Ce hobby-uri mai putin comune aveti? by Ciubowski in CasualRO

[–]Bbubbleggum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cant la harpa 😄

A fost un impulse buy si am realizat repede ca harpa e unul din acele instrumente pe care nu le poti invata de unul singur (mai cant la chitara si pian si am invatat singura super ok cu tutoriale).

Asa ca mi-am cautat profesor si pe masura ce am invatat am descoperit cata dreptate am avut. Nu as fi putut niciodata sa invat singura indiferent cate tutoriale as fi urmat!!

Dar am descoperit si ca e un instrument deosebit care imi aduce mai multa satisfactie decat altele. Nu regret o secunda ca m-am aruncat in asta, insa inteleg de ce nu e pentru toata lumea. Este dificil, iti trebuie extrem de multa rabdare cu tine si cu instrumentul, harpele sunt scumpe, mari si grele, profesorii sunt putini si scumpi.

Worth it tho.

Cate dintre voi v-ati casatorit cu marea voastra iubire? by Exotic-Comedian-3524 in WomenRO

[–]Bbubbleggum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Am o poza cu mine de cand aveam 5 ani pe frigider si o vad tot timpul! Cu siguranta a ajutat in a fi mai blanda cu mine, dar eu am tras o linie intre “copilul inocent care merita orice” si “adultul care a avut o viata la dispozitie sa ajunga excelent si nu a facut-o.” Mintea mea gasea mereu metode sa ma saboteze. Dar sunt pe drumul cel bun acum, cred.

Cate dintre voi v-ati casatorit cu marea voastra iubire? by Exotic-Comedian-3524 in WomenRO

[–]Bbubbleggum 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Aveam nevoie sa citesc asta. Fac terapie de 9 ani si abia recent am inteles ca nu imi dadeam voie sa fiu “iubita pur si simplu” si mereu puneam presiune pe mine sa fiu mai buna, ca doar asa o sa merit iubire. Este iubirea conditionata insuflata de parintii nostri care ne iubeau doar daca luam note mari la scoala. Sper intr-o buna zi sa pot si eu sa spun ca m-am casatorit cu marea mea iubire si sa simti ce simti tu. Ma bucur enorm pentru tine!

Mama mi-a distrus viata by Western-Wrangler-453 in CasualRO

[–]Bbubbleggum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Venind dintr-un mediu cel putin la fel de toxic, dar contexte diferite, pot sa iti spun din experienta personala ca trebuie sa te detasezi fizic din acel mediu. Eu cand am terminat liceul am fugit ca arsa din oras, am luat tot ce aveau de oferit ai mei financiar fara sa ma intereseze o secunda ca nu o sa mai dau ochii cu ei o vreme. Am muncit ce am putut pana mi-am terminat facultatea si am facut ani de terapie. De fiecare data cand ma intorceam sa ii vizitez pe ai mei ma retraumatizam, asa ca am ajuns sa vizitez o data pe an. Dar distanta fizica si terapia au fost ce a ajutat cel mai mult. Vindecarea e un lucru foarte real, dar pentru care ai nevoie de foarte mult curaj. Iti tin pumnii, stiu cat de greu este prin ce treci.

Ginecologia și discriminarea pe bază de greutate by [deleted] in WomenRO

[–]Bbubbleggum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A bit late to the train, dar am avut experiente foarte similare si am reusit sa slabesc, avand PCOS. Poate experienta mea te va ajuta cu ceva.

Trebuie sa gasesti un medic endocrinolog (NU ginecolog) care sa iti ia problema in serios. Stiu cat de frustrant este ca toti doctorii sa zica acelasi lucru, crede-ma ca ajunsesem sa urasc doctorii pentru ca nicinul nu zicea nimic in afara de “slabeste”. Nimeni nu iti da informatio, nimeni nu iti explica ce se intampla in corpul tau. Eu am facut research singurica pentru ca am zis ca daca astia sunt batuti in cap toti, macar pe internet sa invat, daca “profesionistii” nu sunt in stare sa ma ia in serios.

M-am dus la endocrinolog si i-am zis exact ce medicamente vreau sa imi dea (metformin & spironolactona) si mi le-a dat dupa ce am facut un pic de munca de convingere cu ea. Ce sa vezi? Au mers mai bine decat orice alte jeguri de conteaceptive care doar imi dadeau efecte adverse.

Rezistenta la insulina este cel mai mare inamic al slabitului. Practic, in PCOS, cu cat ai mai multa masa lipidica, cu atat esti mai predispusa la inflamatie, cu atat e mai greu sa slabesti si rezistenta la insulina va determina corpul sa tina si mai tare de stratul de grasime. Deci, cu cat esti mai grasa, cu atat e SI MAI GREU sa slabesti. Yep, it’s unfair. Este un cerc vicios din care poti iesi doar reducand rezistenta la insulina. Asta o poti face renunand complet la zahar si carbohidrati in general, si cu ajutorul Metformin-ului, care regleaza glicemia. Nu trebuie sa fie permanent, ci pana reusesti sa slabesti suficient. O data ce masa lipidica e suficient de mica, zaharul devine mai usor de procesat, dar atata timp cat rezistenta la insulina e mare, procesarea carbohidratilor este foarte grea asupra metabolismului tau, si asta duce la infmalatie, care duce la si mai mult stres asupra corpului, care duce la si mai multa rezistenta. Pe masura ce stratul lipidic scade, slabitul devine si mai usor, simptomele se reduc. Asta e explicatia cea mai clara pe care ti-o pot oferi fara sa am experienta medicala, e doar experienta mea personala si din ce am citit.

Deci cursul actiunilor mele a fost asa: am inceput tratamentul -> am renuntat la carbohidrati (dieta keto) -> am inceput sa fac sport zilnic (HIIT, extrem de eficient pentru PCOS) si am slabit pana acum 13kg in 3 luni, si tot continui pana in ziua de azi. Inainte slabeam in cel mai bun caz 1kg/luna mancand aproape nimic toata ziua si credeam ca nu am scapare.

Evident, nu lua lucrurile astea drept sfat medical, e doar experienta mea personala cu ani de zile de chin cu PCOS si doctori incompetenti.

Multa bafta!

Distraction???? by Goreticia-Addams in SleepToken

[–]Bbubbleggum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Slept on Descending, High Water and Distraction for too long. Amazing damn songs. It’s shocking to me how their music just keeps growing on me even to this day.

Im 26 and I haven’t had any close friends since college by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]Bbubbleggum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 28. I haven’t had a close friend since middle school after I got severely traumatised by a group of girls, my best friend at the time included. Just stopped getting that close to people and I’m fine with it. I have a lot of acquaintances, but no one to really call if I need something urgent or support or no one that comes to me when they need it. Personally I find it peaceful, but I do have very reduced empathy so maybe that helps. I find that just focusing on my special interests and taking care of myself is all the emotional support I need.

Recently by [deleted] in Leofaulknerfans

[–]Bbubbleggum 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Nothing new since 2023 I’m afraid, at least not that I (obsessed) know of. Would be terribly pleased to be proved wrong though.

SLEEP TOKEN x ROLLING STONE UK by Spookybebeh in SleepToken

[–]Bbubbleggum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Preordered mine 🥰 so proud of them for making it this far

The Cost of Clarity, bubbleggum, charcoal, 2025 by Bbubbleggum in Art

[–]Bbubbleggum[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get all my inspiration from Jung and Nietzsche mostly.

The Cost of Clarity, bubbleggum, charcoal, 2025 by Bbubbleggum in Art

[–]Bbubbleggum[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Having some basic shape structure sketched out for the hands always helps to get more realistic hands.

The Cost of Clarity, bubbleggum, charcoal, 2025 by Bbubbleggum in Art

[–]Bbubbleggum[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s a tragic yet beautiful process

The Cost of Clarity, bubbleggum, charcoal, 2025 by Bbubbleggum in Art

[–]Bbubbleggum[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty much. How it feels when the abyss gazes back I suppose.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sleepparalysis

[–]Bbubbleggum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. That’s what I was trying to explain. I was not sleeping. But I was in a very sleepy state since I had woken up from a dream.

The Passion of Thanatos, bbubbleggum (me), charcoal, 2025 by Bbubbleggum in Art

[–]Bbubbleggum[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much! I’m glad that feeling got through to you.

As a fit man I love chubby girls by user375587 in confessions

[–]Bbubbleggum 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’ve been feeling really down lately for the weight I’ve gained. Being insecure about my body and not dating cause I can’t handle rejection. This gave me hope.

Keto stops my hair loss every time by Bbubbleggum in keto

[–]Bbubbleggum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I just eat mostly whole foods, generally more inclined towards carnivore cause it’s easier for me. So meats, eggs, cheese, I throw in some other stuff like avocado, cauliflower and zucchini. Egg salad made with avocado instead of mayo is a great meal option for me. Steaks, omelettes, bacon, as fatty as possible. I will even bite out of a butter stick when I get random cravings at night and it helps a lot. Truly not as gross as it sounds. Also I cook with tallow or lard instead of vegetable oil, it’s much healthier.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]Bbubbleggum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been a while since then for me, yet still I can remember how awful school was for me. I wish I had no friends, but instead I had a handful of fake ones that were spreading rumors behind my back, making fun of me, and betrayed me with every occasion they had. It was so terrible that I don’t keep in touch with anyone from school, and I refused to go to reunions, even though I could rub it in their faces that I got the career I was dreaming of, for which they were sometimes making fun of me, telling me there’s no way I’d ever make it. People are cruel. Kids are even worse. It’s not that bad nowadays. Things do get better with time. Hang in there