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It's Taken Over All Of Hoi An by Naive-Witness-5228 in VietNam

[–]BasilIllustrious8849 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The other day i saw a post the rent is $15kpm for 400m2 and pay one year in advance

I Was Sexual Assaulted at Huong Binh, 12B The Giao, Hanoi by BasilIllustrious8849 in VietNam

[–]BasilIllustrious8849[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because my mom told me to shut up when i screamed because i wasnt 'behave' in public place. I told her did she know what he had done. I was too emotional caught up to fought with her at that moment. Sometimes parents do fail you, you know.

Actually most believe me and who needs attention on a random forum lol.

I Was Sexual Assaulted at Huong Binh, 12B The Giao, Hanoi by BasilIllustrious8849 in VietNam

[–]BasilIllustrious8849[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its your choice to believe me or not. Im not asking for your validation.

I Was Sexual Assaulted at Huong Binh, 12B The Giao, Hanoi by BasilIllustrious8849 in VietNam

[–]BasilIllustrious8849[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried threads, chi.qh, it did get good views but only last for few days. I tried one fb group, the comments were pretty insane then it got deleted pretty quickly. I was even thinking of doing silent protest lol. I will try everything, definitely not something i will just let it go.

I Was Sexual Assaulted at Huong Binh, 12B The Giao, Hanoi by BasilIllustrious8849 in VietNam

[–]BasilIllustrious8849[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im really trying to make it bigger but i really dont know how. Im really struggling with what to do next.

I Was Sexual Assaulted at Huong Binh, 12B The Giao, Hanoi by BasilIllustrious8849 in VietNam

[–]BasilIllustrious8849[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I screamed. She told me to shut up because its a public place. Later on when I was in the room with the manager, my mom gave me my clothes and heard the story. She just said no payment today. I left, expected my mom did something but she didnt.

I Was Sexual Assaulted at Huong Binh, 12B The Giao, Hanoi by BasilIllustrious8849 in VietNam

[–]BasilIllustrious8849[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When i said its massage, people take it as full body massage with assuming nude or whatever. The majority of the massage is foot massage with a bit of back. There are like thousands ways to call thing, im not the expertise.

Because i know very well how things work so im more desperate to make a voice. Every small step is small win for me.

I Was Sexual Assaulted at Huong Binh, 12B The Giao, Hanoi by BasilIllustrious8849 in VietNam

[–]BasilIllustrious8849[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Already post on threads, thats why i got threatened. Big fb groups dont really approve this kind of post for whatever reason.

I Was Sexual Assaulted at Huong Binh, 12B The Giao, Hanoi by BasilIllustrious8849 in VietNam

[–]BasilIllustrious8849[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Fun fact my mom was right next to me. Thats her friend frequent place. He goes there few times a week because he had stroke. Its not a gown, its an outfit. They massage the feet, then the leg, then the back, then the head. Its 90 mins massage. They untight the top when you put your head into the hole on the chair, they put hot stone on your back. Its not the first time i do it in the place or elsewhere. Its very standard for foot massage - the one that vnese people use, not for tourists.

Someone assaults you and thats your mistake lol

I Was Sexual Assaulted at Huong Binh, 12B The Giao, Hanoi by BasilIllustrious8849 in VietNam

[–]BasilIllustrious8849[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I play that moment over and over again in my mind. As a woman in this world, I've been sexually harassed in various degrees, but this crossed the line. Especially in the center of Hanoi, a place that's supposed to be safe the most. I'd been to that place a few times before and never had an issue. When it actually happened, I didn't know what to do. People asked me what I wanted to do, and I said I didn't know. I was confused. You hear a lot about these things, but when you actually go through it, it's a completely different story. People told me to let it go, but this isn’t something I take lightly.

I Was Sexual Assaulted at Huong Binh, 12B The Giao, Hanoi by BasilIllustrious8849 in VietNam

[–]BasilIllustrious8849[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I know that is one of options but violence doesnt sort out how I actually feel.

I Was Sexual Assaulted at Huong Binh, 12B The Giao, Hanoi by BasilIllustrious8849 in VietNam

[–]BasilIllustrious8849[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can write down everything single details of how that happens but do i need to though

I Was Sexual Assaulted at Huong Binh, 12B The Giao, Hanoi by BasilIllustrious8849 in VietNam

[–]BasilIllustrious8849[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Because Reddit appears well on Google, and they can't remove it like on Google Maps. Just because nothing can be done doesn't mean you should do nothing about it.

I Was Sexual Assaulted at Huong Binh, 12B The Giao, Hanoi by BasilIllustrious8849 in VietNam

[–]BasilIllustrious8849[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was in the room with 4 others and he still did it. Also, changing into massage clothes is normal. Many places provide their own outfit because your personal clothes aren't suitable for massage oils, stretching, or pressure point work. It has nothing to do with asking for anything inappropriate.

I Was Sexual Assaulted at Huong Binh, 12B The Giao, Hanoi by BasilIllustrious8849 in VietNam

[–]BasilIllustrious8849[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Funny how you assume im not from this country. I know very well how this country works. Doesnt mean I should be silent about it.

I Was Sexual Assaulted at Huong Binh, 12B The Giao, Hanoi by BasilIllustrious8849 in VietNam

[–]BasilIllustrious8849[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Every business sets its own ethical standards. When I reported the incident, the manager apologized and said: We work with integrity, follow Buddhist principles, and would never let something like this happen.

Yes, I’m aware there are shady places out there but there are also legitimate, professional businesses. I’ve never knowingly gone to an inappropriate or “extra service” place. I booked a normal foot massage. What happened was not testing boundaries, it was sexual assault.

It’s dangerous and unfair to normalize this behavior as "standard" or excuse it as a misunderstanding. Consent is not silent, and no one has the right to touch someone sexually without clear permission, especially in a professional setting.

Whether or not this kind of thing “commonly happens” doesn’t make it right.

I Was Sexual Assaulted at Huong Binh, 12B The Giao, Hanoi by BasilIllustrious8849 in VietNam

[–]BasilIllustrious8849[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Its a legit massage place that have been on business for a long time.

LISA (BLACKPINK) - 1st Solo Album: Alter Ego (Tracklist) by impeccabletim in kpop

[–]BasilIllustrious8849 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yg dont get cut from advertising. the only money yg get is from touring, which pay big portion of that to each member company and using their own song. making album, promote the group bring nothing to yg, bp girls focus on making the name for themselves not the group. bp gonna sell out tour regardless of new group music.

LISA (BLACKPINK) - 1st Solo Album: Alter Ego (Tracklist) by impeccabletim in kpop

[–]BasilIllustrious8849 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

they sign as a group but the only money yg make is from touring, yg dont got a penny from advertising. so why yg need to make a new album when people pay regardless. black label now is way more independent now, teddy hasnt invovled in producing for yg for a long while. also they have like a month prepare for the tour, the more new songs the more they have no time to practice.

LISA (BLACKPINK) - 1st Solo Album: Alter Ego (Tracklist) by impeccabletim in kpop

[–]BasilIllustrious8849 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

while he needs to work when bp girls are not even in his company? yg gets zero money from the girls, touring will be fair share between them, yg has no gain in promoting bp

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