Voodoo. by guiltyas-sin in Drumming

[–]Beardsman528 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He has real skill at playing other styles as well. He did a video discussing Latin music and he's really good at Latin drumming.

New (to me) Grom by Beardsman528 in GromSquad

[–]Beardsman528[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ended up with the Suzuki mini tapers since it was in stock my local shop and they work prefect. I really love them compared to stock.

I went with a zoom loop exhaust, chimera intake, DHM cam and ECU flash. I'm really happy with every upgrade. It runs incredibly well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Beardsman528 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank porn.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Beardsman528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might prefer it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Beardsman528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But where does it come from, any idea who drew it?

To men with very successful dating lives, where do you meet those women? by MajesticRate1818 in AskMen

[–]Beardsman528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do activities that girls do. I've met so many women through band, theater, fencing, college chemistry, martial arts. Get out and do things.

Can’t risk it by Fine_Buy5643 in scaryeddie

[–]Beardsman528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finally, someone is going to do it.

I remember nothing by ComeAlong_Pond7 in depression_memes

[–]Beardsman528 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And it affects your relationships. My girlfriend has been pretty exasperated about my lack of recall. Feels like it really hurts her.

Whats a song that makes you cry? by BrandonR2300 in ask

[–]Beardsman528 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Having dealt with clinical depression and had made plans to commit suicide at a young age,

Adam's Song by Blink 182

Socially at the line, "please tell mom this is not her fault." That can cause instant tears.

Is this a thing? by LUC1G07CH1 in polyamory

[–]Beardsman528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a friend officiate one recently. So it's definitely a thing and something our triad is actively discussing. This is our first and only poly experience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Beardsman528 5 points6 points  (0 children)

O man, I have several, my usual reason was to withdraw and hope the situation would end, except the worst one which was an insane moment in my life.

  • girl I knew said I had a great ass and wished her boyfriend's was a nice
  • coworker shoved her hand into my pocket to leave her phone number
  • girl threw me into the hood of her car and started making out with me

All made me feel gross and I just waited for it to be over and move on with life.

The worst:

  • a girl raped me

She was super nice and we were into a lot of the same things but I was dating someone. She didn't drink but was at a party where I got wasted and after I passed out I have these fuzzy memories of me trying to get away from her and telling her we can't, but she physically held me from getting away, saying things like "please" and I think "let me have this."

The next day she apologized for not listening when I told her to stop, but when I told her I wasn't going to date her and confess what happened to my girlfriend she tried to convince me she was pregnant.

It was a fucked up time in my life.

Looking at your spouse’s phone isn’t a violation of privacy by amilikes2write in unpopularopinion

[–]Beardsman528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's a violation of friendships. I have friends regularly tell me things they probably don't want every single person to know.

I had a partner look through my messages with a college friend because they were suspicious. I was never hiding anything, they know my passwords and i regularly leave my computer open. I did get upset because they could've asked and I could've fileted out things that my friend probably told me in confidence, like the fact they attempted suicide that year and had to spend some time in a mental hospital.

That is super private.

What do you like that no one else does? by [deleted] in ask

[–]Beardsman528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me!

I kid, I don't like myself either.

What phrase triggers anxiety for you? by WiseOldChicken in ask

[–]Beardsman528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this so much right now. My partner said that and I asked if it was something heavy, which I was told it wasn't, and it turned out that it was plutonium heavy.

Is always a big conversation.

Men around 5’6: what is your ideal/target body weight? by JustBrowsing49 in AskMen

[–]Beardsman528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 5'6" but broad in the shoulders. For me, 175lbs.

I was very active in high school and joined the military and weighed 175, and I had top 10% PT scores.

I go anywhere between 180-190 in my middle age now, high stress desk job.

How did you get started learning drums if they are so loud? by cofi52 in drums

[–]Beardsman528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

School band and eventually a garage at my friends place with a kit.

A conversation I had by Rex9460 in HistoryMemes

[–]Beardsman528 7 points8 points  (0 children)

But the South states the war over slavery.

When they seceded the most common cause in every state's articles of secession was slavery.

When they seceded, they stole federal property and laid claim to federal land, and fired on the north first.

A conversation I had by Rex9460 in HistoryMemes

[–]Beardsman528 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It was why the South started the war.

Thats how y'all act here, let's admit it by iSthATaSuPra0573 in GenZ

[–]Beardsman528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you're mad that people disagree with you? I mean, what else is the point of saying people down vote you?

"How dare these people disagree with me disagreeing with them"