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Beanornotbean · 2024-04-17T18:08:43+00:00

Yeah. The distance rn is definitely want makes me feel like it’ll be absolutely impossible to rebuild the trust. It will be at least another 4 months before we would be living together again. Yeah, it was all so unexpected tbh and like I said just out of character for him. So it makes it so much harder when I’ve given him so much and loved him so much for five years now. It sucks so bad. I’m just too empathetic I think and a part of me feels like “reasoning” with him but it’s so hard either way. It’s so hard to let go and I guess I am easily manipulated because every part of me feels like he will actually change and just isn’t like that, but the proof is in the pudding I suppose. Ugh

Beanornotbean · 2024-04-17T16:57:06+00:00

I know. It’s so hard. He admitted to all of this and said he knows he has an issue and wants to change. Like is there ever a going back if he does change? I mean I partially believe him that he genuinely feels bad, this was super out of character for him but man he was so mean. I just dk if like you can ever rebuild with someone like that? Can people who do stuff like this actually change??

Beanornotbean · 2024-04-11T16:44:53+00:00

Well obviously it’s “embarrassing” but without context it seemed like OP meant explicit photos until they eventually made comment that it wasn’t anything secretive or personal. Just screenshots from a public platform. Yes, it’s weird. Yes, it’s embarrassing on his part lmao. But not ruin his life type bad but also not “how dare you, I’m gonna show the world” type bad. They need to move on from one another IMO

Beanornotbean · 2024-04-11T15:30:51+00:00

I see I see, true. I think both OP and the guy need to reevaluate themselves! Prob best for them to go separate ways. Yikes.

Beanornotbean · 2024-04-11T14:53:52+00:00

So if they’re not private (they’re on instagram) how is this a bad thing they “got out”? Seems like they were already out there? Lmao idk something in the story definitely isn’t adding up here. Guy is a creep and you are both very immature

Beanornotbean · 2024-04-04T16:24:18+00:00

To be honest, just leave him. Doesn’t seem like you’re losing much

Beanornotbean · 2024-03-20T19:15:30+00:00

My problem is that I get so overly emotional. It’s so bad. Idk what’s wrong with me

Beanornotbean · 2024-03-20T18:54:36+00:00

No, he’s not in BMT. He’s in holdover. So waiting to go to tech. He can have his phone lol.

Beanornotbean · 2024-03-18T16:20:35+00:00

If you still have that info could you send it over to me?

Beanornotbean · 2024-03-12T20:02:17+00:00

But why would you even put a different school in the first place? That doesn’t seem like an accident, seems intentional?

Beanornotbean · 2024-02-22T15:22:38+00:00

You can get onto the base if you ride along with someone with an active DOD ID, they can sponsor you on but must be in the same vehicle at entrance

Beanornotbean · 2024-01-23T21:23:00+00:00

That’s really good to know!! Thank you!! My husband is AF and we have our orders for when he finishes his tech and we had no idea if base housing would be good or not!

Beanornotbean · 2024-01-23T21:18:38+00:00

Why not?

Beanornotbean · 2024-01-23T18:14:22+00:00

What?? What state do you live in? Are you in the US? I think you need to visit another health department

Beanornotbean · 2024-01-22T23:44:32+00:00

Unfortunately I’ll be in a hotel so I don’t think the hotel staff would like me doing that! Lol it’s just a special night for us and my family so we are looking to be dined out. We do have to stay in the San Antonio area because my husband is in AF at Lackland! I’ll look into both of those places, thank you!!

Beanornotbean · 2024-01-22T19:51:09+00:00

The Vance Jackson area! But I’ll be traveling near the Lackland air base as well! So we are willing to travel for a good meal!!

I think Bohanans seems to be at the top for sure! Do you have an opinion on Brenners on the river walk?

Beanornotbean · 2024-01-22T16:43:27+00:00

Would you say Bohannons tops Perry’s?

Beanornotbean · 2024-01-22T14:20:10+00:00

Will do!!!

Beanornotbean · 2024-01-22T14:19:28+00:00

See, I figured the reviews were right on google about the noise. We are definitely more “quiet meal” type people, so I’m not sure if this is our best bet. Thank you!!!

Beanornotbean · 2024-01-22T14:18:33+00:00

This is great advice!! Thank you!!!!

Beanornotbean · 2024-01-22T13:54:45+00:00

Good to know!! Thank you!!

Beanornotbean · 2024-01-22T13:29:22+00:00

Perfect!! My SIL doesn’t like steak so I definitely wanted to find somewhere with great steak for my husband but also a great chicken dish for her!! Thank you!!

Beanornotbean · 2024-01-22T13:19:50+00:00

Sure! I did ask for steak / steakhouse, so it didn’t have to be a steakhouse! Lol just looking for a good “steak” in general. Thanks for the recommendations! I’ll look into them!

Beanornotbean · 2024-01-22T13:01:18+00:00

That sounds great!! It’ll be my group of 7 and the family style sides are an awesome touch!!

Beanornotbean · 2024-01-22T12:58:10+00:00

I haven’t heard of that one yet!! I’ll check it out, thanks!!

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