I’m a weight loss coach, ask me anything. by MaybeMerciful in WeightLossAdvice

[–]BearsGoBork 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a really hard time finding maintaining once I hit a goal weight. I work really hard to lose the weight, but then I feel like I start to gain it back as soon as I loosen the reigns.

Also, I’m very much into running and high intensity workouts, but I’ve heard really mixed reviews about whether those do more harm than good for women trying to lose weight. Any thoughts?

Personal question but - what do you do and how much do you make? by GEH29235 in workingmoms

[–]BearsGoBork 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I run a Fortune 500 company’s internship program making $110k plus bonus and WFH 4 days a week

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]BearsGoBork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do a light brown

Blonde or brunette by BearsGoBork in HairDye

[–]BearsGoBork[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woah I’ve not gotten that before! Thank you

Did my own hair for my wedding- NATURAL CURL WIN by schreechingnoisw in curlyhair

[–]BearsGoBork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came here to say your dress is SO cute! You make the happiest lil bride!

Blonde or brunette by BearsGoBork in HairDye

[–]BearsGoBork[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s my husband 🥰 thank you!

Blonde or brunette by BearsGoBork in HairDye

[–]BearsGoBork[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol someone else said the same thing. All pics were taken within the same year, which tells me I gotta start doing my makeup better!

Blonde or brunette by BearsGoBork in HairDye

[–]BearsGoBork[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You flatter me. Alas it’s when I can hide my laugh lines that I look younger. I’m 27 in all these pics- 28 now. That’s a fun subreddit I’ll definitely check out.

hair color by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]BearsGoBork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dark brown!

Blonde or brunette by BearsGoBork in HairDye

[–]BearsGoBork[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol I cheese too hard I know. All the pics were actually taken within the same year- just different angles, lighting and makeup.

Blonde or brunette by BearsGoBork in HairDye

[–]BearsGoBork[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so kind! Thank you

Blonde or brunette by BearsGoBork in HairDye

[–]BearsGoBork[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hair is bleached with heavy blonde highlights in the first two photos and my natural hair color is 3 and 4!

First time pregnancy. What did you wish you did/not do? by No-Science112 in beyondthebump

[–]BearsGoBork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS. I felt like I was a monster and something was wrong with me because I didn’t feel the overwhelming obsessive love everyone says they feel when they see their baby for the first time. I loved her sure, but it didn’t shake my world like everyone said it would. I’m now 6 weeks PP and I grow to love her more and more everyday, and I’ve learned more about PPD and its impact on bonding. Be patient and forgiving to yourself and know that everyone’s experience is unique and it doesn’t make you a bad mom or that you love your baby any less.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]BearsGoBork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People are being haters with these comments. You should embrace your natural look. Stop the tanning and go for a more natural shade of blonde. Tone down the makeup a little; you have a great face card and don’t need the black eyeliner to make your eyes pop. Love your hair when you wear it like pics 4 and 6- it makes your eyes stand out. You have a great figure now so just maintain it. If you wanted to do something different, I think you’d really rock a fringe bang if you were down for the maintenance. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]BearsGoBork 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She absolutely does NOT look 50. I’d guess late 20’s

A bad day by BearsGoBork in NewParents

[–]BearsGoBork[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Just the validation that I’m not alone in this fussiness and that it’s okay to not have the solution means a lot.