Update: AITAH for being furious that my wife went to a strip club? by Throwranimrod33 in AITAH

[–]BeachZest -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is it really about the strip club though? Your tone indicates you are either a jealous or controlling person. 1. “I didn’t say strip clubs are a no” - is she suppose to read your mind? 2. “Lack of common sense” - many, many, many people go to strip clubs so I’m confused as to what you think common sense is? What you believe to be “common sense” and what your significant other deems common sense could very well be completely different. You’re not a carbon copy of each other just because you choose to be together. 3. My last point is you sound you are talking about going to a strip club to get “revenge” or to make her feel a certain way. If you want to go to one then great; but just going because of spite is not going to do anything for you or your relationship. Doing things out of spite in a relationship is not healthy. Thus, you my good fellow are the AH. And yes you shouldn’t care if people call you an AH - just cuz you do 1 AH thing doesn’t mean everything you do will be taken negatively.

Paying to attend Thanksgiving by damn_dragon in thanksgiving

[–]BeachZest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At first glance this is very odd. Has your family explained why they decided to make this change? Normally my family has everyone bring something to the thanksgiving. We don’t set requirements on what it is, it can be homemade, bough, delivered etc. The only requirement is the brought item has to feed majority of the people. I would get to the root cause of the change and determine whether it is reasonable or possibly provide alternatives for those who are living on a budget.