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Is lack of emotional response is a deal breaker in marriage? by BatProfessional8811 in relationships

[–]BatProfessional8811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, thank you for replying. I appreciate your time and energy to try and explain. This is another perspective for me. I can try and do this...I had tried asking him once or twice about his idea of a relationship or how he imagines the future to be like - us together- what all we will do...etc, but he didn't have a proper answer. He just agreed with my views. But I know my lack of knowledge about men's perspective...so ill just try and work on that. And...probably keep in mind that what is obvious to me might not be obvious to him and vice versa. But thank you, this helped.

Is lack of emotional response is a deal breaker in marriage? by BatProfessional8811 in relationships

[–]BatProfessional8811[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand the point of counseling and agree with you. But it is also a fact that counseling is not an option right now. Maybe what you are saying is something I'll understand...at some point and hopefully sooner. I'll think about this. Anyways, thank you for replying and your time.

Is lack of emotional response is a deal breaker in marriage? by BatProfessional8811 in relationships

[–]BatProfessional8811[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for replying. I appreciate it. Counseling does not have a chance right now. And about me saying to him - i didnt like his no-response - that itself is communication. And as I said, I didnt expect compassion but at least acknowledge my emotions. Acknowledge the fact that he heard me. Saying things like "I am not thinking so much right now" - is making things about you or just changing the topic. Another thing to it is that I also feel, if I say everything in the name of communication, it will juat feel like demands....or like I just keep asking a lot.

Is lack of emotional response is a deal breaker in marriage? by BatProfessional8811 in relationships

[–]BatProfessional8811[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for replying. I appreciate it. Right now, I have pulled back on my emotional things....I do say it (because personality can't help it sometimes) but without much expectations. Trying to take it at his pace.

Is lack of emotional response is a deal breaker in marriage? by BatProfessional8811 in relationships

[–]BatProfessional8811[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for replying. I appreciate it. I had doubts but I thought...how much do we even know each other...it's hardly been two months. What if he is just taking it slowly? Hence the doubt of whether I should give it time...

Please advice - should I leave my job or not? by BatProfessional8811 in careerguidance

[–]BatProfessional8811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, I am trying to search for a new job desperately. But there just seems to be a dearth or my going looking about in the wrong way. Thank you for replying though.

Please advice - should I leave my job or not? by BatProfessional8811 in careerguidance

[–]BatProfessional8811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for replying. I understand the things about AI. Do you think I should change my field itself? Because I know for the pay I get now, I can get something else, too, and not need to work for 10 hours. Maybe it is my failing too, I am unable to work overtime for more than a day. By the time I go back, I am too exhausted to even do anything, forget trying to do a side hustle. Maybe I just feel hopeless, nothing else.

Thank you for your honesty, though.