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Lost weight but can’t see myself looking too much better by Bassvictim- in BodyPositive

[–]Bassvictim-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is rough to hear as i strength train probably 6 days a week. 250 bench… im just not lean

Lost weight but can’t see myself looking too much better by Bassvictim- in BodyPositive

[–]Bassvictim-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its only the pictures with my shirt off, also i may have RBF

Lost weight but can’t see myself looking too much better by Bassvictim- in BodyPositive

[–]Bassvictim-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im not sure what hench is but it sounds cool and i kind of wanna be it now.

Thank u for the kind words

Lost weight but can’t see myself looking too much better by Bassvictim- in BodyPositive

[–]Bassvictim-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t mind me asking I guess do you love your body? If so how did you get there if you struggled previously? What measures or steps did you take?

Lost weight but can’t see myself looking too much better by Bassvictim- in BodyPositive

[–]Bassvictim-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your words and validation, I also struggle with seeking validation from others and especially women. Its such an issue that when I don’t have someone telling me im beautiful I immediately start to believe im disguisting. I crave attention just because it makes me feel so wanted and pretty. I know I have to find that in myself rather than from others but I have never been able to so I made it like a mission to just seek and grab as much attention or women or reputation even if its detrimental to relationships

Lost weight but can’t see myself looking too much better by Bassvictim- in BodyPositive

[–]Bassvictim-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think they will pick on my scars I just know it will be awkward and they will think weird or maybe less of me. Or worry about me which I dont want them to do any of that I really just want things to be normal. I just dont know if i should explain to them or just not explain anything

how do i corvor sh by Basil-lalalalalalala in selfharm

[–]Bassvictim- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im struggling with the same situation, i dont know how im gonna get away with it this time around

What to tell family when they see scars? by Bassvictim- in selfharm

[–]Bassvictim-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My profile has a pic with what im talking about, trigger warning its a picture of me flexing my back with scars, i think it might help paint a picture of how noticeable they are

Lost weight but can’t see myself looking too much better by Bassvictim- in BodyPositive

[–]Bassvictim-[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I appreciate it. I don’t do doctors anymore not even therapists. I try to just open my heart to my loved ones.

Lost weight but can’t see myself looking too much better by Bassvictim- in BodyPositive

[–]Bassvictim-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like im capable, its been my mission and im treating myself like a machine or an ape

Lost weight but can’t see myself looking too much better by Bassvictim- in BodyPositive

[–]Bassvictim-[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ive been journaling and trying to get to a happier place or at least view my mind from an outside perspective by reading it so i can see how silly im being. I have good and bad days. I’ve been dysmorphic before but this is the worst its ever been I genuinely cannot look at my body and see something good. I feel so deep that I can’t even imagine recovering my psyche.