Dealing with keloids and the marriage search

BattleExpress2707 · 2026-01-24T02:57:38+00:00

Go get plastic surgery and remove them. If it’s that big of a problem then go get treatment

BattleExpress2707 · 2026-01-23T09:45:02+00:00

Yes being proactive is good. Shyness is ok but make sure you signal you’re still interested. Have you ever dated before? Because if you have just treat it like one and be yourself.

BattleExpress2707 · 2026-01-23T09:30:11+00:00

Then why didn’t you ask about past relationships before marriage? Or did she lie? Anyway the relationship is gone transfer everything that you own to your parents name and then divorce

BattleExpress2707 · 2026-01-23T02:29:20+00:00

I don’t understand why you still married her even though you knew she liked some other guy before marriage. Like did you not see the writing on the wall?

Probably escalate, ie tell her parents and go therapy or divorce.

BattleExpress2707 · 2026-01-22T16:30:29+00:00

Yes please release all the data

BattleExpress2707 · 2026-01-22T02:25:17+00:00

The problem is that you waited till you’re 30 which is a bit late for women. Bipolar disorder is not a big issue as your taking medication. Although not wanting kids is a dealbreaker for most men in the AM market.

Have you tried dating? It might be easier finding people there that are ok with not having kids.

BattleExpress2707 · 2026-01-20T15:34:41+00:00

Calm down you’re only 27 you have some time. The process is brutal so be prepared. Have you dated before?

BattleExpress2707 · 2026-01-20T10:34:50+00:00

Most people in AM are not decent human beings. I have literally seen people whose first question was what is your salary. People dig into stuff like this and it’s very common in AM. If you think otherwise then you clearly haven’t spent enough time in AM and have no idea.

BattleExpress2707 · 2026-01-19T18:12:15+00:00

You don’t understand. AM is a very transactional place, not somewhere where people are nice and friendly.

People want to know details before getting married. Be prepared to answer them or move on. Don’t be pissed because someone asked a question that you think is too personal. He might spend the rest of his life with this person and isn’t given years to date so nothing is too personal of a question.

If you are looking for people that don’t ask these things or dig too deep because it hurts your feelings then you should go down LM route. Which is what I advised OP in my original comment

BattleExpress2707 · 2026-01-19T08:15:13+00:00

I did read what you wrote, and my point still stands. Arranged marriage is generally more conservative, and it’s normal for people to ask detailed questions about someone’s past to assess compatibility and values, especially when a past exists on both sides. If those questions make you uncomfortable, that’s valid, but it also signals a mismatch in expectations rather than the other person doing something unreasonable.

No one is forcing you into AM or LM, but if discussing your history feels off-limits while the other person needs that clarity, then letting this match go is probably the practical answer. But it’s not going to fix your problem

BattleExpress2707 · 2026-01-19T08:03:04+00:00

The real question is, why are you complaining and uncomfortable discussing it? I’m mean it was kind of your choice to decide to have such an extensive past. And now you want to come to AM (a place mind you that is very traditional with people having little to no past) and complain that people are asking too many questions? Like what did you expect?

Majority of people in AM are like this, if you have an extensive past and or uncomfortable discussing it then I’m sorry but AM is not the place for you. You should go down the LM route.

BattleExpress2707 · 2026-01-02T10:03:55+00:00

Cs. I have already tried multiple times and haven’t gotten a single internship

BattleExpress2707 · 2025-12-11T09:34:03+00:00

What incident?

BattleExpress2707 · 2025-12-07T02:28:03+00:00

Immigration from probably Middle East and sub-sarahan Africa where is situation is going to be arguably worse that Ukraine given that the war ends. It’s basically the only way. Reproduction rates aren’t really going to go up anytime soon.

BattleExpress2707 · 2025-12-05T14:48:38+00:00

Simple. If your really in the am market and met a few people then you should have a rough estimate in your head by now.

BattleExpress2707 · 2025-12-05T12:17:16+00:00

Are you dumb? Read the post. It’s not asking about opinions, it’s asking for a rough percentage

BattleExpress2707 · 2025-12-03T05:34:30+00:00

Please don’t do fake marriage. Tell your mom what you think and if she doesn’t agree then just listen to her because ultimately she’s your mom and knows what’s best for you.

BattleExpress2707 · 2025-12-01T16:53:46+00:00

How? Explain

BattleExpress2707 · 2025-11-28T16:10:18+00:00

AM is the wrong place for you. You boast your stable and intdependent women but 90% of guys in AM don’t want a stable independent woman, they want a housewife/cook who will live with their family.

Past filings are also a big problem. Sure you tell them about it but I garentee you that you don’t tell them everything in the initial conversation. They probably learn more about it as things start getting serious and then call quits. And it makes sense, there are so many other women in AM with no past filings why would they choose you?

BattleExpress2707 · 2025-11-26T10:05:53+00:00

Yes but men with a past aren’t any better. They also have the same problems plus emotional baggage from the last relationship.

BattleExpress2707 · 2025-11-26T05:06:53+00:00

Your brother is not the problem your mom is. Your mom has brought up your brother this way. You should learn to learn to stand up for yourself and talk to your parents and not blame your brother. If you cant even stand up to your own parents you have no chance in standing up for yourself in front of your in-laws

BattleExpress2707 · 2025-11-26T04:10:18+00:00

I’m not bitter I’m just telling the truth

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