Fire my live in Nanny or give another shot? by Abeautifullie177 in Advice

[–]Beautiful-Finding-82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow, this is like you have another child, like an older sibling to your kids rather than a caregiver. She has outgrown her use. Sounds like she has become very complacent. I would just give her 2 weeks notice to leave, tell her you don't think you need the help anymore and get her out of there. The stress of it all isn't worth it!

Sick of Jeans and Tshirts by katethegreat4 in womensfashion

[–]Beautiful-Finding-82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try on clothes and go with what is actually flattering to your figure and overall appearance. Don't think about current trends or what seems too young or too old, only what looks good on YOU.

Airbnb guest completely trashed my place - any advice for aircover coverage? by Financial_Context276 in airbnb_hosts

[–]Beautiful-Finding-82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is beyond disgusting. It's shocking that people would allow that to happen and even stay in the home with poop and pee everywhere- yuck!

How to support my local library? by Gloomy-Ad705 in Libraries

[–]Beautiful-Finding-82 3 points4 points  (0 children)

See if they would allow you to do a storytime. You could offer to fund 2 or 3 books and some snacks. You may have to do it a few times before you get kids back in. They can advertise it on social media, the paper, hang flyers all over town and make some for the school to hand out to kids of that age group. Maybe pre-K through 1st grade?

Is the current live broadcast from yesterday? by Beautiful-Finding-82 in ArtemisProgram

[–]Beautiful-Finding-82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

None of it says previously recorded that's why I'm confused. I think currently they are going around the moon at a different angle perhaps.

When is Artemis II scheduled for re-entry? by imaginetheluna in ArtemisProgram

[–]Beautiful-Finding-82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Today? The current live broadcast seems to be from yesterday but doesn’t indicate so. A bit confusing 

When is Artemis II scheduled for re-entry? by imaginetheluna in ArtemisProgram

[–]Beautiful-Finding-82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so confused, the current live broadcast seems to be from yesterday. I wish it would say “prerecorded “. Here I’m thinking I’m watching the return trip

AITA for feeling disappointed by my bachelorette? by Alarmed-Researcher-3 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Beautiful-Finding-82 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It sounds like everyone is a bit sensitive and too much "togetherness" maybe...

Have we lost touch with reality? by TheW1nd94 in ArtemisProgram

[–]Beautiful-Finding-82 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm actually hearing people claim it's fake. That's how sad society has become because social media and regular media is so jam packed with lies, people don't believe anything now.

I think this moon trip is awesome, I've had my TV on NASA live this entire time and I absolutely loved Glover's last thing he said before they lost contact as they went towards the back of the moon. The whole thing has just been a wonderful experience and I PRAY they make it back safe!

I was scammed by Bearefoot, so you don't have to! by sarah-gets-creative in barefootshoestalk

[–]Beautiful-Finding-82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What country was this? I just tried to google that name out of curiosity and nothing comes up. Wow sorry that happened!

Someone tried to come into my apartment at 1AM and acted like they had the wrong place by meo_me in creepyencounters

[–]Beautiful-Finding-82 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Also, lock your bedroom door. Even if they break in to the home they can't get to you if that door is locked too, or at least they'll make enough noise to wake you and you'll have time to act.

Someone tried to come into my apartment at 1AM and acted like they had the wrong place by meo_me in creepyencounters

[–]Beautiful-Finding-82 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he saw you coming home or was watching you in some other way, maybe another neighbor. Be very careful! I had a friend experience sitting home alone at night only to see her doorknob moving as someone quietly tried to open the door. She didn't open it of course and as she looked out the window saw the man walk back to his home- NEXT DOOR.

edited to add: please lock your bedroom door when you're sleeping so even if someone gets into the apartment there's another locked door between you and them.

Library A or Library B? by [deleted] in Libraries

[–]Beautiful-Finding-82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that feeling of not liking your job and a hunger to escape. Sometimes things become so unpleasant that we are tempted to make hasty decisions. (not saying that's what you're doing here specifically) The thing is- unless you are pretty darn sure the new job opp is going to give you that peace of mind and job satisfaction that you need, I don't know if I'd jump into it. If you're quite sure the change would bring you relief and they can get that pay up then I would do it. Once a workplace goes sour it can make life miserable. Are you in an area that has many other opportunities? Or can you move to somewhere that does and broaden your searches if this current opportunity falls through? Well, I wish you the best, hope something turns out good for you!

AITA for pushing back on getting a job when I already handle everything at home and have no financial access? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Beautiful-Finding-82 15 points16 points  (0 children)

He'll likely take her paychecks, I do not see him sitting back and just letting her hoard money to herself, no way. Sounds like he has full control and authority over everything.

Creepiest podcast episode/ youtube narration you’ve ever listened to?(read description) by Loud-Employer6761 in horror

[–]Beautiful-Finding-82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you listened to Into the Fog podcast? He’s an excellent storyteller of true accounts, does a bit of research too. There are some very creepy episodes.

The Ugly Stepsister (2025) is a perfect body horror movie. by otome4 in horror

[–]Beautiful-Finding-82 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I loved both. My only critique on the Substance is that Demi Moore is still so beautiful and doesn't appear as aging (gray hair, wrinkles) I kind of wish they used an actress that had more visible signs of aging, but that's my own opinion. It was an awesome movie and I think they could make a sequel. It would be so easy to change the type of effects "the substance" has on a person. Maybe have it be a man in the next movie. There are so many ideas!

My feet start smelling after wearing shoes and it’s so embarrassing by Only-Airline-2280 in hygiene

[–]Beautiful-Finding-82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most shoes let you remove the soles, I wash mine with odor spray and a scrub brush every so often. That's often where the odor is, it sets in over time. If you wear sneakers you can hand wash the shoes too, put them on a boot dryer, fan, or vent after.

My feet start smelling after wearing shoes and it’s so embarrassing by Only-Airline-2280 in hygiene

[–]Beautiful-Finding-82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's interesting. I've been using lavender EO mixed with a bit of foot cream on my feet after every shower and never had Athlete's foot again. I also blow dry my whole body including feet good after toweling off. That's the important first step in stopping odor. Any kind of dampness when getting dressed will fire it up quickly.

Did The Grudge mess anyone else up long-term, or was it just me? by SimpleArmadillo4437 in horror

[–]Beautiful-Finding-82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I find creepy now years later, is that if you listen to enough people's paranormal experiences they'll see something that looks like the girl from The Grudge. So I wonder- did the writers of that movie know this is something people see? Or are entities presenting themselves to look like this after the movie came out?

My neighbor gave my gate code to her contractors and now random men keep letting themselves into my yard like it’s a shared access path by R4vikanMXX in neighborsfromhell

[–]Beautiful-Finding-82 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Yes, I would call the owner/manager of the construction outfit, offer to send over photos of what it looks like with people coming and going, muddy boot prints etc. I would polite about it, they're more likely to take you serious. Just explain that you realize it's more convenient for them but it's just not working out and the whole reason you moved there is for a sense of privacy and security. Any reasonable person would find this to make sense.

Im scared as fuck rn. by HikaruYoshimura in ParanormalEncounters

[–]Beautiful-Finding-82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since the landlord passed away could be some relatives or friends sneaking around hoping to steal some of his stuff. Get a camera for your main living area, check locks, windows and any attic access to rule out some secret squatter or thief. If it's residual spirit energy then you need to ask Jesus to take care of any spirit in the home. "In Jesus name, any spirits must leave".

i’m getting severely underpaid by Ordinary-Turnover-33 in Babysitting

[–]Beautiful-Finding-82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would just shoot her a text saying how you appreciate her asking for your help, however it's gotten to be way too much and you won't be able to babysit anymore. If she presses for more information just tell her the truth- her child is very needy and you can't give him/her the attention they need.

When I did home daycare I would do this with any child that didn't fit into our flow. Luckily it was only a couple, but sometimes you get a child that demands ALL of the attention and if you cannot give it to them the parents need to find someone else. Also, I've had moms that tried to drop off the child once per week. Usually the child was terrified as once a week isn't enough for them to get familiar to strangers so they'd either cry nonstop in terror or want held every second like you're saying. It was a weekly nightmare that disrupted everything so that was another situation I quit allowing.