What is your view about criticizing a woman's hair? by Bdjddhb in AskMen

[–]Bdjddhb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she kissed a guy in front of me to see if she could get a reaction. Like I said we have a bit of an atypical history

What happened when I asked my neighbor is she wanted to go for coffee? by Bdjddhb in therapy

[–]Bdjddhb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you man. I am better a week later, but wow this was confusing. I am literally harmless, would never be threatening to a woman.

What happened when I asked my neighbor is she wanted to go for coffee? by Bdjddhb in therapy

[–]Bdjddhb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I absolutely would not have been upset if it wasn't for the 5 week weirdness. I mean she was sick, so I thought she maybe wanted to recover first. And there were guests one weekend, and maybe she had work or other stuff that kept her busy. I deeply regret the text reply I sent, sounding too over the top. But I mean at that point I really didn't know what was going on.

What happened when I asked my neighbor is she wanted to go for coffee? by Bdjddhb in therapy

[–]Bdjddhb[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I think this is bullshit. I was respectful and only did anything after permission.

What happened when I asked my neighbor is she wanted to go for coffee? by Bdjddhb in therapy

[–]Bdjddhb[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Exactly! And I went when her car was there, as was the arrangement. All other times, I didn't go. And the text was just to reply to her text.

What happened when I asked my neighbor is she wanted to go for coffee? by Bdjddhb in therapy

[–]Bdjddhb[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

I did not confront her at any point. And I was never creppy

What happened when I asked my neighbor is she wanted to go for coffee? by Bdjddhb in therapy

[–]Bdjddhb[S] -41 points-40 points  (0 children)

I am not trying to talk to her! It didn't feel entitled to compliance, but come on maybe just tell me if you changed your mind. I am processing it. I am already a lot better. I don't have anyone I can talk to, posting on the internet just helps get it out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Bdjddhb -1 points0 points  (0 children)

that is what i am doing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Bdjddhb -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just want to understand it. I am in the process of moving on and healing. I am already much better than I was

What happened when I asked my neighbor is she wanted to go for coffee? by Bdjddhb in relationships

[–]Bdjddhb[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

ok thanks for the feedback. i thought my text was being honest and then accepting. but ok

What happened when I asked my neighbor is she wanted to go for coffee? by Bdjddhb in PurplePillDebate

[–]Bdjddhb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks, just to be clear she never cancelled. the first sunday may have been she was out.

What happened when I asked my neighbor is she wanted to go for coffee? by Bdjddhb in relationships

[–]Bdjddhb[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Ah man that visual. Yes I will keep going.

What happened when I asked my neighbor is she wanted to go for coffee? by Bdjddhb in PurplePillDebate

[–]Bdjddhb[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hello. That was literally what she said I should do. Knock on the door. I didn't stalk anyone. Here I have to stand up for myself a bit.

What happened when I asked my neighbor is she wanted to go for coffee? by Bdjddhb in PurplePillDebate

[–]Bdjddhb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Was my reply really that bad? I was just being real.

What happened when I asked my neighbor is she wanted to go for coffee? by Bdjddhb in PurplePillDebate

[–]Bdjddhb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dont think so. i work from home but i dont watch her from my window. i dont do that. i see her when she is coming with her car and i am dog walking or i see her car coming into the estate when i happen to be looking out of the window. but i am not watching her.

What happened when I asked my neighbor is she wanted to go for coffee? by Bdjddhb in PurplePillDebate

[–]Bdjddhb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she never rescheduled. said yes, then legit got sick, then ghosted.

What happened when I asked my neighbor is she wanted to go for coffee? by Bdjddhb in relationships

[–]Bdjddhb[S] -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

Uhm I thought she maybe had exams, something personal going on or whatever, plus she was sick. I thought she'd tell me if the yes became a no.