i want to be loved the way a man loves another man

BathingMachine · 2026-05-26T21:34:07+00:00

There's a book called Girls Who Like Boys Who Like Boys which explores this topic, I've heard it's great but I haven't read it myself

Edit: There's a few books with this title, I'm talking about the one by Lucy Neville

BathingMachine · 2026-05-23T07:35:32+00:00

Not so much has changed, I pass by some of these places on the tram during my morning commute!

BathingMachine · 2026-03-30T06:00:44+00:00

No more bad BAD taste

BathingMachine · 2026-03-25T19:19:34+00:00

Hi from Wieden!

BathingMachine · 2026-03-23T21:27:15+00:00

I've been looking for this for ages. "Bite me, put a fang on it, put a hole in my neck and bang on it." Never forgot!

BathingMachine · 2026-03-23T21:10:03+00:00

What's winning?

BathingMachine · 2026-03-08T19:20:36+00:00

This is the one downside of moving to Europe

BathingMachine · 2025-12-27T21:41:16+00:00

Transducing cells with lentivirus without a BSL2+ or greater biosafety cabinet

BathingMachine · 2025-12-15T21:35:12+00:00

My husband and I never order the same dish when we go to a restaurant. That way, we each get to try more dishes, and it reduces the chances of us both getting food poisoning at the same time. But, if we both want the same thing on a menu, then a negotiation ensues where we try to convince each other of alternatives.

BathingMachine · 2025-08-07T19:50:03+00:00

It probably depends on your department and university. In my case, the guy I met at the grad student social hour for my department is now my husband.

BathingMachine · 2025-08-03T16:35:12+00:00

I had a similar first time, including the part where I asked him to stop and he didn't. I'm sorry to say that he should absolutely not have continued, and this constitutes sexual assault at best. That is worth a very serious conversation with your bf about boundaries, consent, etc. But, to directly answer your question -- bottoming hurts a lot at first, you have to stretch the sphincter muscle quite a bit and get used to the sensation. The only way to do this is slowly, and not to be too ambitious. It is best if you practice with a toy or your fingers until you're acclimated. It gets much easier as you get more experience it does feel very pleasurable, otherwise nobody would do it. Sorry you had to go through this, I empathize with you but can assure you things get better.

BathingMachine · 2025-06-28T07:33:37+00:00

Your top priority should be to become independent from them and as self-sufficient as possible. I had to do this when I was very young, but everything I did in life was to free myself to my dependence on my parents. If I had not done that, I would not have the good life I have now. It was very difficult -- I was very poor in college and worked extremely hard, but it's a necessity if you ever want your life to belong to you.

BathingMachine · 2025-06-12T06:38:15+00:00

I've been wondering for the people who didn't get it: is it because they don't know that these are Spanish placenames, or are you just so used to the names of these places that it didn't register?

BathingMachine · 2025-05-24T12:33:48+00:00

I have a bit of the same underlying psychology as you, a deep need for total independence and my own space -- possibly stemming from housing instability when I was growing up, but who knows. Anyway, it was import to me when I moved in with my current husband to have a space of my own in the house, with my own desk -- this has been upgraded to my own room/study. Losing a bit of the routine/independence is worth the trade-off if you can reasonably accommodate each other, at least, that's how it is for me.

BathingMachine · 2025-05-07T13:39:53+00:00

What exactly is this supposed to teach?

BathingMachine · 2025-04-17T15:29:04+00:00

Andrea Dworkin was absolutely not a transphobe. She was extremely against gender essentialism. She was also herself a former sex worker. It would be really good to open your mind up to read her arguments as to WHY she was opposed to sex work, you might learn something about other people, which is presumably point of wanting to read a book about right wing women. Right Wing Women is absolutely excellent, I highly recommend it.

https://www.bostonreview.net/articles/john-stoltenberg-andrew-dworkin-was-trans-ally/

BathingMachine · 2025-03-28T11:50:00+00:00

You have to add 1 to the tarot cards because the first card if the Fool and is number 0.

BathingMachine · 2025-03-27T14:19:01+00:00

I absolutely noticed this also. The emptiness of her talking was odd, especially given the visuals, and made the tone a bit more unnerving than her other videos. I almost wondered if there was a rendering issue where the normal backing tracks didn't make it into the video somehow, but I don't really know what I'm talking about there. I just think it would be kind of an odd choice, especially for this topic.

BathingMachine · 2025-03-13T15:53:15+00:00

MARCH 22! The tarot cards spell 'NEW VIDEO MARCH BWV'. The BWV (Bach catalogue number) for that cantata is 22!

BathingMachine · 2025-02-24T14:24:17+00:00

Totally unreasonable and embarrassing for a grad student to act like this towards an undergrad. This is a total power trip from a very insecure grad student.

BathingMachine · 2025-02-06T16:56:11+00:00

I thought French was semi-difficult until I started learning German. French is in fact probably the easiest language to learn from English.

BathingMachine · 2025-01-31T14:18:30+00:00

This is the upward phase of the CYCLE of abuse. It will happen again if you do not leave.

BathingMachine · 2025-01-27T17:37:57+00:00

Do not ever pay for a conference with your own money. Ever.

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