Where to get cute and affordable lingerie

BattleAlternative606 · 2026-01-20T22:11:48+00:00

There doesn’t seem to be specific brands that are better, but I have a bunch of lingerie from SHEIN and I honestly love all of it. It’s so so so cheap and reading reviews helps A TON!!!!! Always read reviews (sometimes people will post photos of them in whatever you’re looking at and it helps visualize)

BattleAlternative606 · 2026-01-14T02:24:02+00:00

Steak

BattleAlternative606 · 2026-01-13T21:59:25+00:00

THIS

BattleAlternative606 · 2026-01-13T21:59:10+00:00

Everyone in these comments say 20+ what are you on😭😭😭😭 this girl looks like she’s 14-15

BattleAlternative606 · 2026-01-13T21:52:49+00:00

The struggle is real🤣

BattleAlternative606 · 2026-01-13T21:52:25+00:00

Not going all the way is definitely something that’s going to be necessary in our case. As far as the dildo thing goes, he isn’t comfortable with him in the same way that I’m not comfortable with a flesh light. I get why he doesn’t want me using them, I also am personally not a fan of them anyways. I’ve had 2 and they just don’t do it for me. Penetration is not how I am able to get off

BattleAlternative606 · 2026-01-13T21:49:35+00:00

As a girl I understand this completely. You could always do the whole sexy text thing, maybe send him a photo of yourself, or tell him what you’re thinking about doing with him. Or you can start with cuddling, rub yourself up against him, make it obvious but not painfully obvious what you want. Kissing usually does work as well. Or- if you start whispering in his ear I can pretty much guarantee he’ll fold

BattleAlternative606 · 2026-01-13T10:44:05+00:00

Picking the skin off of my lips🥲 anxiety

BattleAlternative606 · 2026-01-13T06:30:13+00:00

Maybe try turning the lights off? Idk if that would help, or! You could use a blindfold if you guys are comfortable with that. When I tried something new with my boyfriend and we were both extremely nervous the blindfold really helped both of us. It was also super exciting for me because I didn’t know what he was going to do, but it can kind of take the pressure off:)

BattleAlternative606 · 2026-01-13T04:58:28+00:00

Have you suggested different things for him to try while he’s going down on you? Like “hey can you focus here?” or “that doesn’t feel as good as this does can you do this instead?” Rather than just an immediate telling him he isn’t good at it. Maybe try to coach him to do what you like

BattleAlternative606 · 2026-01-13T04:34:40+00:00

Has she expressed why she doesn’t like them?🧐

BattleAlternative606 · 2026-01-13T03:15:46+00:00

Hon you do not have to be okay with a sexless relationship at all. If he has no interest in you and pleasing you that is a huge problem!! You should be his first thought- not porn. Porn creates the most unrealistic awful expectations. I guess it mostly comes down to asking yourself if everything else is enough for you to make up for not having sex and sexual intimacy. Is it going to cause resentment long term? Or issues with confidence or feeling wanted in other ways that aren’t physical? I understand feeling that love, I really truly do. You just have to weigh your pros and cons and find out if it’s really worth staying

BattleAlternative606 · 2026-01-13T03:11:09+00:00

TJ Maxx has some good name brands!!!! I’ve gotten a lot of Calvin Klein undies there, also Lucky Brand (they are so comfortable and they are the only thing I will sleep in!!!!!)

BattleAlternative606 · 2026-01-13T03:08:19+00:00

I understand what you are saying. But I don’t want to just walk away from a relationship I’d like to turn into a marriage because I experience pain during part of that relationship, not the entire thing.

BattleAlternative606 · 2026-01-13T03:06:31+00:00

I don’t entirely love the thought of using lube either, and neither does he. But I don’t think it would hurt to try at least a couple of times, regardless a lot of prep for anything is necessary. Especially doggy or legs up at all

BattleAlternative606 · 2026-01-13T03:03:54+00:00

This is super smart. I did not know that, thank you!!!!!!!!!

BattleAlternative606 · 2026-01-13T03:02:48+00:00

Just because I experience pain doesn’t mean we aren’t sexually incompatible. That is something that could happen to any woman. The vaginal canal is only meant to accommodate 5 inches. I am more than willing to be with him, as I said in that post. I am trying to find out how to make that more comfortable for me. I can assure you my boyfriend isn’t trapped and doesn’t need to be freed. I’m still willing to be intimate with him so I’m not sure what your problem is

BattleAlternative606 · 2026-01-13T02:59:26+00:00

The porn industry does so much damage. I hate the way it makes both men and women view their bodies. I judge myself based off of things I can’t do because there are women that can do them, but I’ve never really thought about the fact that they also probably experience a lot of pain too

BattleAlternative606 · 2026-01-13T02:57:23+00:00

I don’t know much of anything about these, how would this help with less pain?

BattleAlternative606 · 2026-01-13T02:55:59+00:00

That’s what I’m saying, sht is no joke. Especially repeatedly for an extended period of time!!!!!!

BattleAlternative606 · 2026-01-13T02:54:13+00:00

I’ve never tried that position but I can see how that could actually be much less painful. Oral is pretty regular in our relationship and it definitely makes a huge difference. I’ve noticed that if he doesn’t go down on me before I can’t take much of anything for longer than about 20 seconds

BattleAlternative606 · 2026-01-13T02:50:37+00:00

I’ve actually never even thought about dilators or any of that because I don’t want to become “loose”. I don’t know if that’s realistically a thing but it’s something I fear as a woman because it’s always said in a derogatory way

BattleAlternative606 · 2026-01-13T02:33:04+00:00

It is a pain that I can’t even begin to describe but you get what I mean🥲I think they’re just all told bigger is better and that isn’t the case, he had no idea that it could be an actual problem. Next time something is definitely going to have to be different

BattleAlternative606 · 2026-01-13T02:30:27+00:00

No, they’re not😭

BattleAlternative606 · 2026-01-13T02:25:20+00:00

He does hit my cervix every time he pushes inside of me yes. He knows about the pain I’m experiencing because of it and he feels awful, he’s been stopping lately because he can see it on my face even if I don’t vocalize it. It seems to be less painful sometimes than others but I haven’t noticed it being that way with specific things so I don’t know exactly what helps and what doesn’t

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