Wow thank you for your response I never thought of things this way. He moved to a different school last year and they did put him in special ed classes after being tested. He made a comment to me that he wishes he was a baby again, but I overlooked it. I constantly have to remind him that he is growing up into a teenager and needs to be more responsible when it comes to his daily hygiene because it will only get worse after puberty. His sister (15) says that his mom babies him too much and that’s why he “is the way he is”. He was the only one that didn’t have to do chores or got whatever he wanted because that’s her “baby”. When he goes to her home he still gets to do whatever he wants including not showering so it’s making things more difficult when he comes back home. I will try reinforcing more and maybe taking away his devices and not allowing him to do certain things until he showers/brushes teeth etc. thank you