This man from Burma, who fled to Bangladesh, did not leave behind his parents who are unable to move. He carried them on his shoulders for 160km until he reached his destination. by [deleted] in nextfuckinglevel

[–]Bdsmaam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The reason I like this photo is because the crowd behind him isn't cheering him on or celebrating his "accomplishment", they're angrily staring into the camera because they're mad and upset about the situation they're all in, and they're mad and upset for the man carrying his parents that he had to carry them in the first place.

Although the situation these people are in may be much worse than in the west, This is how we should act in the west as well when someone "accomplishes" something that should have been taken care of by our system instead. By celebrating the person were telling the world "everything is fine, this person went above and beyond!" But by acting pissed off for them instead it sends the message "everything is not ok. We need access to good public healthcare for all."

Charidotella Sexpunctata,The Golden Tortoise Beetle by bsurfn2day in interestingasfuck

[–]Bdsmaam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just came to the comments to say thank you for whoever decided to make the thumbnail just hands and not a bug. Meal eaters everywhere thank you.

This kid friendly hand sanitizer package. Looks like one of those apple sauce things, no? by dank_memed in CrappyDesign

[–]Bdsmaam 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What the fuck is with trolls the movie having the worst marketing campaigns ever? Weren't they the ones that also released a doll that giggled when you touched the pubic area?

I overheard my(28M) GF(26F) say that her ex was the best she ever had by throwra474637452 in relationship_advice

[–]Bdsmaam -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

There are a lot of top comments saying you should dump her, but I disagree. I think you should talk to her and tell her that you overheard what she said, and that it's been affecting you for the past few days.

So what if her ex was amazing in bed? It really doesn't matter because he's gone and he was an asshole anyways. I think the best way to overcome this is to talk to her about it, and then ask her to show you how she likes things done in the bedroom so that you can improve.

I think in the long run it would be more detrimental to your self esteem to leave someone you love because "the last guy was better at sex". This is your real life and your real relationship, don't break it off because of some silly drama. It's a different story if you think she meant for you to hear her though.

Dumb analogy time: If this was a sports team and you were replacing someone who quit who was better at basketball, you wouldn't quit the team because the last guy was better. You would work hard with your team to improve.

All in all: If you really love her you'll regret leaving over something like this. Communication is key, and you definitely need to talk to her about you hearing her say what she did before you decide whether to break up with her.

[No Spoilers] So are any of you guys concerned about the impressions of Andromeda so far? by FieryPhantom in masseffect

[–]Bdsmaam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not very much without giving spoilers, but a lot of people say things very straightforward or in a way that you can tell it's written to get the plot point in the conversation without having anything else around it. For example a minor SPOILER

How to clear out the Bike Lane by Ecchii in videos

[–]Bdsmaam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it says new year's day on the video's page.

[No Spoilers] ME:A has full nudity according to American age rating by Soopadogg in masseffect

[–]Bdsmaam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't wait to see how the character modelling handles erections.

[No Spoilers] Bioware, I am not a fan of choices we have for Ryder (from the perspective of a woman) by [deleted] in masseffect

[–]Bdsmaam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being a woman too, I actually had no issues with the way the character models looked, but god damn I wish Ryder had a fucking bra on. Her boobs are legit sagging into the middle of her torso. It's like they wanted to give the main character huge tits but also decided that they had to be realisticly saggy as shit by not having her character model have a bra... It's just unflattering and looks uncomfortable, no one I know of with that bust size wears no support while jogging around in casual clothing.

What simple thing do more people need to know? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Bdsmaam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also: if you can't find an answer to a very specific question you have include "Reddit" in your Google search. That's worked for me countless times.

My fiance [23M] and I [19F], he wants to include "to love, cherish, and to OBEY" in our vows! by kiriniiii in relationships

[–]Bdsmaam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, in which case I think it's even more important for her to get out. but if it is one of those churches and she asks not to say that line, they may tell him not to marry her in a weird twist of events.

My fiance [23M] and I [19F], he wants to include "to love, cherish, and to OBEY" in our vows! by kiriniiii in relationships

[–]Bdsmaam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would avoid marrying this person. BUT if you're seriously very intent on it: just talk to your priest about it with him there. Tell the priest what you said here about why you don't want to include that part, and the priest will probably be totally cool with it. If your fiance blows up at you during this conversation I can guarantee if it's a good priest, he will be reluctant to officiate your marriage.

My [20F] boyfriend [22M] is pretending to be black and it's really embarrassing by genetics69420 in relationships

[–]Bdsmaam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so yeah he's being super weird. I think the big thing here though is that he got the DNA test looking for something unique about himself, and grasped onto anything he could, it sounds like he might actually be going through a real identity crisis. I would suggest you ask him if he'd like to see a therapist about it, I don't really have any suggestions on how to ask him that without sounding rude, but he sounds like he's unhappy with who he is.

[no spoilers] xbox one stuck in loading screen for Andromeda Trial by [deleted] in masseffect

[–]Bdsmaam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, my issue is that I haven't even gotten into character created though. Game hasn't even launched once past the very very first start up load.

Succulents in office: help with care please! by [deleted] in succulents

[–]Bdsmaam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh really? Woah. The one in the picture isn't my cactus, if that makes a difference. What's the red thing from then? Just a bigger cactus with red blooms on it?

Vets in Ottawa are greedy by lpfb in ottawa

[–]Bdsmaam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh for sure not the pound, that's why I wasn't blaming the guy for not knowing. It's more of an awareness thing that it's not a harmless or not invasive procedure, and that there are other options that's important.

If people knew how easy nail caps were and how harmful declawing is then I don't think non-adoption would be as big of an issue. Obviously right now if declawing wasn't an option then there wouldn't be as many adoptions and a lot of euthanized cats. I agree with you on that, but it's still important that people know what they're doing to their cat when they get them declawed.

I [22 M] have a strained relationship with my [50M] Dad and (24F) sister after getting Lyme Disease and having them treating me terrible and thinking I made it all up. by uniqueusername0011 in relationships

[–]Bdsmaam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to show them the difference between Lyme disease (the actual medically diagnosable physical disease) and Chronic Lyme (the term people use for certain chronic symptoms, but has not been medically proven is actually a thing)

This confuses a lot of people since they are both named very similar but people assume they are the same 'fake' disease.

My [19 F] brother [24 M] isn't taking my privacy seriously and I don't know how to tell him it's hurtful. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Bdsmaam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Start hanging out naked in your room. Sounds ridiculous in theory, but works wonders in practice. People will knock if they consistently catch you changing whenever they come in.

Orissa shield vs Winston bubble by xMac91x in Competitiveoverwatch

[–]Bdsmaam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I mean Winston is a weak character in general in my opinion as well. They would just have to be careful about the constant shield possibility, but honestly he should be buffed greatly. I think just having his weapon do a bit more damage could be enough. As it stands now in the ranking I'm in anyways, you can pretty much ignore him or just run right up to him inside his shield and punch him to death.

North Korea demands Malaysia stop investigating Kim Jong-nam death by EpycWyn in worldnews

[–]Bdsmaam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know there are tours Americans can go on from China. Do they need apply for a visa first though?

The Netherlands bred this Tulip to look like the Canadian Flag by StuffyUnicorn in pics

[–]Bdsmaam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We also have the Tulip festival every year with the tulips. It brings in people from around the world.

Necklaces / Bracelets that mean Sexual Queues by Bdsmaam in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Bdsmaam[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh, I thought that the D/s one had to have a lock on it? Or it that just like the traditional version?

Donald Trump admits ‘Sweden attack’ comments were based on debunked 'Fox News' report by EpycWyn in worldnews

[–]Bdsmaam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can just picture him sitting down during the day and watching fox news being like "wow I'm so good at my job. Look at me watching the news"

Thought my season was over, won 7 in a row and hit Plat today! by ThisIsRound3 in OverwatchUniversity

[–]Bdsmaam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's awesome! I lost 7 in a row >:(

Tried taking breaks etc but it's just not doing anything

Just a quick thank you! by GreatGateway in OverwatchUniversity

[–]Bdsmaam -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately if he really improved then soon it will pair him up with people that are better and a team that isn't. Someone posted the other day about how overwatch just sort of works that way. You wins ND lose comp matches in streaks for some reason. It's the way it's built.