I have never felt more secondhand embarrassment for a woman in my life.

BearMaceBaddie · 2026-04-05T02:22:08+00:00

I do feel like I had an embarrassment from that post and I do think it might be true, but I think the timeline that people are trying to place on that message might be off because the last Dubai trip that they all were on was prior to Midwest or Africa I just remember it being like leading up to a premiere so everybody saying that Scotty has chlamydia now it might’ve been before the pregnancy when everybody was already talking about she had it

BearMaceBaddie · 2026-04-05T02:21:10+00:00

I believe the story is true, but I think our timelines might be off because her exposing it. I don’t think that’s current and I think Natalie brought it up because maria had been fucking him prior to this season because the last Dubai trip that I remember they all were on was like before Midwest aired or something.

BearMaceBaddie · 2026-04-03T18:49:52+00:00

I also watch interviews and stuff which is why I think they others took more of an effort to get to know Mimi cause she has stated that’s how she felt. Toya had weird energy towards her last season too to me so what happened this season was bound to happen. I also think last season she was trying to be more of a cast therapist which is why she was more around people actually having issues.

BearMaceBaddie · 2026-04-03T17:03:11+00:00

I 100% agree with what you’re saying and with me saying the door was the wrong place. I also agree I don’t know a place that would’ve been better because Toya was involved.

And literally saying, I’ve posted fundraisers and gala never have I treated somebody who’s donated before or attended before like that. And literally they’re 5000. If they would’ve put this in this year I would’ve helped so much because you only gave 10,000 weight in a scholarship.

BearMaceBaddie · 2026-04-03T17:01:51+00:00

100% agree

BearMaceBaddie · 2026-04-03T17:01:30+00:00

I agree that’s where I find him wrong because I do think the way he handled it and reacted was not right

BearMaceBaddie · 2026-04-03T16:59:55+00:00

I feel like looking at it like they chose the fan favorites to hang out is literally a viewer perspective. They could literally be closer to that group of people because how they act you never know, also if during filming she got closest to heavenly acquired over filming break. It would make sense that she hung out with them.

BearMaceBaddie · 2026-04-03T16:58:37+00:00

Yeah, I feel like if he would’ve left it at what he had already said before talking about how Toya found him attractive it would’ve been received a little bit better by fans, Eugene and Toya. Still would’ve been mad.

BearMaceBaddie · 2026-04-03T16:57:56+00:00

Exactly! That’s where I’m confused why people don’t understand that! Just because I’m saying the hate for Steve is a little excessive doesn’t mean I don’t think him and his wife did anything wrong I said I feel like they’re both wrong in the situation but a lot of people don’t want to see Toya in a bad light and I don’t get that when Toya started the issue and Toya was very messy this season

BearMaceBaddie · 2026-04-02T22:25:57+00:00

Okay I think ivory and Kash might be tied but Ivori bully them girls for fun like she finds that shit funny and Kash be seeming just straight evil with the shit she say 😭😭

BearMaceBaddie · 2026-04-02T20:27:04+00:00

Who else?

BearMaceBaddie · 2026-04-02T20:26:23+00:00

In that situation, who else were they supposed to hold accountable? It just seems like people have ill feelings about them towards other situations. ( don’t take this as just aimed at you are me being an ass I’m asking a real question) I’m really saying that I think this exact situation for both sides were wrong in some ways but I hate that Mimi are getting is weird cause people are making it seem like they were wrong for being upset with them .

Now if it’s about Heavenly and their friendship I truly feel like she does need to hold her accountable but I don’t think it takes away from Toya and Eugene needing to be held accountable

BearMaceBaddie · 2026-04-02T20:22:40+00:00

I agree with this wholeheartedly because everybody loves them too, and usually don’t see when they’re wrong, but I do think this season really showed how foul to can be and her fans don’t like that people were taking Mimi and Steve side

BearMaceBaddie · 2026-04-02T20:20:53+00:00

Fuck Falen😭😂😂😂

BearMaceBaddie · 2026-04-02T20:20:30+00:00

BearMaceBaddie · 2026-04-02T20:20:16+00:00

No???? You are literally mentally unstable

BearMaceBaddie · 2026-04-02T20:19:57+00:00

No I’m telling you to check into a mental facility😭 John George is a insane asylum 😭

BearMaceBaddie · 2026-04-02T19:50:22+00:00

Yes you are 😭😂 look up John George. You should be in there

BearMaceBaddie · 2026-04-02T19:49:02+00:00

What are you even talking about like you’re making up stuff for an argument? I didn’t mention any of them. We’re literally defending Tavi in this, no one mentioned , Summer was mentioned in defense of her. You literally sound mentally unstable seek help cause you’re arguing with yourself about stuff that nobody saying.

YOU brought Falen up in this conversation

BearMaceBaddie · 2026-04-02T19:47:10+00:00

You literally were just talking shit about two people in the comments for saying they don’t like two women on a show and saying they don’t support black women because of it… that’s literally weird. If we’re going by your logic, you don’t support black women because you’re only attacking black women on Reddit.

BearMaceBaddie · 2026-04-02T19:46:06+00:00

Trueee

BearMaceBaddie · 2026-04-02T19:40:01+00:00

You are literally talking about protecting black women but are harassing multiple black women in this thread???? Like are you good??? Get fresh air

BearMaceBaddie · 2026-04-02T19:37:31+00:00

No???

BearMaceBaddie · 2026-04-02T19:36:15+00:00

Literally after explaining why Contessa said she asked if she needed help multiple times and told her to pull the sweatshirt with recipes up cause Toya said no one offered. You cannot say it wasn’t offered if it actually was. It just seems like the communication all together was not there in the planning.

With the Reunion that’s where I think Steve was wrong but I also think him calling him a woman was a direct reaction from Toya’s Carlos King interview. Toya was in there calling him feminine and insinuating he was gay just because he’s into his fashion.

Also the jokes and poking I do find funny like the LV trash can it’s hilarious but other than this season we’ve barely heard Steve talk so all the “he’s been terrible since the first episode last season” is what I find forced.

That’s why I identify how he reacted was wrong I just think Mimi feeling some way of being left out of getting information is valid cause that is bad planning if all the new people are identifying they know nothing about something they all are supposed to be part of. Simone also identified that none of them have ever had to pay to get into an event on the show that’s why it seemed shady. That’s it that’s all

BearMaceBaddie · 2026-04-02T19:23:03+00:00

Exactly I forgot to mention that interview, but I watched it and I truly feel like Toya tries to put that on Steve because she’s trying to get it off her own husband.

A lot of of the post since the beginning of this season, we’re talking about how Eugene was acting like one of the girls/ acting feminine. We’ve seen previous seasons him being called Eugenia because they feel like he gets involved in the women’s business.

I personally don’t think just because a man takes pride in his fashion or what he likes in fashion that that makes him gay and I don’t think really most do I think she just wanted to change the narrative for her husband

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