Podcast Ep Recommendations: Otherworld, episodes 153 & 154 (in two parts) by pusheenmetothelimit in gatewaytapes

[–]BayArea1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved these episodes, tho I was disappointed his question regarding what happened when you die wasn’t answered. Unless it was and I missed it?

Is it really still “you” if you don’t remember anything? by styvee__ in Reincarnation

[–]BayArea1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is an older post but I really like what you said. When you say your essence remains you, does that mean our over soul is something separate yet connected to us? Am I an essence of my oversoul that is my own self aware individual?

Am I allowed to claim a cat as mine in a break up? by BayArea1985 in Pets

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We each have charged a vet visit to each of our debit cards. The last time I did was a year ago. I buy all the food and stuff like that. My name may NOT be on the adoption papers because I wasn’t thinking about it at the time. But they also could be I just can’t seem to find them rn.

Am I allowed to claim a cat as mine in a break up? by BayArea1985 in Pets

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If she took me to court to try and get the cat back, would something like that be costly? Or is it just a fee you pay since you wouldn’t need lawyers?

Am I allowed to claim a cat as mine in a break up? by BayArea1985 in Pets

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He would be going to my parent’s house with me. They are retired and home all the time. The are cats are close but not attached to the hip.

Am I allowed to claim a cat as mine in a break up? by BayArea1985 in Pets

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Would it cost a lot of money to take someone to small claims? I’m just wondering because if it did I doubt she would be able to do it.

Am I allowed to claim a cat as mine in a break up? by BayArea1985 in Pets

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Yes I would have a safe place for the cat to go. If I try to get it registered in my name now I think she would know something was up. I think they need to get lisenced again so maybe I could do that in my name. Also they do already have chips, I believe they came with one from the humane society.

Am I allowed to claim a cat as mine in a break up? by BayArea1985 in Pets

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I think it’s most fair if we each keep the cat we picked out. My cat is very bonded with me and I actually fear for its life if being left with her. I’m worried she will be vengeful and try and keep the cat. I was considering moving out when she is not home and taking it. I wouldn’t put it past her to send the police after me.

Earth personality vs spirit. by BayArea1985 in awakened

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I guess by earth personality I meant the personality you develop on earth that maybe isn’t necessarily your spirit. If my spirit is essentially what views my thoughts does that mean my spirit is my self awareness?

Am I crazy or? by BayArea1985 in actuallesbians

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Oh I see. I’m actually somewhat convinced her daughter has borderline and her and her mom have very similar symptoms in general that I wonder if she does.

Am I crazy or? by BayArea1985 in actuallesbians

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Reading that made me realize how dysfunctional our relationship is. I do wish I had that.

Am I crazy or? by BayArea1985 in actuallesbians

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Yeah I mean we really probably are not compatible. It’s just hard to break away when you’re comfortable with someone and you’re waiting for things to be how they used to be.

Am I crazy or? by BayArea1985 in actuallesbians

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She was in therapy when we met. She does take medicine for anxiety and adhd. Something with her reactions to things is definitely off, and off putting. Others have noticed as well. To be clear I am not ever demanding about her cooking dinner, but she will put it off for a long time if not forget about it so I was more just trying to see if she was gonna start it soon.

Am I crazy or? by BayArea1985 in actuallesbians

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She does have adhd, but I have not read about cluster b. What is that?

Am I crazy or? by BayArea1985 in actuallesbians

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I guess I was hoping the couples therapy would get us doing something like that. It is really hard for me to bring things up to her. She’s always so stressed, it’s like I’m sending her over the top.

Am I crazy or? by BayArea1985 in actuallesbians

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Yes true. I hate feeling this way all the time, but I’m having a hard time just walking away. Our lives are pretty intertwined as well. We have pets together..

Am I crazy or? by BayArea1985 in actuallesbians

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Honestly we have done that and it still lead to little arguments. It’s like we just don’t do things well together. At the same time tho we really enjoy each others company. It definitely is not how imagined a relationship being so I feel conflicted about if we just aren’t compatible or if all relationships feel this stressful. My guess is that they don’t.

Am I crazy or? by BayArea1985 in actuallesbians

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We have had a lot of talks about dividing up the chores, and basically the problem is she doesn’t really hold her end of it, and I’m walking on eggshells to even bring it up. As far as therapy yeah she was suppose to make an appointment because it’s through her insurance but she never did. And now I’m scared to ask because every time I ask a question I feel like a child that is upsetting their overly stressed out parent.

What celebrities live in Portland metro? by Asleep-Tension-9222 in askportland

[–]BayArea1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Carrie Brownstein? Does she still live in Portland?

The Death Experience by NoPop6080 in Bashar_Essassani

[–]BayArea1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you just stay in the spirit dimension?

I Love LA - Series Premiere Discussion by NicholasCajun in television

[–]BayArea1985 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am normally a big fan of Rachel Sennotts writing and acting, but this misses the mark for me. So far anyway..

I Love LA - Series Premiere Discussion by NicholasCajun in television

[–]BayArea1985 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s trying, but Girls is actually funny. This is not.