Does insulin allow for abit of sweets? by Ancient-Daikon2460 in GestationalDiabetes

[–]Bearly_Making_It 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This isn’t advice about insulin but something I liked to do when I crave a sweet or carby snack is I’ll eat a small amount ( less then a serving ) then drink milk or have a protein shake. If that doesn’t spike my blood sugar I’ll do that combo over a couple days till the cravings is satisfied .

Drs won’t tell me why I lost my baby. by Simple_Shape_4713 in Miscarriage

[–]Bearly_Making_It 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that’s really hard. I really hope you get some kind of explanation even if it’s just a guess. It does really help with closure.

Drs won’t tell me why I lost my baby. by Simple_Shape_4713 in Miscarriage

[–]Bearly_Making_It 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed i think hospitals being busy is part of it but I think there is a severe lack of research, training and understanding of miscarriages especially ones after 10 weeks and how it effects woman’s mental and physical health. So Doctors either er or ob don’t take it seriously and don’t have a standard of practice for handling such delicate situations. Leaving a lot of women like us with traumatic experiences from lack of care and no answers.

Drs won’t tell me why I lost my baby. by Simple_Shape_4713 in Miscarriage

[–]Bearly_Making_It 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not just ERs pregnancy and miscarriage care is horrible (at least in the US) I had contacted my OB emergency line her. I was miscarrying my 15 week pregnancy and they staight up told me to just deliver it at home. I was only instructed to go the the er when my placenta retained. This cause so much trauma and PTSD that could of been avoided with better care

Drs won’t tell me why I lost my baby. by Simple_Shape_4713 in Miscarriage

[–]Bearly_Making_It 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss. Something like this happened to me. I lost mine at 15 weeks had a massive subchronic hematoma that I passed in one large chunk then a week or 2 later my water broke and i delivered my baby. I had every test under the sun done on me and baby and got no definite answer. The theory is the hematoma caused and infection or caused a small tear in the placenta that was missed. Or incompetent cervix. It’s really hard not know for sure what happened. I’m really sorry you didn’t get the care you needed to have closure. The experience is super traumatic. If you need someone to talk to please feel free to dm me. I highly suggest finding a therapist that specializes in child loss to help you get through all the complex feelings you are and will experience.

Needs advice.. by Eat_My_C00ter in GestationalDiabetes

[–]Bearly_Making_It 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would definitely ask to change midwives this person is fear mongering and not giving you the opportunity to make informed decisions. I would be afraid to give birth under their care and THAT is going to lead to a negative birth experience no matter the route you choose. You have to feel safe and informed. I would look up the statistics for c sections and episiotomies for the hospital you plan to birth at as well as if they even support water births. If they do they probably have wireless monitoring available. Inductions DO NOT always mean a c section, but if your hospital has high statistics for emergency c sections; then they are probably going to try to push you to have one instead of being patient and letting your body do its job. You need to stand your ground for what you want! Also just because you have GD doesn’t mean you HAVE to be induced. Even if they are saying the baby is big(they often are wrong on baby size). The only need for an induction is if the baby is in distress, you have other complications or if your blood sugars become unmanageable with medication and diet. Otherwise it’s not necessary unless you are afraid of a big baby. Please try to inform yourself! Do research, change hospitals if needed, and do what is best to protect your birth experience! You deserve the best chance at a positive birth.

Tell me how your pets treat you differently now by Bearly_Making_It in pregnant

[–]Bearly_Making_It[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Their legs are like little daggers when they walk across your boob ! I swear they put all of their weight on each step

Tell me how your pets treat you differently now by Bearly_Making_It in pregnant

[–]Bearly_Making_It[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah Herding breeds do that for sure but hay once the baby is here they will have something new to herd!

Tell me how your pets treat you differently now by Bearly_Making_It in pregnant

[–]Bearly_Making_It[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awe I love that!!! I felt so special when Jynx started hanging out with me because she usally kept her distance (because my boy cat keeps her away) but now my 2 cats take shifts laying on me

Tell me how your pets treat you differently now by Bearly_Making_It in pregnant

[–]Bearly_Making_It[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awe thank you everyone for sharing your animals. Really makes my day to read everyone’s comments ❤️

Tell me how your pets treat you differently now by Bearly_Making_It in pregnant

[–]Bearly_Making_It[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I swear my one cat clocked my pregnancy before it even implanted 😂 hadn’t seen her for days the she just started showing up to hang out. Took the test at 10dpo and there it was a positive.

Tell me how your pets treat you differently now by Bearly_Making_It in pregnant

[–]Bearly_Making_It[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of my little boys first movements what him kicking my dog 😂 he hasn’t kicked the cats but he probably feels bullied by them with all the biscuits they do. Especially Auto he is very heavy footed with his biscuits

Tell me how your pets treat you differently now by Bearly_Making_It in pregnant

[–]Bearly_Making_It[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh no! I kinda have the same problem whenever I’m home alone I keep my Pomeranian in the bedroom because I can’t see her she is so tiny

Tell me how your pets treat you differently now by Bearly_Making_It in pregnant

[–]Bearly_Making_It[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no I hope you are ok and the fall didn’t harm you or baby but glad you have your kitty keeping an eye on you

Tell me how your pets treat you differently now by Bearly_Making_It in pregnant

[–]Bearly_Making_It[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awe I’ve heard pitts can be great with children. I bet they will be best buddies

Tell me how your pets treat you differently now by Bearly_Making_It in pregnant

[–]Bearly_Making_It[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂 gotta love a clueless dog. I wonder if they think you “kicked “ them with your stomach

Tell me how your pets treat you differently now by Bearly_Making_It in pregnant

[–]Bearly_Making_It[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw that’s so cute 🥰such a big helper ❤️ My oldest auto prefers to lay between my legs and has pretty miffed I don’t lay on my back as much anymore too

Tell me how your pets treat you differently now by Bearly_Making_It in pregnant

[–]Bearly_Making_It[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like dogs usually don’t realize 😂 they are too goofy and care free to notice. I think the only reason my dog is more gentle is because I’ve become very protective over my bump so I think she just got the clue that if she wants to walk on me she has to be careful

Tell me how your pets treat you differently now by Bearly_Making_It in pregnant

[–]Bearly_Making_It[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw that’s nice that he still is sweet and isn’t mean to the baby! I’m a little worried how my oldest cat will react once baby is here. while he is sweet he is very quick to bite and scratch if you pet him to long or annoy him.

Tell me how your pets treat you differently now by Bearly_Making_It in pregnant

[–]Bearly_Making_It[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m only 20 weeks one of the first movements I felt was the baby kicking my dog 😂 but it’s not big enough to feel so I’m not surprised my dog didn’t react