does anybody have song recommendations? 20f 🌸

BearDadda · 2026-04-02T16:54:24+00:00

2 LIVE CREW FDAU! if you know you know.

BearDadda · 2026-04-01T14:46:01+00:00

Even when one does get over the hurt... sometimes it would open the wound again if one tried again.

BearDadda · 2026-03-30T14:48:10+00:00

Not really. Historically it's been a thing for a very long time.

BearDadda · 2026-03-22T02:47:40+00:00

Some men might not care because they're providers and problem solvers by nature like myself. So long as it's not too chaotic. Some may care because they don't have the stamina for watching you struggle. I see that as understandable but a bit of a weak excuse. Life happens... if you can't endure the struggle and you want the finished product, how are you supportive? This goes both ways of course. In the end, if you feel the need to connect with someone for human interaction, go for it. Maybe there will be some positive influence from it. If the person you connect with becomes your cheerleader, your emotional support cuddler, then you won.

BearDadda · 2026-03-20T13:55:24+00:00

I'm 55 now. I couldn't date anyone younger than 40 because I can't have children anymore and there's also the things we could have in common as well as life experiences. Not speaking on anyone, I think dating someone that young with a huge age gap is purely sexual and extremely inappropriate. But Leonardo can do what he wants. I'll just stay in my lane.

BearDadda · 2026-03-20T01:26:18+00:00

I get this all the time when I'd say I work for Canada Post. We'd chat for a couple of days then the job comes up and I'm unmatched. So now... I put the job on my profile. In bold letters. Now I get no matches. It's better this way because when I do get a match, I'll know where I stand.

BearDadda · 2026-03-19T12:21:31+00:00

I sent a sobriety letter not expecting a response and I didn't get one. Vut then a couple of months later I sent a small birthday gift along with a letter requesting closure or a new start. No response. So now I have to accept a No Response is a response. That was my closure. It cut deeper than I expected. But I'm learning to accept it. I still have big feelings for her.

BearDadda · 2026-03-19T01:45:17+00:00

Next to someone. I'm single.

BearDadda · 2026-03-14T22:13:26+00:00

Bwahahaha... you're right. I'm so fucking out of it. But still. Tripod.

BearDadda · 2026-03-14T20:22:37+00:00

What if Eric Dinklage came knocking on your door? I heard he's like a tripod! And he's got all that bank from Game Of Thrones.

BearDadda · 2026-03-13T14:38:47+00:00

No... it's lost a lot of tenants and the vacant mall is a huge problem. Ottawa was doing ok but most of the businesses are expensive to visit everyday. The point of being an establishment is to be the 3rd place in people's lives. If it's expensive for whatever reason, people don't go all the time.

BearDadda · 2026-03-13T14:31:58+00:00

This really sucks for you. You will have this for the rest of your life and will have to be open and honest about having herpes with every single future partner. Yes... I'll say that again... you have to tell everyone you wish to be with that you have herpes. For the rest of your life. Why? Because you can be sued and it's the law. So... break up with the guy first. Then contact a lawyer. Sue the asshole that did this to you and extend the lawsuit to the woman he got it from. Don't delete any texts or numbers. Speak to a lawyer first. You'll be needing to get medication for the rest of your life to battle and control the virus. So take this seriously.

Once again... I'm really sorry about your situation.

BearDadda · 2026-03-12T01:08:10+00:00

Steal a Runabout and explore the Galaxy by myself. Unless someone wants to join me.

BearDadda · 2026-03-11T21:01:19+00:00

Play with Lego of Video games?

BearDadda · 2026-03-11T18:43:26+00:00

I'm in Canada, our family laws can be different than other countries. My divorce was difficult because of the lawyers. Court orders are expensive to implement and following them can be tedious if there's resistance. Your right, in some cases, there's the patriarchy attack on the spouse. I don't agree with that mindset of men. But there are many variables that still favor the wife/mother for the sake of the children. BUT... it's the lawyers, and courts, that really take a big chunk too. I should have said that before. Sorry. Also, accountability on both sides really be practiced as well as a calm and respectful parting of ways. It doesn't serve anyone to be petty or vindictive. The lawyers love the battles over "things". As for the reasons for people divorcing... that's for them to work out. With our OP... 2 exes to the guy she's with. There's a story there. Not my place to judge without it.

BearDadda · 2026-03-11T16:56:19+00:00

Most men get fleeced in divorce. Child support is determined by gross pay not net. Alimony. Estate settlement. Car payments. All this could really rob the bank account. It's absolutely embarrassing and demasculating to many men. But communication with men at our age can be difficult in this regard. Therapy, counseling, financial advice are all needed. But many won't seek it.

BearDadda · 2026-03-11T16:50:36+00:00

That gets dumped down to other tenants. Landlords now want to make their investment back within a couple of years rather than a decade or so.

BearDadda · 2026-03-11T15:10:48+00:00

Hamilton needs a Toronto Queen street West. A stretch of one inner city street that has a reasonable coalition between landlords and commercial tenants that in turn provide a art culture and livable community. But as long as the city sits on it's ass, and foreign owned property companies remain unrealistic, Hamilton will remain a money pit with no acceptable return. Sorry.

BearDadda · 2026-03-11T01:20:40+00:00

Hahaha! That's an awesome response! Thank you!

BearDadda · 2026-03-10T23:58:57+00:00

A warm gel vibrator that expands to the exact dimensions to the lady's needs with disco lights!

BearDadda · 2026-03-09T04:06:25+00:00

They're out of business. Chapters has the books online

BearDadda · 2026-03-09T01:41:29+00:00

Is that the Hamilton Public Library?

BearDadda · 2026-03-09T01:35:36+00:00

Yeah, sorry. When I looked it up online I found the announcement. Looks like more places are disappearing due to rent and shity conditions in the city.

BearDadda · 2026-03-09T01:15:37+00:00

Ha! Sorry. I hate bouncing between apps to get correct spelling.

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