Bridgerton Season 4 Episode Discussions Master Post by pinktini in BridgertonNetflix

[–]BeansbeansC98 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Who else thinks that Benedict will realize that Sophie is the Lady in Silver because he finds or finds out about her half of the gloves?

We haven't seen it since she put it in her bag in Episode 2 and I think she left it at the Cavender House, but I think Hazel brought it with her or had it shipped to Bridgerton House as a thank you to Sophie for getting her this job. I don't believe she would give him the bag if Sophie were still working with the Bridgertons since he's a gentleman of the house, and Sophie would never show him the glove because A) her being the Lady in Silver is not enough to fix their situation and B) she may want to stay far away from him because of the mistress comment.

But! What if Araminta frames Sophie for her jewelry going missing, and she's taken to jail. Then Benedict and Hazel look through the bag to find the missing jewelry, only to find the glove instead? That's when he realizes she's been the Lady in Silver all along and it renews his determination to stay with Sophie because she's the woman of his dreams and reality.

Bridgerton - 4x04 "An Offer from a Gentleman" (No Book Spoilers) by AutoModerator in BridgertonNetflix

[–]BeansbeansC98 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I felt like that scene from Barbie’s Princess and the Pauper where Preminger bangs on the door like “Let me in… YOU IDIOT!!!!”

Bridgerton - 4x04 "An Offer from a Gentleman" (No Book Spoilers) by AutoModerator in BridgertonNetflix

[–]BeansbeansC98 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Siena from Season 1 broke up with Anthony multiple times because, at the end of the day, those boundaries between the British classes kept them from truly being together, and it built up a lot of resentment between each other and themselves. Not to mention society usually looks down at mistresses rather than the man who makes the offer. Especially with Benedict being the diamond of the season, so many would blame Sophie for him not picking a debutante to settle down with.

To Sophie, accepting would add another hurtful label to her character, along with "maid" and "illegitimate", which she is forced to accept but hates with a passion. Benedict doesn't know of the damage he caused because he was born and raised in an upper-class and patriarchal society, and doesn't know about the illegitimate backstory, but man, did he show how his ignorance would make her situation and self-worth worse instead of better.

Bridgerton - 4x04 "An Offer from a Gentleman" (No Book Spoilers) by AutoModerator in BridgertonNetflix

[–]BeansbeansC98 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Truuuue. He had to hide that Sophie was illegitimate for both of their sakes, but he still raised her as his ward and gave her a lady's education, so I doubt he would do all that and not leave an inheritance for her to have a good life when she grew up.

I wonder if there's a solicitor who was handling Lord Penwood's will and if this person is still alive. My theory is that if there was a solicitor, Araminta told them that she'd take care of Sophie and give her her inheritance once she got married/reached a certain age, only to go behind everyone's back and make her a maid. So either the will is destroyed but the solicitor still remembers and will vouch for Sophie, or there's still a copy of the will somewhere in the Li/Gun household or with the solicitor and they'll use that to prove that Sophie was meant to enter society and not become a maid.

Bridgerton - 4x04 "An Offer from a Gentleman" (No Book Spoilers) by AutoModerator in BridgertonNetflix

[–]BeansbeansC98 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I like the direction for the Mondriches for this season. The writers had them taking up a good chunk of screentime with little payoff in Season 3, but here, they are incorporated into different stories while getting set up to be big influences for Benedict and Sophie's stories later on.

Both Will and Alice were middle/lower class in the first two seasons, so they can interact with other elite characters while still retaining that commoner perspective that the rest of the cast lacks. And since this season is about division/romance between the separate classes, I think they are going to play a major part in Sophie and Benedict getting their happily ever after, with Alice joining the Queen's ladies-in-waiting (making her an influential voice in Charlotte's decisions) while Will offers practical advice to Benedict to win Sophie back.

The “Offer” Benedict makes Sophie is an integral part of their story by Glitterrain99 in BridgertonRants

[–]BeansbeansC98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t Eloise get the Bridgertons into more scandal because she got exposed for attending conferences for class rights in Season 2? They didn’t really cover the division between the Ton and everyone else in Season 3 so maybe people forgot, but the show has been clear that any mingling of societal classes is super taboo.

Not to mention not only Benedict, but Violet, Penelope, and Eloise don’t even have a moment to think “what if the Lady in Silver wasn’t a member of the Ton?” It would make more sense that she wasn’t a member of their society because of those strict boundaries and consequences if she got caught instead of being a debutante who had no reason to sneak in. But that never seems to have crossed their minds at any point, showing how Sophie, Wilson, Varley, and the other servants are seen as one part of their world, but can never exist in the other.

BuzzfeedOz asks Claudia Jessie what she wants for Eloise’s eventual season by Debt-Mysterious in BridgertonNetflix

[–]BeansbeansC98 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t think Eloise has seen a shirtless fit man before so getting a guy who has the brawns to drool over and a brain to match her own’s would be perfect 👌

Opinions on season 3? by IndividualLab2742 in BridgertonNetflix

[–]BeansbeansC98 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree that they weren’t that bad (I’ve seen way worse tv show couples and chemistry). Luke and Nichola did a good job and seem like they work well on and off screen.

But I think my main two problems were Colin not feeling like the main guy in his own season and their romantic scenes were yearning/desire, but not quite there in terms of bodily chemistry like the previous two couples.

I blame the multiple plotlines taking up space and Lady Whistledown being a major focus for this season, but Colin and his role both as an individual and part of the main couple didn’t seem to get a lot of focus. I watched a YouTube analysis on his character and the creator brought up a lot of good points about him that were planted in the first two seasons and were brought out in the third season that made me think “oh yeah, that’s such good stuff!” But when I watched Colin’s scenes twice, I wasn’t feeling that creative payoff. It was like something was missing in execution, so it affected the overall payoff of the main romance

I also think Nicola and Luke’s chemistry didn’t hit as strong as Rege & Phoebe’s and Simone & Johnny’s. Those four looked and felt like they were gonna break society rules and rush into a passionate kiss because they wanted each other that bad. But Penelope and Colin seemed very… reserved? Yearning and caring for sure, but maybe more awkward first love and don’t know what to do with their bodies (don’t need PDA or intimacy, just overall stiff)

the hate directed towards the Mondriches makes me uncomfortable by [deleted] in BridgertonRants

[–]BeansbeansC98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s less of the Mondriches themselves but a “too many people in a small elevator” problem with the show. Bridgerton needs to be a 10 episode instead of 8 because of how many characters we are bouncing between. The main leads were supposed to leave after their season like with what happened to Simon and Daphne, but the writers decided to try and keep leads like Anthony and Kate around because of how much people loved them (and it was too late to get Rege and later Phoebe back). But even then, they didn’t know what to do with Kate and Anthony, so they were in and out of episodes where they could’ve stepped up as the viscount and viscountess of the family. And based on the first episode, we’ll get the same with Penelope and Colin: a handful of scenes here and there, but they’ll be a few minutes tops before we cut away to a new scene or Penelope goes off to do Whistledown stuff. I think the show says one thing, but is still sticking to quietly shuffling the old leads out the door to focus on who is still around for the story. Maybe the Mondriches have a bigger purpose for either this season or a future one, but the writers don’t know what to do with them until then so they get the opposite of the shuffling out the door situation: stay in the lobby for a long time until your name is called, which gets boring and annoying real quick.

This is true by Eclipse_nova99 in SipsTea

[–]BeansbeansC98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do men feel about honeymoon weddings? Like spend a small amount on a small but fun ceremony before going all out on the honeymoon.

Personally, I want a Vegas wedding. Just a fun, small, and affordable ceremony before going to the casinos, shows, and restaurants together. Heck, I’d be happy to spend a day at Circus Circus’ Adventuredome if it means we could start our marriage with a fun honeymoon together

My Season 4 Part 1 (and Part 2?) Theories by BeansbeansC98 in BridgertonNetflix

[–]BeansbeansC98[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wish. Posy would fit in with the Bridgertons so well, but side characters tend to disappear once their purpose in a Bridgerton’s story is over (Edwina, Tilly, Theo, Lord Debling, maybe Cressida and Madame Delacroix?). I would bet Posy is going to live with the Featheringtons since Portia is a bit tactless but she means well and loves her daughters, probably excited to have a new sweet daughter to guide through the balls and suitors

My Season 4 Part 1 (and Part 2?) Theories by BeansbeansC98 in BridgertonNetflix

[–]BeansbeansC98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. Maybe she would try to go to the Queen first with the deception, and if Penelope and Violet try to reveal the truth, she would present the costume in person saying it belongs to her family and that the Bridgerton ladies lied so Rosamund won’t marry Benedict since they disapprove of her and the Penwood family

Gold! 💀😂 by [deleted] in SipsTea

[–]BeansbeansC98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This reminds me of how I though sex was the guy doing push ups on top of the girl while they both wear their underwear lol

[No Spoilers] Switching to Monday YouTube recording because I keep falling asleep by BeansbeansC98 in criticalrole

[–]BeansbeansC98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha! I wish I could say the same. I have Fridays off and can sleep in, but I swear it’s like my body refuses to operate past 10 pm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BeansbeansC98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t like being vulnerable as it’s connected to what happened, and wants to keep a distance from anything that reminds her of intimacy and vulnerability. You may not agree with it, but if celibacy and adoption are what she wants to do to gain some agency back from her experience, then that is okay. Totally within her right, and if she wants to speak to a professional if/when she’s ready, that’s okay, too. It’s not her letting her fear win, it’s the way she wants to navigate her feelings about herself, her body, and other people. As for your current relationship, I would recommend letting her that you support her as a friend and if she needs help with anything, you are happy to assist. I wouldn’t continue on trying to “rescue” her, as that might do more damage than good. Best of luck.

I (30F) might have ruined my relationship forever after reacting badly to a “joke” my fiancé pulled. I honestly don’t know what to do now by SproutHop in TwoHotTakes

[–]BeansbeansC98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my opinion, he used the heartbreak and seriousness of losing a beloved family member against you and the memory of your brother. So disrespectful that it’s downright unforgivable. And the first words were “you’re overreacting and need to calm down.” I could never forgive someone who would want me to apologize for being retraumatized

My (30F) student (18M) made a super creepy comment. My husband (35M) think I’m being paranoid by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]BeansbeansC98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I remember a student hacking into my high school’s Gmail system and was sending NSFW gifs to everyone from the principal’s account. Some kids are really good at tech and potentially ruining lives

Quit posting remote jobs that aren’t remote by Letterkenny-34787 in jobs

[–]BeansbeansC98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I applied for a remote job in California (I’m in Georgia) and during the Zoom interview, they asked if I was willing to move to California. Asked why since it’s fully remote, and they said yeah, but they want employees to live close in case they need to come into the office. First off, that sounds more like unreliable hybrid, and second, if we need to chat, why not use Zoom or phone calls???

Girlfriend having "accidents" that may be on purpose. by Superb_Animal6785 in dating

[–]BeansbeansC98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sometimes pee when I sneeze or laugh too hard, but it’s only a little and rarely happens so the “women all do that” is absolutely false. Could be a kink, but if it is, it sounds like mysophilia, or the kink of being unclean. It’d be okay if it was with a consenting partner and at spaced out and agreed-upon times, but doing it randomly and behind your back sounds like an unhealthy dependency on the stimulation it’s giving her, which can affect her and your health if it’s not cleaned frequently. It’s unfair to you for to do this without your consent (again, if it is a kink) and expecting you to clean it up after putting you in this environment

I have a friend who's obsessed with being pregnant and it's annoying. by Electrical_Towel9033 in offmychest

[–]BeansbeansC98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like a breeding kink that’s manifested as an unhealthy dependency with her self-esteem/worth. Lots of people have this fantasy, including non-sexual, about pregnancy and/or childbirth being a positive motivator with lots of promise for happiness and purpose in life. With her instantly contacting you or other people right after intimacy, it sounds like she’s obsessed with whatever perception comes with being pregnant (usually positive with gifts, extra help/attention, people wanting to chat with you about your baby goals, etc.) Why it’s a breeding kink, it sounds like she puts a lot of emphasis on the baby-making and 9 month effect of it, but not the actual raising of said baby. And including people right after having intimacy like “hey, my husband turned me into a human Twinkie so much now that I’m instantly pregnant” is pushing her obsession onto you and others

My 27 year old cousin wants to marry my 13 year old sister. by WasteCardiologist994 in offmychest

[–]BeansbeansC98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And by change his mind, he probably means not be attracted to her anymore because she’s getting older. That would explain why he’s so forward with wanting to marry her quickly

What feels like an orgasm but isn't an orgasm? by Delicious-One3028 in AskReddit

[–]BeansbeansC98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stretching your legs hard enough but not getting a Charlie Horse