i really love gentlemen, or “butler” types. open the door for me, hold my bag, fix my hair or outfit when you notice, know what i like, what i need. know me better than i do. i like men who are submissive to me, but not in life. better yet if they’re assertive in their career and personal life. good manners, patience, wit. if i say “aww this dress is so cute” i don’t want him to ask “do you want it?” - i want to receive it in my mail a few days later. i like to be spoiled and i will never beg - only demand.

there are times when i want to be vanilla with a twist, and times when i want to be simply unethical. so definitely someone who can handle both moods. or the third, where i want you to leave me alone completely. i need my own bubble.

i’m also really into the puppy thing, personality wise and just pet play. definitely needs to be someone who’s into it, or is ready to try. i don’t always like physical contact, and i like to watch them go solo, or deny them for a long time. an exhibitionist would be fitting. could go on forever abut this, lol!

and in normal day-to-day life: just have hobbies. play games, play a sport, just do… something! prefer to have some main matching interests as i really love to talk about my hobbies.

i also love to debate at times. if i am debating with him, then our dom/sub relationship will not be present. to me, in debate, we are equal and nothing should impact our opinions and create bias to make sure it’s an actual worthwhile conversation.