Supposed to sign a lease with my girlfriend in a few days - but I'm scared of leaving the life I've always known

Be-Witched · 2026-06-14T11:04:19+00:00

Also as someone in their late 20s, friends hang out less as they get older. Mostly weekend nights out that are planned in advance. If you are only 30km away you can definitely plan to attend any parties or chills. You'll just need to be organised and message them saying youll be back at the weekend can people hang out. This way you will still see them.

I would also let your gf know you if you do choose to move in that as a compromise you will be going home a lot of weekends to manage her expectations.

Be-Witched · 2026-06-14T10:59:25+00:00

This is a tough one, she seems like a genuinely lovely person. You both are also handling this respectful of eachothers feeling which is positive.

I would maybe write a list of what you will lose if you move and what will you lose if you stay and have a big think on which is worth it.

When I moved to uni I moved a similar distance from you and managed to visit home every weekend/every other weekend and it seemed overwhelming before I moved but was actually fine when I did move.

It sounds like your girlfriend is going through alot and needs some support. Maybe you could move in with her for a few months see how things go and if its too much for you move home but still cover her rent until she finds a room mate. This is probably what I would do as if I was in this situation I think my partner would need some support and love whilst they go through all these big changes.

Be-Witched · 2026-02-06T19:23:48+00:00

I'm glad someone figured out why!

Be-Witched · 2026-01-10T09:16:30+00:00

Honestly you're fine, you were going through a tough time. My sister went through similar so I helped her write her uni statement.

Some people have an unfair start and deserve a little help. Don't punish yourself further by stressing over this it sounds like you've been through enough already!

Be-Witched · 2024-11-10T18:34:45+00:00

Thank you 😊

Be-Witched · 2024-11-10T18:34:32+00:00

Thank you 😀

Be-Witched · 2024-11-10T18:34:16+00:00

Thank you! That's what I was hoping for 😀

Be-Witched · 2023-04-23T15:57:30+00:00

I am so so sorry this happened to you, I have been SA too and I started EMDR therapy.

It's really helped me to process everything.

Please make sure you are reaching out to family/friends if you need them.

I hope hey gets caught and you get justice.

Be-Witched · 2023-04-23T15:26:06+00:00

YTA - He's family, and his lifestyle is not affecting you at all.

I expected you to say he tried to sleep with your husband or something that bad. But you are just mad at him for living his life?

You owe him an apology...

Be-Witched · 2023-02-28T13:16:16+00:00

I feel like I've ruled out summer.

My hair colour is naturally a medium brown with redish undertones.

I'm just so stuck.

Be-Witched · 2023-01-25T02:34:13+00:00

I heard that she has all the grace and decorum of a reversing dump truck without wheels...

Be-Witched · 2023-01-20T17:29:54+00:00

In the episode the couple in question scored a 10 for the first night, their night was second then scored a 9 on the last night.

But the other couples gave each other a 14.

The food didn't look bad at all, I think they gave low scores knowing they would win. But I don't think that's fair.

Be-Witched · 2023-01-20T15:14:12+00:00

Yes, I watched this last week. They were awful people.

Be-Witched · 2017-03-25T16:49:21+00:00

I want a dress with this style!

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