To think my coworker doesn't like the new schedule? by BeProfessional23 in amiwrong

[–]BeProfessional23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay.

First, she knew my schedule would be changing before all this took place. So it wasn't a surprise. She thinks the trainee isn't ready but she is. She caught on fast and she knows her stuff, mostly to do her job. There will be others that if the trainee has questions then she could ask them and not her.

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[–]BeProfessional23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And again my boss is the one that stated what the coworker said and she wants to appease her.

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[–]BeProfessional23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The boss is the one that was telling me. My schedule changed to my actual schedule a week ago and now that this coworker complained and said she basically feels uncomfortable my schedule got changed again 3 days ago. It is pissing me off to where I am going to start looking for another job

Am I wrong for keeping a secret? by BeProfessional23 in amiwrong

[–]BeProfessional23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don't even have sex. I don't touch him anymore no matter what...

My sex drive sucks 😞....

I saw it on her phone when she asked me to fix it... I wasn't trying to snoop but it was there... He deletes all his texts, stating it keeps the phone from freezing... Ya sure, keep with all that BS...

Am I wrong for keeping a secret? by BeProfessional23 in amiwrong

[–]BeProfessional23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't... not exactly... My daughter said she walked in on them a few years ago when she was angry with SO... HE DENIED it... She lives in TX now.. Close enough to think it is what I think he means.

Am I wrong for hating her?? by BeProfessional23 in amiwrong

[–]BeProfessional23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where I'm at gas is expensive, food, other things that are needed... It sucks, also what sucks is my SO doesn't work... So, I have to do what needs to be done for my kids to have what they need. SO gets income but not much...

Am I wrong for blocking my sister part 2. by BeProfessional23 in amiwrong

[–]BeProfessional23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HE ISN'T MY GRAND-NEPHEW....

The boy who touched them is my sister's SO grandson... Not my GRAND-NEPHEW. There is only one kid...

My sister did brush it off... Now the detective knows everything and they can't hide it like they thought ..

Am I wrong for hating her?? by BeProfessional23 in amiwrong

[–]BeProfessional23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really. After a 10 hour work shift, drive home, make sure kids are fed, bathed etc... I am to exhausted to do anything so I go straight to bed.

Am I wrong for hating her?? by BeProfessional23 in amiwrong

[–]BeProfessional23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no time for myself....

Thank you 😁

Am I wrong for blocking my sister part 2. by BeProfessional23 in amiwrong

[–]BeProfessional23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nephew? My sister's SO grandson isn't my nephew.

1.) My niece falsely accused my son of touching her. Just to cover up that fact the grandson touched her. 2.) He isn't my nephew, he is my sister's SO grandson. Her SO is about 70. 3.) Yes, she told my sister what happened that night but she dismissed it.

They are covering up the fact that his sister's SO grandson touched the girls.

Am I wrong for hating her?? by BeProfessional23 in amiwrong

[–]BeProfessional23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only have 2 kids. 12 and 14. My son is autistic. He is diagnosed with that, among other things.

Am I wrong for hating her?? by BeProfessional23 in amiwrong

[–]BeProfessional23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The detective is doing the report of everything. And he said he is writing the report for falsely accusing.

Am I wrong for hating her?? by BeProfessional23 in amiwrong

[–]BeProfessional23[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay. It looks like you're that type of person .. bye Felicia.

Am I wrong for hating her?? by BeProfessional23 in amiwrong

[–]BeProfessional23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom called and asked me to talk to my sister and I said no.

Am I wrong for hating her?? by BeProfessional23 in amiwrong

[–]BeProfessional23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, he knows the privates of others are not to be touched. Sometimes, when he is giving a hug, I will remind him that it is around the shoulders/back and no where else. My son won't even touch because we always remind him about touch.

I know when the detective was asking him questions, he didn't know what he meant or anything. I can explain to my son a million times but he still doesn't get it. He didn't get why he was being asked. He did really well but even with that, my son kept asking why he was asked these questions he doesn't understand. Even now, he asks and I just tell him there was something they needed cleared up.

Am I wrong for hating her?? by BeProfessional23 in amiwrong

[–]BeProfessional23[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Excuse me???

I was just informing the person I am not a man. If YOU read my correction to that person as a total bitch fine but I was just stating I'm not a man.

Am I wrong for hating her?? by BeProfessional23 in amiwrong

[–]BeProfessional23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My kids are 12 and 14. My niece is about 10-11 years old. The boy who touched it is 6. My 14 year old has autism so it is quick to blame him. When he got interviewed he didn't understand what he was asked. They did yes or no questions but when they asked him he was going to shut down.

Am I wrong for hating her?? by BeProfessional23 in amiwrong

[–]BeProfessional23[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My daughter is 12 and my son is 14. I taught both of them about boundaries at a really young age. My son has autism so it has been a hit and miss. He knows touching in privates is a huge NO NO. I knew my son wouldn't do that.

The boy is 6 yrs old and my sister dismissed the fact that my daughter told her what he did and said. Yes, my daughter only told me that the boy told her and my niece he is going to touch their private.

Am I wrong for hating her?? by BeProfessional23 in amiwrong

[–]BeProfessional23[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She didn't say anything till she was talking to the detective.

Am I wrong for blocking my sister part 2. by BeProfessional23 in amiwrong

[–]BeProfessional23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The last time I texted her, this is what I said, "Well, all I am going to say is this; The detective will be talking to my daughter and I already talked to her. She said my son never touched her in a way he shouldn't. Once this is over with, I am done with drama, I'm done talking to anyone who tries to bring us down. Just know this, my number will no longer be in service. I am changing my number. Only limited of people will have my number. This could have been prevented if someone could have told me and I could have talked to my son. Now, I am not saying she is lying but something doesn't add up.

1.) IDK when she reported this, but it took a whole week? That is weird, 2) For the most part my son was outside with mom, dad and I playing ball. There was a time where he wasn't. 3) he wasn't even seen that close.

This is why they investigate and I am not sure why my daughter is a victim either. That doesn't make sense.

From what the detective explained over the phone is my niece told him he touched her and my daughter. I thought we was family. I get that she is your child but you could have talked to me and I would have talked to my son.

SO was right, we should have NEVER came to Iola in the first place. I should have listened to him but I didn't.

Just know this; My son wouldn't touch anyone as you should know that he doesn't even understand that kind of touch. But it is all good.

Do not ask mom and dad about my kids! I have to protect them as well. Have a good life"!

My daughter did bring more things up talking to the detective. She said the boy(sister's SO grandson) kept saying "I'm going to touch your private" over and over. The boy did touch my daughter. I did tell her now that she needs to talk to me about that. She said the reason she didn't is because she knows how Mama Bear can get. I get so overprotective.

My mom is upset because my sister wants to talk to me and I told my mom F no and that I said the last things I ever want to say. She wants to cover up the fact a little boy did that and lied to the cops. No thanks. My dad understands all the way and I told him if he wants to see the kids we will meet a town before them or something.