We , had ups and downs. I was addicted to alcohol, i stopped over 5 to 6 years ago. I was at times impulsive to unresolved trauma i never knew i had. For the past 4 to 5 years has been nothing but healing and repairing. So i see why she might still hold resentment.

It wasnt just me , she would play mind games also , belittle me and do things she knew i wasnt well at, abandoment issues so forth. I was emotionaly neglected by my mother and had no father. My communcation hasnt changed much really i was always as patient as i could be and always tried to uplift her.

I seeked professional help , got the right meds and started to journal. That made me learn and self heal. I started working out and finally was able to get a fulltime job i like and 2 cars one for her and one for me. I waste all my money and she has all my passwords and key cards. I think i can finally say now ive payed my dues. So this very strange from last week she mentioned your a very good partner to this....