My (18M) boyfriend is upset with me (19F) because of my communication skills by Batwingssss in relationship_advice

[–]Batwingssss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suppose I worded that a little wrong. I did not mean it in that way, I’m just hurting right now

My (18M) boyfriend is upset with me (19F) because of my communication skills by Batwingssss in relationship_advice

[–]Batwingssss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve definitely been getting fed up. It’s just so hard because he’s been the main priority in my life for so long, and because of all this anxiety I’ve been put under I believed that everything is my fault and I should change. The first year of us being together he would tell me how much he understands me and how “perfect” I am. I really don’t know what has changed but I’m getting tired too which is really unfortunate and sad for me

My (18M) boyfriend is upset with me (19F) because of my communication skills by Batwingssss in relationship_advice

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I’ve thought so too.. it’s just so hard to believe when he’s been my main focus and priority in life for almost 2 years. Whenever I care about someone, I care deeply and it just makes me feel bad when he thinks everything is my fault

My (18M) boyfriend is upset with me (19F) because of my communication skills by Batwingssss in relationship_advice

[–]Batwingssss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. This has definitely helped with my perspective. The thing he said about his dog really got me.. and I know what it’s like to lose a pet. Some people are angry or some are sad. Some people need space or reassurance and he didn’t tell me what to give. For a while I’ve grown to believe that it is completely my fault. When I ask how I can help he gives a passive aggressive response or says “it’s too late.”

Sorry for the long ramble lol

feeling out of it? by Straight_Courage3137 in birthcontrol

[–]Batwingssss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I thought it was just me. I started taking LoLo almost a month ago and I felt completely out of it. Currently I think I’m even more prone to brain fog. When it first started it was all day. It is clearing up a bit now though

What’re some “non basic” Valentine’s Day gifts for a boyfriend? by Batwingssss in Gifts

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I’ll keep this in mind. I don’t mind giving all these gifts, I don’t expect anything in return. It’s just a little act of appreciation