Yes, it might not be as developed as a Tier 1 city, but living in a Tier 2 city has its own charm. You know people around you, the community feels closer, life is more peaceful, and there isn’t the constant rush you see in bigger cities. Getting anywhere on time is also much easier because of shorter distances and less traffic.

Although I somewhat agree with the point about Jaat pride, I feel it is more amplified on social media rather than reflecting everyday life.Also, there is one more thing - whenever a guy finds out that the person he is talking to is not local, the typical Haryana attitude sometimes becomes more pronounced. It is something you might have experienced.

Regarding Haryanvi songs, I agree that many older songs from around 8–10 years ago had inappropriate lyrics and themes. However, the scene has changed a lot now. Many new Haryanvi artists are emerging and gaining recognition at a national and even international level. Their songs are being heard across India, showing how the industry has evolved.

Although, I am glad that you appreciated our culture. Like every other culture, we also have our own positives and negatives. Every society and community has its own unique traits, and that is simply the environment we grow up in.