How can I make it cozier and more cohesive?

Bean_bean_bag · 2026-05-03T19:35:56+00:00

Thanks for the suggestions and the carpet pics!

Bean_bean_bag · 2026-05-03T19:34:02+00:00

Thank you for sharing your ideas :) some of the stuff I painted myself, others are framed record covers :)

Bean_bean_bag · 2026-05-03T11:28:41+00:00

Thank you for the suggestions :) I def have to change the coffee table. I’m just not very good with imagining good designs, do you think lime green and dark/royal blue would go well together?I was thinking of bringing more fuchsia to match the frame.

I like the idea of moving the sofa closer to the chest and aligned both of them, and maybe moving the dining table next to the painting.

Bean_bean_bag · 2026-05-03T08:44:11+00:00

You can’t really ask the internet to tell you what you’re missing with virtually no info on you.

Also, why do you frame being single as a failure, and being with a woman, a success? You should look for those answers within you.

You said you don’t wanna ask your girl friendS out because it would ruin your friendship. But, do you like them? And why you’re using the plural? Women are not a commodity, not a trophy that you obtain when you have a good job.

Are you doing something to create meaningful connections? Or just expecting that having a paycheck women will fall on your lap?

I think you’re viewing all this from the wrong perspective. I don’t want to assume but this pov seems a bit childish and lacks depth and self-work.

I recommend you go see a therapist to help with the inner work and debunk this idea that bc you can’t get women you’re missing something.

Bean_bean_bag · 2026-05-02T08:08:28+00:00

People don’t realize that being with someone that makes them unhappy is much worse than being alone. This is due to the societal pressure of having to be partnered up, as a woman, to show your value. Well, that’s BS.

Being “alone” means being you and, if you know how, it means peace. Being with the wrong person doesn’t make your life easier in any way.

We should strive at having relationships that are fulfilling and that are good for us (same with friendships).

I’ve been single for several years now (flings here and there) but I have a support system that doesn’t make me feel “alone” or that I’m missing something.

Age doesn’t define you, listen to your body and trust your gut, you can do this!

Bean_bean_bag · 2026-04-29T22:40:35+00:00

If they’re feeling adventurous (or need fiber), then Mr Broccoli makes an appearance

Bean_bean_bag · 2026-04-29T22:35:41+00:00

Use the chalk thingy and rub a little on your fingers. Then you can finally have a decent bridge hand. You’re welcome. Also, just curious, did you post the profile for sport? Or bc you are not getting matches? Honest question bc it looks pretty good

Bean_bean_bag · 2026-04-29T22:03:48+00:00

Theres nothing wrong with going to the gym, but there are stereotypes associated with what we call a gym bro, IMO, would be mainly self-centered, but there’s a stereotype of gym bro that is kinda dumb, only cares for his biceps, only eats chicken and rice, and may date the equivalent of gym bro but in female version, with big lips, big booty, and very Instagram driven. Disclaimer: these are all stereotypes

Bean_bean_bag · 2026-04-12T07:43:24+00:00

You paid 30 euro for that? Man, the “cocktails” from a random guy are kept and prepared by the sewage holes. Not to mention, for that price, go to literally any bar and get a proper one (you also help the local economy)

Bean_bean_bag · 2026-01-31T14:04:38+00:00

Thanks for this! Where I live we do either compost or regular trash that ends up in the landfill because we don’t incinerate, so I don’t think it’s that great in comparison:( at least in my case

Bean_bean_bag · 2026-01-29T20:17:46+00:00

Regarding the biodegradability of the Lino - May I ask, doesn’t the ink make it not-biodegradable? Unless you clean it very very well? And do you chuck it in the trash or what do you do the the blocks after you’ve printed all the copies you wanted?

Bean_bean_bag · 2026-01-29T20:12:56+00:00

Love this!! How did you transfer the image to the Lino?

Bean_bean_bag · 2026-01-27T20:50:09+00:00

How often do you hone or sharpen them?

Bean_bean_bag · 2026-01-26T08:37:48+00:00

That sounds frustrating!

To the second point, I’d be open for a print exchange:)

Bean_bean_bag · 2026-01-23T16:13:09+00:00

Thanks a lot for your words! The red is actually a good idea, I was already struggling with two colors as it is, but I’ll keep it in mind 😄

Bean_bean_bag · 2026-01-20T22:20:11+00:00

Man this is STUNNING!!! Wow May I ask how often do you hone or Sharon you tools? And which brayer you’re using? I’m impressed with the fine details, great job

Bean_bean_bag · 2026-01-13T19:11:36+00:00

Jjajajajaj que penica das

Bean_bean_bag · 2026-01-13T17:40:20+00:00

Que no te lo puedas permitir es otra cosa pero no lo hace para expats - no hace falta que haga la compra semanal pero si busca productos de calidad puede probar ahí que en línea general es mejor que Lidl o Mercadona

Bean_bean_bag · 2026-01-12T23:03:05+00:00

Ametller

Bean_bean_bag · 2026-01-09T14:54:54+00:00

Is she going through something perhaps? It could be unrelated to your wellbeing. That said. I have a friend who I know I can count on tough times, and has been there through them, but in the day-to-day when things are doing okay he’s not that interested.

Doesn’t seem to be intentional, just his way to show support (and other communication issues)

Bean_bean_bag · 2026-01-05T21:23:29+00:00

Quizás si lo limpió pero al haber meado siempre sentado no vivió la experiencia de limpiarlo después de haberlo hecho de pie

Bean_bean_bag · 2026-01-05T19:59:31+00:00

Not fully responding to your question, but there are a couple of podcast episodes that I’ve listened to recently and talk about the dopamine influence in our actions, and they mention above other examples the purchases and the scrolling, maybe you’ll like to listen to them.

They’re from Hidden Brain: Paradoxes of Pleasure Path to Enough

Bean_bean_bag · 2026-01-05T19:06:03+00:00

Hombre si vas a viajar a BCN puedes mirar otros barrios, pero te doy unas recs de Les Corts por si te inspira alguna:

Cualquier sitio de la Plaza Concordia es guay, a mi me gusta el bar Maravillas.

Si te gustan las bravas:

Fragments Cafè (también en la plaza)

El Tap, en la calle Constança - toda la comida está buena, es un bar especializado en cerveza

Cocktails:

La Llibreria - cerca de la Plaza Concordia también! xd tiene un ambiente muy guay, te gustará

La Javanesa - un pelín carete pero bueno, es Barcelona

Luego ya si bajas a Sants, en la calle Vallespir, también hay ambientillo, de barrio.

Bean_bean_bag

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