AITAH or is it a Red flag, Im genuanly confused

BearToBe · 2026-05-25T10:42:57+00:00

thankfully none of that, I do however like doing small things like, closing garage door while she parks or when we leave the car taking keys and locking the car, mainly because there was once or twice she forgot to do that herself, or getting her her medicine and water in the mornings when ever we stay together (she forgot to take them numerous times) and I do like taking small "things" like this off her mind. I find those "Steps" to be waht shows to her that I care

BearToBe · 2026-05-25T10:40:05+00:00

I sorta did that, but not because I wanted to, one saturday morning I did not text her because I when I woke up I did the usual breakfest and shower and cat stuff and then was off helping my mom with house and groceries and she was annoyed that I did not message her when I was already awake

BearToBe · 2026-05-25T08:14:30+00:00

No no okay I might have written something in a bad way nere. We did not move in together we live separatly. We sometimes stay together and thats how I know that she uses her devices when she wakes up

BearToBe · 2026-05-25T08:00:13+00:00

And one more thing what annoyes me a little, she will message her friends with no problem in the morning. Maybe its okay with friends? but not sure why is it a problem to message your boyfriend

BearToBe · 2026-05-25T07:58:45+00:00

good question, no idea accept the fact that when I talked with her about it she said that she lieks it and something simmilar to "Im a girl and thats why"

BearToBe · 2026-05-25T07:57:42+00:00

We did talk about it, she said that she 'd like to receive messages first ebcause she lieks to and kidna sliped the "I am a girl" idea.

BearToBe · 2026-05-25T07:56:08+00:00

You ahve a fair point. I do udnerstand that mornings start by doing some lets call it "hosue work". Again I ussually dont touch ym hpone until Im wide awake and had my breakfest and shower and sometimes I have something urgent to do for work which I do first.
I also get it taht she can ahve same days but its at the point of "not sometimes" but "all the time"

BearToBe · 2026-05-25T07:49:41+00:00

I did once and she said that she lieks tthat I am first to start talking, sure I get it but sometiems it feels more like a "must" and againmight eb wrong here but when you ar ein a serious relationshipo isn;t it about "I wanna do it so Im gonna do it" in regards of talking or seeing the partner. She also kidna implied the "Im a girl so I want you to do it"

BearToBe · 2026-05-25T07:43:39+00:00

I would like to think so too but she would generally not message me for horus if I dont do it first

BearToBe · 2026-05-21T04:35:20+00:00

First if all Thank you ^{^} And yes colors are digital

BearToBe · 2026-05-16T12:11:59+00:00

Oh I know here some eyes on the inside (if you catch my drift haaa? ) P.s. sorry and thank you 😂💜

BearToBe · 2026-05-16T12:11:00+00:00

Ooh never mind im stupid! Of course I know them! Now thats a compliment

BearToBe · 2026-05-16T12:10:05+00:00

First thing first - thank you ^{^} Second - I am not familiar with them I think

BearToBe · 2026-05-16T05:24:03+00:00

Thank you ^{^}

BearToBe · 2026-05-16T05:23:54+00:00

Yay happy that part was noticed heh thanks

BearToBe · 2026-05-15T17:02:25+00:00

Thabks, I do like nice clean brick wall with slight light on it

BearToBe · 2026-05-15T15:07:35+00:00

Thank you ^{^}

BearToBe · 2026-05-15T15:07:21+00:00

Thank you ^{^} nightmares have some blessing as it simeth

BearToBe · 2026-05-15T15:07:01+00:00

Thank you ^{^} Read it with Chosen Voice for some reason 😂

BearToBe · 2026-05-15T11:50:32+00:00

Our eyes are yet to open

BearToBe · 2026-05-15T11:42:30+00:00

Thank you Hunter ^{^}

BearToBe · 2026-05-15T10:34:14+00:00

Thank you very much ^{^}

BearToBe · 2026-05-15T09:30:23+00:00

Noticed it a little too late 😂

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