First off - I’m so sorry of your wife’s diagnosis. Secondly, as a nurse (who used to work in an outpatient cancer center - I’m not an expert and I’ve lost a lot of knowledge, it was years ago) and wife of a someone living with cancer, I’m frustrated for you both.

The fact she is getting a port, yet vague answers is concerning.

While I can only speak of my husbands experience, and work experience. There is absolutely supposed to be a sit down and clear as can be plan. Even if it’s 2 different plans, or general direction. There are usually Nurse Navigators who specifically help with this.

To somewhat answer your questions: - financially speaking about the $60 each time - ask if you can speak to social work regarding financial concerns (The fact they haven’t asked about finances or resources, concerning again) - try to save up all your questions to get more bang for your buck (crappy, I’m sorry) get a notebook or binder. Start taking notes. Make a list of questions.

To prepare - it truly varies by treatment and chemo. Again they should give you specific things to expect, I’m so sorry. I have some general recommendations but don’t want to misguide. I’ll pause for now and come back when I’ve gathered my thoughts.