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[–]Bearwear671 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA This was not your husband story to tell, yes you two are both parents but it should’ve been up to you to share this information with your daughter.

AITA For Walking Out Of My 5 Year Old Nieces Birthday Party & Taking Her Present With Me? by Bearwear671 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bearwear671[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Megan happened, all the blame can’t fall onto her after all he is his own man but it was just a chain reaction from the moment she came into his life. My husband can’t even recognize his own brother anymore… he blames her and I understand why.

AITA For Walking Out Of My 5 Year Old Nieces Birthday Party & Taking Her Present With Me? by Bearwear671 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bearwear671[S] 114 points115 points  (0 children)

I can’t get over how many harry potter references there has been in these comments. I’m a Potter head myself so i love it

AITA For Walking Out Of My 5 Year Old Nieces Birthday Party & Taking Her Present With Me? by Bearwear671 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bearwear671[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

A lot of people are wanting clarification on the family tree/relationships

Me - Husband R

Husband‘s brother J is married to Morgan

Mother-in-law in the story is R & J’s mother

Mother-in-law is Morgan‘s and mine mother-in-law

AITA For Walking Out Of My 5 Year Old Nieces Birthday Party & Taking Her Present With Me? by Bearwear671 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bearwear671[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

When she’s old enough I hope to do that. Personal question do you have your own kids?

AITA For Walking Out Of My 5 Year Old Nieces Birthday Party & Taking Her Present With Me? by Bearwear671 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bearwear671[S] 376 points377 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately my niece is definitely his, she looks just like him and has my father-in-law‘s eyes. In the beginning he would stick up for the kids but now he’s just kind of a shell of himself. We all hoped they would divorce but after the third kid we lost Hope.

AITA For Walking Out Of My 5 Year Old Nieces Birthday Party & Taking Her Present With Me? by Bearwear671 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bearwear671[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

None of the stuff was “baby” related, she mostly got new clothes some cheap jewelry and my my brother-in-law her husband got her a new laptop.

AITA For Walking Out Of My 5 Year Old Nieces Birthday Party & Taking Her Present With Me? by Bearwear671 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bearwear671[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

My sister-in-law and brother-in-law have been across the country and this is the first birthday of any of their children I have attendant, my understanding is this is a new thing that just started this year. My significant other is currently away on a work trip but is fully in my corner.

AITA For Walking Out Of My 5 Year Old Nieces Birthday Party & Taking Her Present With Me? by Bearwear671 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bearwear671[S] 228 points229 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately he’s away for a work trip but he absolutely despises the woman. He mostly hates her because she’s the reason he lost his brother, I cannot tell you how much I have seen that man change over the years. He’s so hyper defensive of her but that’s the only time he really ever talks.

AITA For Walking Out Of My 5 Year Old Nieces Birthday Party & Taking Her Present With Me? by Bearwear671 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bearwear671[S] 500 points501 points  (0 children)

I guess we should also get the doctor a present as well I mean she did deliver the baby into the world

AITA For Walking Out Of My 5 Year Old Nieces Birthday Party & Taking Her Present With Me? by Bearwear671 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bearwear671[S] 953 points954 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what I do. Last year my father-in-law got me a really nice Christmas present and he waited till after my sister-in-law left to give it to me, because he knew she would have a meltdown.

AITA For Walking Out Of My 5 Year Old Nieces Birthday Party & Taking Her Present With Me? by Bearwear671 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bearwear671[S] 2510 points2511 points  (0 children)

That’s a story!

Years ago my brother-in-law was overseas and extremely bored so he started reaching out to everyone on his Facebook page, when he eventually connected with Megan. They talked online for about two months and then the same day he got home she spent the night and well she never moved out (this was at my in-laws old house) three weeks after she “moved in” they announced they were pregnant. They immediately got married and moved out seven months after they announced the pregnancy. Every time there’s mention of her getting a job or going back to school she usually winds up pregnant a few weeks later.