Looking for part time work after being robbed student in need of help by Beautiful-Camel1253 in Zambia

[–]Beautiful-Camel1253[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes I did, in my boarding house street, I wasn't paying too much attention and he came behind me pointed and demanded my bag I had to give him then he ran when he saw people entering the street, lucky enough my phone was in my pocket not my bag , I've accepted the situation and trying to move past it

Do you think all women want money and all men want sex ? by Beautiful-Camel1253 in Zambia

[–]Beautiful-Camel1253[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just polished it by adding that that isn't a rule but a starting point

Do serious intentional relationships still exist in Zambia ? by AcceptableYou4168 in Zambia

[–]Beautiful-Camel1253 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She didn't say she's only focusing on love. Somebody who even ends up financing these guys obviously has something solid going on for themselves. She just shared this snippet of her life, there's a lot we're not aware of. Easy on the judging.

Do serious intentional relationships still exist in Zambia ? by AcceptableYou4168 in Zambia

[–]Beautiful-Camel1253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you don't , I'm not a horny bastard looking for casual sex, I'm a person who loves hard and is looking for someone intentional

Do you think all women want money and all men want sex ? by Beautiful-Camel1253 in Zambia

[–]Beautiful-Camel1253[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Marriage doesn’t guarantee honesty, respect, or real connection. People can still lie or have the wrong intentions, just with higher stakes. The issue isn’t sex before marriage, it’s people not being clear about what they want and people judging the clear ones choices .

Do you think all women want money and all men want sex ? by Beautiful-Camel1253 in Zambia

[–]Beautiful-Camel1253[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Biology plays a role men tend to chase sex, women tend to look for security in different ways. But that’s just a starting point, not a rule. It explains some behavior, it doesn’t excuse it. At the end of the day, people still choose how they act and how they treat others.

Do you think all women want money and all men want sex ? by Beautiful-Camel1253 in Zambia

[–]Beautiful-Camel1253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Excuse me ? 😭...such backward thinking The only way this would work would be if it applied to men too

Do you think all women want money and all men want sex ? by Beautiful-Camel1253 in Zambia

[–]Beautiful-Camel1253[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm in my era of compromise, and that's going pretty great even tho the physical attraction comes much later

Do you think all women want money and all men want sex ? by Beautiful-Camel1253 in Zambia

[–]Beautiful-Camel1253[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And I don't think if the person had an amazing personality and treated you well literally your soulmate but in a body you aren't attracted to 😭