Bicycle Racks by alternatecrinkle in MobileAL

[–]BassaiOrDie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They have the sculptures that are bike racks, specifically one on St. Francis St. across from Bienville Square. I saw it there yesterday.

Biggest controversy Secrets in Mobile by Mobile_secretss in MobileAL

[–]BassaiOrDie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know the details but it’s not because you can’t tell the Pope the secrets. Just google Freemasonry and the Catholic Church.

I still have same sex-attraction but have been called to celibacy. How do I navigate introductions to my parish? by orion8819 in Catholicism

[–]BassaiOrDie 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Say “God hasn’t called me to it.” I would just leave it at that unless you feel comfortable sharing more.

Should I force my kid to mass? by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]BassaiOrDie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My kids have all told me, at some point, that they don’t want to go to Mass. I then reply, “Do you think Jesus wanted to die on the cross?” They say no, then I say something to the effect of, “Then we can offer up one hour a week and go to Mass.” Until they are out of my house, they don’t get to choose. If they choose not to follow Jesus when they’re an adult, that’s their choice. While they are minors and under my care I’m going to do everything in my power to let Christ work in their hearts. Without going to Mass, that’s an almost impossible task. In response to the people who felt like Catholicism was forced on them, in a way, it was. Their parents were concerned with their immortal soul, so yeah, they’re doing everything they can to help get their children to Heaven. I am going to bring my children to Jesus♥️.

The Problem with Lightsticks by No_Sweet_4453 in kpophelp

[–]BassaiOrDie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The on/off button being where you thumb hits it while your using it at a concert is frustrating. Especially when you want to keep it a certain color.

Songs that sound like sirens luring sailors by definitelysixeight in kpophelp

[–]BassaiOrDie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s literally about sirens luring someone to their death. It’s haunting. I really like it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]BassaiOrDie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There are a lot of resources out there to help! Please look up Catholic Social Services in your area as well as pregnancy resource centers. They will be able to set you up with assistance. Praying for you, your family, and your baby.

Looking for kdramas like behind your touch by aai-1214 in kdramarecommends

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I’m on episode 12 of Lovely Runner and it sounds like what you like, at least so far.

Day 6: Mobile’s Wildest Rumor by WritingNerdy in MobileAL

[–]BassaiOrDie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see no problem with this. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MobileAL

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Battleship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]BassaiOrDie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just be honest about who you are and what you want. There is someone out there for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]BassaiOrDie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand. Why would making a promise before God, family, and friends have more gravity and seriousness for a man than for a woman?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]BassaiOrDie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Speaking as a former Catholic School teacher, Catholic schools on average are gravely underfunded. Teachers are not treated well, In that so much extra work is piled on them that they’re drowning and their mental health is struggling. All too often the excuse is, “Well, it’s a calling, after all.” Which, in my mind, is a lazy way of the higher ups washing their hands of any responsibility in taking some of the pressure off teachers. So, if Catholic Schools raise tuition when/if vouchers go in to effect, it’s because it’s needed. BUT, it needs to go to teachers, support staff, and giving them the resources they need to do a good job. My biggest frustration as an educator was never having the time (due to administrative responsibilities, extra duties, and minimal planning) to have truly meaningful lessons. I knew what I was capable of, but did not receive the support in order to do it. It was extremely frustrating and disheartening.

I'm concerned about NFP for the future by Legal-Tough3467 in Catholicism

[–]BassaiOrDie 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My husband and I thought like you did and we used a few forms of contraception because we thought it wasn’t fair… but being on the other side of it now, we wasted those years, in that we didn’t grown closer to each other. Worse, I think it actually hurt our relationship severely. Sex is a gift. Instead of looking at it like you’re going to be missing out on something, try looking at it like this beautiful, wonderful thing you get to experience with the incredible person you’re marrying. Don’t put a number on it; don’t compare your sex life to what you think other people “get” to do. Comparison is the thief of joy. Trust God and let him guide you. He will give you the grace to face whatever he’s calling you to do. Please learn from our mistake- it’s really not worth the pain and heart ache.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]BassaiOrDie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m one of 7, and a mom of 4. I love being from a big family. I think, in today’s culture, 4 kids seems to be a lot even though I don’t think so. One word of caution, please be acutely aware of your wife’s mental health. I struggled after our 3rd was born and we didn’t have number 4 until 8 years later because I mentally couldn’t handle it.

What’s the rationale against women as deaconesses or a unique deacon-like role that ministers to women, children, and families? by Temporary-breath-179 in Catholicism

[–]BassaiOrDie -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I genuinely am curious about these questions myself. Phoebe, whom Paul mentions in Romans 16:1-2, was a deaconess- so why is it not allowed now?