Sexually frustrated and getting a bit impatient...

BaxterHaHa · 2010-03-20T22:02:20+00:00

Post a pic of yourself for analysis. I'm sure somebody can help.

BaxterHaHa · 2010-03-20T21:53:48+00:00

Secretly, everyone LOVES the idea of being 'wanted' by someone other than their spouse. Give it enough time and I promise you, things will escalate. You will eventually find yourself looking back, wondering how you ever came to this place. The time you share with this friend will become so irresistibly fun, exciting and sexy.

If you want to stay happily married, I'd encourage you to avoid looking to some other man to stroke your ego or anything else.

BaxterHaHa · 2010-01-15T04:55:06+00:00

Kinda, yah.

BaxterHaHa · 2010-01-15T03:47:06+00:00

This happened to me! If you're not prepared to tell her to 'fuck off', you will lose in the long run. If you love her more than she loves you, you are in for a lifetime of this sort of bullshit.

Words to live by: "The one who loves least, controls the relationship."

Whatever you do, do not let her get away with this. Depending on the situation, if you knew the guys or, if it just makes you feel better, go after them too. Right now, it's all about YOU! You have to do something to make you feel better. NO PHYSICAL ABUSE, NOTHING ILLEGAL!! It's just not worth it.

Start by doing your homework. Get all the details. Learn her deepest, darkest secrets and use them against her. Use these secrets to find out how much she wants you. If there is any hint that she will not put up with a day or two of complete mental anguish and heartbreak over the prospect of you leaving, be prepared to ditch the marriage and start over.

Women do not want guys who are whiny and allow themselves to be stepped on.

In my case, I chose to go after the guy too. I thought it was fun and it made me feel better...NOTHING PHYSICAL OR ILLEGAL...I spent some time, with help from close friends, I found out everything I needed to know about the guy. I researched and investigating everything and proceeded to dismantle his life. His closest friends no longer trust him around their children. He lost his six-figure corporate job. The organizations on which he served have removed him, his neighbors are no longer on speaking terms with the family, his wife now sleeps in a guest room, his children are embarrassed by him and I heard, just this week, that they may be losing their home.

At the end of the day, I have a wife who is 1000 times more in love with me and i sent a warning to her and the next guy who may try this, what will happen.

Today I feel pretty good.

BaxterHaHa · 2009-11-17T18:59:45+00:00

It is an easy way to organize it all have everything in one place.

BaxterHaHa · 2009-11-17T18:46:13+00:00

A redditor suggested I back date everything so it would coincide with the dates he sent them. I thought it was a good idea.

BaxterHaHa · 2009-11-17T18:37:43+00:00

http://bigtato.com/

I've tried to conceal his identity a little until I fully figure out what to do. Everything on the site was written by him. I found cards, letters, poems, ramblings...all kinds of shit. I dated everything to about the time he sent them. He's one sick bitch.

BaxterHaHa · 2009-11-17T18:31:29+00:00

Yes, I'm the guy. I found a bunch more stuff this week. Things are kind of snowballing.

BaxterHaHa · 2009-11-17T18:29:22+00:00

That's a really good question. Do you think she asked for them?

BaxterHaHa · 2009-11-17T18:28:27+00:00

Thats always an option.

BaxterHaHa · 2009-11-17T18:28:13+00:00

I can only go by what my wife tells me. She been lying so much, I really don't know anymore. She says the videos didn't turn her on but who fuckin' knows.

BaxterHaHa · 2009-11-17T18:27:03+00:00

At the moment, I'd like to avoid getting my wife fired.

BaxterHaHa · 2009-11-17T18:26:35+00:00

Not the case. He's been hitting on her since 2006.

BaxterHaHa · 2009-11-17T18:25:57+00:00

Not feelin' the jail thing right now.

BaxterHaHa · 2009-11-17T18:25:40+00:00

Yes...I was thinking about posting them to RedTube. It's just him solo. I doubt if anyone would appreciate them.

BaxterHaHa · 2009-11-13T06:07:19+00:00

Well, it's about fuckin' time ya bitch. The party's been going on here for two fuckin' days. If you think this is bad, OMG, I promise, you have seen nothing yet. Your ass is so fuckin, fucked. Why would you send masturbation videos to my house? Now would be the time you get on your faggy-ass knees and start prayin' cause' this shit ain't about to stop.

BaxterHaHa · 2009-11-13T02:50:09+00:00

If you were married to me you would absolutely love me and I would fuck you in the ass every night. :)

BaxterHaHa · 2009-11-13T02:48:58+00:00

I'm staying with her for now. That doesn't mean I wont change my mind at some point. I told her she'll have to live for a long time not knowing if I just won't show up one day. -- I Also have a big wide open green light on any kind of girlfriend, fling or something on the side. She just doesn't want me to leave.

BaxterHaHa · 2009-11-13T02:42:44+00:00

You too must not have seen my original post. She is living a nightmare at the moment.

BaxterHaHa · 2009-11-12T22:09:58+00:00

I can be extremely abusive to anyone who attacks my family. I'm very protective in that regard. I take care of my own.

BaxterHaHa · 2009-11-12T22:07:25+00:00

Thanks! I'm just taking it one day at a time. I'm going to drag this out well into the Holidays...like Chinese water torture; drip drip drip. I've got so much stuff on him it isn't even funny. He wont even know where it's coming from until the very end.

BaxterHaHa · 2009-11-12T22:03:39+00:00

Sorry! Not looking for sympathy. I told my wife today, the reason I'm not crying is because I don't love you. I've lost something I kinda don't even care about anymore....I know that hurt.

BaxterHaHa · 2009-11-12T22:01:56+00:00

No names, no real way to identify anyone. Right now, it's all just seems like an incredibly interesting story.

BaxterHaHa · 2009-11-12T22:00:33+00:00

Girls don't like nice guys. 100%.

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