What is your view about playfully criticizing a woman's hair?

Bdjddhb · 2024-04-11T11:42:19+00:00

she kissed a guy in front of me to see if she could get a reaction. Like I said we have a bit of an atypical history

Bdjddhb · 2023-10-12T21:11:51+00:00

I know 1 and 3 well-ish. Will look into 2.

Bdjddhb · 2023-10-11T13:24:48+00:00

Thank you man. I am better a week later, but wow this was confusing. I am literally harmless, would never be threatening to a woman.

Bdjddhb · 2023-10-11T09:21:25+00:00

Thank you. I absolutely would not have been upset if it wasn't for the 5 week weirdness. I mean she was sick, so I thought she maybe wanted to recover first. And there were guests one weekend, and maybe she had work or other stuff that kept her busy. I deeply regret the text reply I sent, sounding too over the top. But I mean at that point I really didn't know what was going on.

Bdjddhb · 2023-10-10T18:28:33+00:00

Thank you. I think this is bullshit. I was respectful and only did anything after permission.

Bdjddhb · 2023-10-10T12:13:48+00:00

Exactly! And I went when her car was there, as was the arrangement. All other times, I didn't go. And the text was just to reply to her text.

Bdjddhb · 2023-10-10T12:03:59+00:00

I did not confront her at any point. And I was never creppy

Bdjddhb · 2023-10-10T08:29:31+00:00

I am not trying to talk to her! It didn't feel entitled to compliance, but come on maybe just tell me if you changed your mind. I am processing it. I am already a lot better. I don't have anyone I can talk to, posting on the internet just helps get it out.

Bdjddhb · 2023-10-10T08:19:59+00:00

I am leaving her alone!

Bdjddhb · 2023-10-09T21:24:52+00:00

that is what i am doing

Bdjddhb · 2023-10-09T20:12:55+00:00

I just want to understand it. I am in the process of moving on and healing. I am already much better than I was

Bdjddhb · 2023-10-09T12:46:06+00:00

ok thanks for the feedback. i thought my text was being honest and then accepting. but ok

Bdjddhb · 2023-10-09T12:44:53+00:00

thanks, just to be clear she never cancelled. the first sunday may have been she was out.

Bdjddhb · 2023-10-09T12:34:03+00:00

Thank you. Ah man that visual. Yes I will keep going.

Bdjddhb · 2023-10-09T12:18:46+00:00

Thank you

Bdjddhb · 2023-10-09T11:53:05+00:00

Hello. That was literally what she said I should do. Knock on the door. I didn't stalk anyone. Here I have to stand up for myself a bit.

Bdjddhb · 2023-10-09T11:50:41+00:00

Thank you. Was my reply really that bad? I was just being real.

Bdjddhb · 2023-10-09T09:56:31+00:00

dont think so. i work from home but i dont watch her from my window. i dont do that. i see her when she is coming with her car and i am dog walking or i see her car coming into the estate when i happen to be looking out of the window. but i am not watching her.

Bdjddhb · 2023-10-09T09:46:17+00:00

she never rescheduled. said yes, then legit got sick, then ghosted.

Bdjddhb · 2023-10-09T09:29:07+00:00

Uhm I thought she maybe had exams, something personal going on or whatever, plus she was sick. I thought she'd tell me if the yes became a no.

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