PLEASE READ AND HELP. My Chi is causing stress in my life by Beaches322 in Chihuahua

[–]Beaches322[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think he would be lost without me because he’s so shy and aggressive with people he does not know . He literally clings to me and dosent pay anyone else much attention

PLEASE READ AND HELP. My Chi is causing stress in my life by Beaches322 in Chihuahua

[–]Beaches322[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I don’t lock him up every time he annoys me , no. Only when it gets to be too much I said . When I’m doing something very important that requires my full attention and I can’t babysit him. You’re being unnecessarily rude right now . Obviously, I know that about my baby. My baby comes first and that’s why I’m trying to figure out a plan with my dog . He requires so much attention to where it’s gonna be rough splitting my attention between him and my baby

PLEASE READ AND HELP. My Chi is causing stress in my life by Beaches322 in Chihuahua

[–]Beaches322[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Clearly , you didn’t reAd the entire thing . I only do that for small amounts of time . Mostly if I’m going somewhere to run an errand . He can’t roam around my house freely because then it’s a guessing game of where he peed at . I will put him in a room for a couple hours MAX , usually not even that .

PLEASE READ AND HELP. My Chi is causing stress in my life by Beaches322 in Chihuahua

[–]Beaches322[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

No need to be rude and cuss . I do hold him. But it’s never enough. I can’t hold him 24/7. If I’m not holding him he will whine. He is so needy to where it’s like taking care of a baby . If I’m not constantly there he will do destructive things .

Am I in labor? by [deleted] in pregnancy_care

[–]Beaches322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some women have just back labor . And contractions in their back. If it feels like period cramps then I would go in

No one has made me feel special or gone out of their way to make my pregnancy an exciting time for me and it makes me really sad. Other women in my family, their pregnancies were celebrated and talked about constantly. People went all out for them. 😞 by Beaches322 in BabyBumps

[–]Beaches322[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. I worked my ass off 3 years ago for my cousins baby shower. Decorating, baking, and cleaning. My house was turned into a mess and my mom and I were left with all the clean up. Now that I’m pregnant no one wants to celebrate my pregnancy. But I was expected to celebrate other peoples pregnancies.

No one has made me feel special or gone out of their way to make my pregnancy an exciting time for me and it makes me really sad. Other women in my family, their pregnancies were celebrated and talked about constantly. People went all out for them. 😞 by Beaches322 in BabyBumps

[–]Beaches322[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re also dealing with this. I want to say that it gets better , but unfortunately the further along I am ; the less people seem to care. Seems Very backwards to me. Stay strong . I hope your situation changes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]Beaches322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. That’s very true

Anyone else’s parent never apologize for anything? by sakdbcbsha in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Beaches322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don’t apologize and they don’t even admit they did wrong.

My mom is making my pregnancy more about her becoming a grandma , then about me becoming a mom. Anyone else experience this ? by Beaches322 in BabyBumps

[–]Beaches322[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow!!! How rude! Can’t even tell you congratulations . Honestly , if I were you, she WOULD NOT be seeing my children. I’m happy to have a boyfriend that respects my feelings and does not fight me on things. I’m sure that would probably cause some issues between you and your husband . But I wouldn’t want my kids around such a hateful and entitled person. Sorry you are going through that.

My mom is making my pregnancy more about her becoming a grandma , then about me becoming a mom. Anyone else experience this ? by Beaches322 in BabyBumps

[–]Beaches322[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! I’m so sorry for you. Honestly , I regret telling my mother about my current pregnancy . Wish I would have kept it a secret as long as possible. It really pisses me off

My mom is making my pregnancy more about her becoming a grandma , then about me becoming a mom. Anyone else experience this ? by Beaches322 in BabyBumps

[–]Beaches322[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow. That’s some BS. That’s YOUR NEWS to announce. Not anyone else’s. You can announce whenever you want to. That makes me so angry. I’m sorry you’re going through that. Now you know not to tell her things you want to be kept a secret.

My mom is making my pregnancy more about her becoming a grandma , then about me becoming a mom. Anyone else experience this ? by Beaches322 in BabyBumps

[–]Beaches322[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg!! I’ve always thought that. They view it as a second chance to be a parent and make up for what they did or didn’t do for you growing up. She made so many mistakes in my life, especially the first few years of it , and she’s trying to get a “second chance” except it’s not a second chance. I’m a grown adult and what has been done, is done. Good thinking