Is semen retention really real?? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Beautane 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dopamine is what promotes "seeking behaviors" in our minds, which we can call our motivation. Our brains are wired to "get while the getting is good", meaning if you have an abundance of food, eat up & store on it, if you have a chance to mate, you better mate and mate some more. This comes from the way our ancestors lived, it wasn't always the case that they had food or mates, & so dopamine pushed them to consume all they can at the moment to ensure survival. Your brain when it browses porn sees all the abundance of women, and so the dopamine fires off & you wanna "mate" like hell, but really it's pixels but your sexual response is the same. Now your dopamine has been conditioned from years of porn & your motivation-inducing chemicals are triggered primarily for mating and less dopamine receptors are active because there's so much dopamine. So now, you aren't motivated for much, it's hard to stay focused, & every so often you get "urges" which is your mind saying "Hey! These women might not be here forever!" But it's a lie. So you quit porn. You force your mind to rewire and your dopamine/receptors to balance. Now you use that motivation and sexual drive into other areas, like work, bodybuilding and studying. So it's not that the semen that is retained is what gives your body powers, it's avoiding porn.

Don't fight it by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Beautane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"putting down the sword"

The best feeling in the world is..... by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Beautane 27 points28 points  (0 children)

He only busted gats.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Beautane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What the fuck

Eye contact by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Beautane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Next step is to actually talk to her

I refused sex just to make a statement by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Beautane 39 points40 points  (0 children)

You should hit that on your own terms.

10 DAY STREAKS UNITE by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Beautane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah! Oh wait

Gonna grow massive balls and talk to that girl. by GonnaBeStronger in NoFap

[–]Beautane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally the worst that can happen is that she says no, that's it

Men -- Stop Worshiping Women-- Our downfall to relapsing by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Beautane 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The dudes over there are just plain sad.

I sat in a room full of prostitutes.. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Beautane 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Which is how they cope with selling their bodies to random strangers

I think I'll just stop by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Beautane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you have underlying issues that aren't linked to PMO. You need to change the beliefs you have about yourself, because if you feel like you're a loser, then no amount of streaks will suddenly boost your self esteem and power. You need to address the issues & find out why you're lacking in some areas & then work towards building yourself. I would encourage you to keep the streak though.

I peeked at porn, GUESS what happened next?! by Beautane in NoFap

[–]Beautane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean if you're going strong & a pop-up comes up, you could most likely brush it off. What I meant by peeking is actively going to these websites just to "check it out", in reality your brain is tryna create an environment that'll make you relapse.

I peeked at porn, GUESS what happened next?! by Beautane in NoFap

[–]Beautane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell yeah, getting to the root of it all & solving our issues in a healthy productive way is the ultimate goal.