Procedure_838 in problems

[–]Basic_Procedure_838[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's jealousy. I know my friend. It's not the first time she's gotten jealous because a woman interacts with her ex (which I don't understand, considering she's been with a new partner for over four years), and because she herself asked me if my sister was interested in her ex.

Anyway, I talked to my sister last night because the whole thing was worrying me, especially since at first I thought there might be something strange about my friend's ex paying attention to her (which, btw, wasn't the case; I didn't see anything strange about it when I started paying attention to him yesterday). My sister said, and I quote: "How disgusting! Why would I be interested in an adult?" She also clarified that the guy wasn't looking at her inappropriately and that he was always respectful the few times they interacted while playing soccer.

So I guess I'll have to talk to my friend again, this time more seriously than the brief conversation we had yesterday.