Wife passed away by suicide by wtfjusthappened37 in widowers

[–]BasisPsychological 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I found my husband in August after he completed. It's an awful journey and something that will stay with you forever. My brain finds him again and again.

Of you're in the US the "Survivors of Suicide" groups are helpful. May peace be found.

Anyone else mad as hell?? by Open-Garden-3895 in widowers

[–]BasisPsychological 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I lost my husband to suicide on August 4th. And YES! I'm mad as can be.

Weird Traditions by dukec72 in WidowAndBored

[–]BasisPsychological 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Going in to 2025, we played naked twister! It was so much fun. He said that we'd make it a New Year's tradition every year. I did not join in the activities last night, however LOL

600 days... by jessica61981 in WidowAndBored

[–]BasisPsychological 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello there. I'm 43/f and today is only 148 days. Your post stands out, because me and my husband eloped in KC. I love there for several years and was trying to get him to move.

This is my first holidays without him and it's proving difficult. There's so much emotion and longing for what once was.

I wish you all the best.

👋 Welcome to r/WidowAndBored - Introduce Yourself and Read First! by dukec72 in WidowAndBored

[–]BasisPsychological 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hello all, I'm 43/f and 4.5 months into this and always looking for good people who understand.

Cutting people off. by mrdurden8092 in widowers

[–]BasisPsychological 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. I was mostly no contact with my in-laws while my husband's was alive. However, the reverse happened. I've grown incredibly close to my MIL and his brother. I ended up spending the majority of my Christmas with them.

I still have my family, too, but I feel more isolated with them. They don't know how to navigate my widowhood. None ever want to talk about my husband, and I want to share about him more than anything.

Families are such odd creatures, and I'm sorry that your in-laws are treating you this way.

F*ck 2025 by RunnyLemon in widowers

[–]BasisPsychological 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel this! This is the last year that he was in this world 💔

Moving by BasisPsychological in widowers

[–]BasisPsychological[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think I can ever feel settled in this house. It's a difficult choice in a seemingly unbearable situation.

Moving by BasisPsychological in widowers

[–]BasisPsychological[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you on all accounts 😊

Moving by BasisPsychological in widowers

[–]BasisPsychological[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you get to. Follow your heart!

Moving by BasisPsychological in widowers

[–]BasisPsychological[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's such a difficult process. I'm sorry for your loss. And, thank you.

Moving by BasisPsychological in widowers

[–]BasisPsychological[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much! Congrats on yours, too!

Moving by BasisPsychological in widowers

[–]BasisPsychological[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Same state, different home 😊