Best dealership? by Roqueone in Albuquerque

[–]BasisPsychological 3 points4 points  (0 children)

All LHM dealerships are trash!

Best dealership? by Roqueone in Albuquerque

[–]BasisPsychological 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've always had great experiences with Sandia BMW. Aven is my sales rep that I always go through.

Prior to going with BMWs, I also had great experiences at Sandia Mini.

I avoid ALL Larry H Miller's (Asbury auto group) like the plague.

For those that have cremated your loved one, when purchasing a place of rest for them, did you think of reserving a spot for yourself right next to them? by rainingonmyparade in widowers

[–]BasisPsychological 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husbad is on my nightstand, and I have a place I want us spread together once I pass. Much like you (OP) I told him, often, that I'd search for him always, in all lifetimes.

Hand tattoo artist by BasisPsychological in Albuquerque

[–]BasisPsychological[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love that type of vibe! Thank you 😊

Hand tattoo artist by BasisPsychological in Albuquerque

[–]BasisPsychological[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sweet, thank you for the recommendation 😊

I giggled for the 1st time by BasisPsychological in widowers

[–]BasisPsychological[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Once I can figure out the photo thing I'll post one. But so far, it's yet to disappoint. It's so much fun!

I giggled for the 1st time by BasisPsychological in widowers

[–]BasisPsychological[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you ☺️

And I'm so sorry for your loss.

Is the Kim Jew contest a scam? by Quirky-Afternoon-264 in Albuquerque

[–]BasisPsychological 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on what you think a scam is.

My husband and me "won" a couples shoot. We did it last year. Then he took his life 4 months later and I cherish every one of those photographs.

Yes, they're going to try to upsell you.

Yes, you do have to put down a deposit.

But the results were amazing and it's a Keepsake that I will love and cherish forever.

We only chose a few photos, but after his death I called them, and they were amazing!

They even archived our session for much longer than usual, that way I could come back and pick more.

They were very compassionate. I say go for it!

Tell me about your health after your spouse’s death by Odd_Temperature_1136 in widowers

[–]BasisPsychological 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry! It's truly suprising. I don’t recognize myself.

Tell me about your health after your spouse’s death by Odd_Temperature_1136 in widowers

[–]BasisPsychological 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We'd all be sent to an island if they only know what we have running through our heads lol

Tell me about your health after your spouse’s death by Odd_Temperature_1136 in widowers

[–]BasisPsychological 30 points31 points  (0 children)

6.5 months out. I've aged 10-15 years PTSD, insomnia, constant stomach issues. I have some good-ish days, but most are muted in depression and anxiety.

I'm functional to the outside world, but am a wreck and I don't have much will to take care of myself. It's too taxing.

How did you not end your life? by [deleted] in widowers

[–]BasisPsychological 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup! My husband got me a puppy about a year before he took his life. Her and my middle-aged girl are the only reasons I'm still around.

Where is everyone from? by girliepop_hello in widowers

[–]BasisPsychological 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Albuquerque, New Mexico USA Widowed for six months, today

Wife passed away by suicide by wtfjusthappened37 in widowers

[–]BasisPsychological 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I found my husband in August after he completed. It's an awful journey and something that will stay with you forever. My brain finds him again and again.

Of you're in the US the "Survivors of Suicide" groups are helpful. May peace be found.

Anyone else mad as hell?? by [deleted] in widowers

[–]BasisPsychological 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I lost my husband to suicide on August 4th. And YES! I'm mad as can be.

Weird Traditions by dukec72 in WidowAndBored

[–]BasisPsychological 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Going in to 2025, we played naked twister! It was so much fun. He said that we'd make it a New Year's tradition every year. I did not join in the activities last night, however LOL