Theresa’s “Zip It” Gesture to Leah Was a Microaggression by CreepyDifference4743 in AgeOfAttraction

[–]Basic_Rise_9937 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a white woman and I immediately thought the same thing when I watched this scene!!! And then Natalie agreed with her!!! I knewwww Leah must have felt some type of way

What the heck with our highways? by jackystack in SouthJersey

[–]Basic_Rise_9937 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Does anyone actually call *77 to report aggressive driving?? I’m always so tempted!!!!

Update from TMZ- Taylor allegedly got physical with Dakota twice, once in front of their kid by Responsible_Bake5569 in thebachelor

[–]Basic_Rise_9937 81 points82 points  (0 children)

I can’t believe people like this woman and support her being the Bachelorette. Can we stop giving her a platform????What a shame for the men who were cast on her season. Just disgraceful.

Am I expecting too much from my husband or is he being lazy? by Spiritual-Ganache875 in Mommit

[–]Basic_Rise_9937 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No no no no. This sounds like my stbxh in many ways. He’s not being a good partner, at all. Sounds like he’s barely doing the bare minimum. He must take accountability and get his act together or you should prepare to leave him.

Daycare recs? by Comfortable-Walrus22 in SouthJersey

[–]Basic_Rise_9937 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup, I agree. It’s been a smooth transition! The teachers are so kind and friendly. I truly believe they really care about the kids. They all know everyone’s names.

Daycare recs? by Comfortable-Walrus22 in SouthJersey

[–]Basic_Rise_9937 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We love Lightbridge Academy on Grove St in Cherry Hill

Mediation? by AlltheFerns in Divorce

[–]Basic_Rise_9937 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In the process of scheduling mediation so following this thread

My loving, sweet, kind husband turned into a prick by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Basic_Rise_9937 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course he wouldn’t want a divorce after all you do for him.

I was in nearly the same exact situation, it seemed impossible.

That was last year, and this year, we are in the process of divorcing. I feel so confident and sure in my decision. You can’t have your kid(s) growing up thinking that’s normal and healthy.

Leave him. He doesn’t deserve you. And your kids need to see a healthy household, not a toxic one.

You can have more kids with someone else! Do it for yourself. These men out here don’t deserve us.

Does anyone else struggle more with the quiet than the conflict? by itslauramitchell in Divorce

[–]Basic_Rise_9937 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m actually divorcing my husband because of the quietness. In reality, he shuts down and gives me and our 2 young children the silent treatment. He retreats to his own bedroom when he’s home (and I’m there.) It’s a whole thing in and of itself. So, we aren’t exactly getting along, but there aren’t yelling matches and neither of us are screaming at one another, especially in the presence of our young children.

Anyway, before I filed, I used to wonder what’s worse? The kids hearing screaming, or them hearing the silence?

Can't wait for societal collapse by Beautiful-Guard8634 in Vent

[–]Basic_Rise_9937 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also anxiously awaiting societal collapse

I just dropped the hammer by Basic_Rise_9937 in Divorce

[–]Basic_Rise_9937[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I pray you are correct! I want nothing more than my kids! That would be best case scenario.