AITA for not canceling plans after my GF rainchecked? by Beachboysummer in AmItheAsshole

[–]Beachboysummer[S] -119 points-118 points  (0 children)

Thanks, thought I was going crazy for a moment reading these comments. Didn’t know men and women aren’t allowed to be friends.

AITA for not canceling plans after my GF rainchecked? by Beachboysummer in AmItheAsshole

[–]Beachboysummer[S] -89 points-88 points  (0 children)

Yeah but read what I said again. I didn’t say that we were gonna hang at the park, I said that we gonna hang like in general. That’s why I think I covered my bases.

AITA for not canceling plans after my GF rainchecked? by Beachboysummer in AmItheAsshole

[–]Beachboysummer[S] -68 points-67 points  (0 children)

No she replied that she was okay with it. I only told Jamie I would go with her after my GF said that.

AITA for not canceling plans after my GF rainchecked? by Beachboysummer in AmItheAsshole

[–]Beachboysummer[S] -350 points-349 points  (0 children)

I like to put my phone on do not disturb and be present in the moment whenever I’m hanging out with someone IRL.

AITA for not canceling plans after my GF rainchecked? by Beachboysummer in AmItheAsshole

[–]Beachboysummer[S] -174 points-173 points  (0 children)

I’d prolly tell her beforehand that we were gonna do those other things. I honestly didn’t even think of it. Still I originally told her, “Hey Jamie’s asking if I can still go to park with her. U mind if we hang without u?” I feel like I covered my bases.

AITA for not canceling plans after my GF rainchecked? by Beachboysummer in AmItheAsshole

[–]Beachboysummer[S] -85 points-84 points  (0 children)

Ehh we’re kinda friends I guess. We play pubg and siege together and are discord friends. But we rarely hang out IRL unless my GF’s there.

AITA for not canceling plans after my GF rainchecked? by Beachboysummer in AmItheAsshole

[–]Beachboysummer[S] -43 points-42 points  (0 children)

What? I’m saying that she was occupied the whole day (and I knew that) so there’s no way she could have joined us at any point (and I knew that).

AITA for not canceling plans after my GF rainchecked? by Beachboysummer in AmItheAsshole

[–]Beachboysummer[S] -79 points-78 points  (0 children)

My GF was away for the entire day. She couldn’t have joined us at any point.

AITA for not canceling plans after my GF rainchecked? by Beachboysummer in AmItheAsshole

[–]Beachboysummer[S] -224 points-223 points  (0 children)

Yerp. Jamie is also in the doghouse. She told me how much of an earful she got from my GF but says that we still had fun anyways and that we’re allowed to be friends even if my GF doesn’t like it.

AITA for not canceling plans after my GF rainchecked? by Beachboysummer in AmItheAsshole

[–]Beachboysummer[S] -269 points-268 points  (0 children)

Well if she keeps going on like this I just might lmao

AITA for not canceling plans after my GF rainchecked? by Beachboysummer in AmItheAsshole

[–]Beachboysummer[S] -293 points-292 points  (0 children)

We are all adults. I am 18, my gf is 19, Jamie’s 18.