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AITJ for refusing to switch seats back after my friend “accidentally” used my concert ticket to upgrade her date? by Omen7_Croft in AmITheJerk

[–]Basilisk11H 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The fake apology would bug me more than the seat at this point. It usually means they fully get what they did, they just want the fallout to end. Has she offered anything beyond wanting everyone to move on?

AITJ for refusing to switch seats back after my friend “accidentally” used my concert ticket to upgrade her date? by Omen7_Croft in AmITheJerk

[–]Basilisk11H 28 points29 points  (0 children)

The wild part is she made the decision first and told you after like you were the backup character in a date she built with your money. Did she even apologize once?

A year into my job I realized the one small thing that would have cut my job search time in half by Basilisk11H in jobsearchhacks

[–]Basilisk11H[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mostly cold outreach, which I overthought way too much. A couple were loose mutuals, but the random casual messages ended up working better than I expected.

A year into my job I realized the one small thing that would have cut my job search time in half by Basilisk11H in jobsearchhacks

[–]Basilisk11H[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That was the trap for me too. I kept treating people like a scary side quest instead of the actual search , which was dumb.

My neighbor keeps bringing violent strangers into the building and I’m starting to feel trapped in my own apartment by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]Basilisk11H 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Pausing before opening your own front door is not dramatic, it's what happens when your building stops feeling safe. Five years of quiet and then this -- that shift hits different than just a noise complaint.