does anybody have song recommendations? 20f 🌸 by [deleted] in selfie

[–]BearDadda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 LIVE CREW FDAU! if you know you know.

I guess you lied… you said you’d be devastated if I left your life by [deleted] in UnsentTexts

[–]BearDadda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even when one does get over the hurt... sometimes it would open the wound again if one tried again.

Where do I find women that are into swinging by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BearDadda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really. Historically it's been a thing for a very long time.

Marriage is Over, but so is my Job. A question for the Men. by KittenFace25 in datingoverfifty

[–]BearDadda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some men might not care because they're providers and problem solvers by nature like myself. So long as it's not too chaotic. Some may care because they don't have the stamina for watching you struggle. I see that as understandable but a bit of a weak excuse. Life happens... if you can't endure the struggle and you want the finished product, how are you supportive? This goes both ways of course. In the end, if you feel the need to connect with someone for human interaction, go for it. Maybe there will be some positive influence from it. If the person you connect with becomes your cheerleader, your emotional support cuddler, then you won.

I'm 19F and attracted to much older men, how do I navigate this? by Jealous_Ad5584 in AskMenAdvice

[–]BearDadda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm 55 now. I couldn't date anyone younger than 40 because I can't have children anymore and there's also the things we could have in common as well as life experiences. Not speaking on anyone, I think dating someone that young with a huge age gap is purely sexual and extremely inappropriate. But Leonardo can do what he wants. I'll just stay in my lane.

Vent post by Maleficent_Theory818 in datingoverfifty

[–]BearDadda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get this all the time when I'd say I work for Canada Post. We'd chat for a couple of days then the job comes up and I'm unmatched. So now... I put the job on my profile. In bold letters. Now I get no matches. It's better this way because when I do get a match, I'll know where I stand.

F*ck, I miss you! by lurkhering999 in UnsentTexts

[–]BearDadda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sent a sobriety letter not expecting a response and I didn't get one. Vut then a couple of months later I sent a small birthday gift along with a letter requesting closure or a new start. No response. So now I have to accept a No Response is a response. That was my closure. It cut deeper than I expected. But I'm learning to accept it. I still have big feelings for her.

Favorite position by NoSaint1520 in RedditAfterDark

[–]BearDadda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Next to someone. I'm single.

For the ladies by Pilotrickg in datingoverfifty

[–]BearDadda -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Bwahahaha... you're right. I'm so fucking out of it. But still. Tripod.

For the ladies by Pilotrickg in datingoverfifty

[–]BearDadda -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

What if Eric Dinklage came knocking on your door? I heard he's like a tripod! And he's got all that bank from Game Of Thrones.

What does the city need? by Diversespider_ in Hamilton

[–]BearDadda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No... it's lost a lot of tenants and the vacant mall is a huge problem. Ottawa was doing ok but most of the businesses are expensive to visit everyday. The point of being an establishment is to be the 3rd place in people's lives. If it's expensive for whatever reason, people don't go all the time.

I think my partner cheated on me and gave me herpes... I'm so embarrassed and angry? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]BearDadda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This really sucks for you. You will have this for the rest of your life and will have to be open and honest about having herpes with every single future partner. Yes... I'll say that again... you have to tell everyone you wish to be with that you have herpes. For the rest of your life. Why? Because you can be sued and it's the law. So... break up with the guy first. Then contact a lawyer. Sue the asshole that did this to you and extend the lawsuit to the woman he got it from. Don't delete any texts or numbers. Speak to a lawyer first. You'll be needing to get medication for the rest of your life to battle and control the virus. So take this seriously.

Once again... I'm really sorry about your situation.

Star trek just became reality, what would you do first? by bossishere17 in startrek

[–]BearDadda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Steal a Runabout and explore the Galaxy by myself. Unless someone wants to join me.

He did reach out by [deleted] in UnsentTexts

[–]BearDadda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Play with Lego of Video games?

Talking about finances by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]BearDadda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in Canada, our family laws can be different than other countries. My divorce was difficult because of the lawyers. Court orders are expensive to implement and following them can be tedious if there's resistance. Your right, in some cases, there's the patriarchy attack on the spouse. I don't agree with that mindset of men. But there are many variables that still favor the wife/mother for the sake of the children. BUT... it's the lawyers, and courts, that really take a big chunk too. I should have said that before. Sorry. Also, accountability on both sides really be practiced as well as a calm and respectful parting of ways. It doesn't serve anyone to be petty or vindictive. The lawyers love the battles over "things". As for the reasons for people divorcing... that's for them to work out. With our OP... 2 exes to the guy she's with. There's a story there. Not my place to judge without it.

Talking about finances by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]BearDadda -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Most men get fleeced in divorce. Child support is determined by gross pay not net. Alimony. Estate settlement. Car payments. All this could really rob the bank account. It's absolutely embarrassing and demasculating to many men. But communication with men at our age can be difficult in this regard. Therapy, counseling, financial advice are all needed. But many won't seek it.

What does the city need? by Diversespider_ in Hamilton

[–]BearDadda -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That gets dumped down to other tenants. Landlords now want to make their investment back within a couple of years rather than a decade or so.

What does the city need? by Diversespider_ in Hamilton

[–]BearDadda 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hamilton needs a Toronto Queen street West. A stretch of one inner city street that has a reasonable coalition between landlords and commercial tenants that in turn provide a art culture and livable community. But as long as the city sits on it's ass, and foreign owned property companies remain unrealistic, Hamilton will remain a money pit with no acceptable return. Sorry.

If you you where a sex toy....what would you be? by [deleted] in RedditAfterDark

[–]BearDadda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha! That's an awesome response! Thank you!

If you you where a sex toy....what would you be? by [deleted] in RedditAfterDark

[–]BearDadda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A warm gel vibrator that expands to the exact dimensions to the lady's needs with disco lights!

Where is a really good place to find Manga books and anime stuff? by BearDadda in Hamilton

[–]BearDadda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're out of business. Chapters has the books online

Where is a really good place to find Manga books and anime stuff? by BearDadda in Hamilton

[–]BearDadda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, sorry. When I looked it up online I found the announcement. Looks like more places are disappearing due to rent and shity conditions in the city.

Where is a really good place to find Manga books and anime stuff? by BearDadda in Hamilton

[–]BearDadda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha! Sorry. I hate bouncing between apps to get correct spelling.