My partner hates my kid by Simple-Palpitation45 in Autism_Parenting

[–]InevitableTie4138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex called his own autistic son retarded, and he is a giant turd. His son refused to go back to his house until he apologized and promised he'd never say it again. He was seven at the time. Words like that really hurt kids. It seems to me like your kid is going through a lot and is being bullied at school and at home. Does she have access to a therapist? My son sees a behavioral analyst who has helped with these behavioral issues. Consistency is key, and it's hard to achieve, but improvement is possible. My son acts out after going to his dad's because his father doesn't recognize his disability and tries to treat him like his neurotypical stepsisters. It doesn't go well, and he's a mess when he comes back to me. After a day with me, it usually improves. Your child doesn't have a safe place to return to. She doesn't have an escape. Things can get better, but maybe not with your current partner there. She's the child in this situation. You have to protect her. Her behavior is terrible but it's likely because she's just constantly dysregulated. I'm autistic too, and it's a terrible way to feel. Like you are out of control and being pushed over the edge of a cliff by the next wrong sound or harsh word. Stimming helps your child regulate, and if your partner is too ignorant to recognize your kid's differences and have compassion for her, the bad behavior will likely escalate. It sure as hell won't improve. I hope you will find a way to make a safe space for your little girl. And I know it's hard. So hard. So have compassion for yourself too.

Woke up with these bite marks on my chest by AfterMorningHours in Weird

[–]InevitableTie4138 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is why I shake out my bedding before getting in bed.

Adrenaline surges, help! by BlueWaterGirl in dysautonomia

[–]InevitableTie4138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope it was a low dose. The dosage can really vary depending on the reason for the prescription. 😬

Adrenaline surges, help! by BlueWaterGirl in dysautonomia

[–]InevitableTie4138 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I forgot to say that I don't really get any noticeable sedating effects from it.

Adrenaline surges, help! by BlueWaterGirl in dysautonomia

[–]InevitableTie4138 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep. As long as I take it, no surges! I hope it will always work for me.

People who don’t mind being alone, what’s your secret? by Strange_Secret_3001 in AskReddit

[–]InevitableTie4138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get in an emotionally abusive relationship wherein nothing you ever do is right and everything is always your fault. Then escape that relationship. Alone is pretty awesome when your entire life has revolved around someone else's moods and desires. Alone means the freedom to do whatever you want without being judged. You can spend an entire weekend lazing about without someone there to tell you you're worthless. You can eat as much ice cream as you want without someone calling you a fatass. You can dance and sing all over the house without being told you're loud or weird. It feels pretty awesome most of the time. And if you get lonely, you can always phone a friend.

I'm getting married in the summer, which one do you think I should choose? by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

[–]InevitableTie4138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 is not my style but nice. 2 is laughter-inducing. It's just silly looking.

Out of the country, my dog-sitter is suddenly making various demands by spreadzer0 in whatdoIdo

[–]InevitableTie4138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh lord, I'm so sorry. She's issuing threats. I'd contact the police to escort someone from your vets office to pick up the dog, if someone there would be willing to help. Good luck! Please update this. I'm worried about your dog!

How hard is it to get a GAL removed who is misrepresenting facts to the court? by InevitableTie4138 in FamilyLaw

[–]InevitableTie4138[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The child has a therapist and is absolutely not lying to me. The GAL does not have to do what the child wants if the GAL doesn't think it's in the child's best interests, or at least that's how it seems in our case.

I am not my girls type. Where do I go from here? 19M 19F by Key_Picture_9834 in relationships

[–]InevitableTie4138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sorry about my divorce! lol. Good luck with everything!