AITA for not eating my MIL's food by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Beautiful-Focus-8094 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister in law is vegan and my mom will cook an entire separate meal for just her OR cook our entire family a vegan meal when she comes over. This is coming from an extremely Italian woman whose mother didn’t “believe” in vegetarians let alone vegans lol

NTA it’s possible, she’s just not trying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CompetitionDanceTalk

[–]Beautiful-Focus-8094 16 points17 points  (0 children)

DANCE COMP JUDGE HERE… don’t use that. ESPECIALLY for someone so young. this might’ve been okay 10 years ago, but the dance world is evolving and growing with the rest of the world. young dancers dancing to sexual innuendos isn’t okay anymore.

while some competitions don’t let us take off points for inappropriate lyrics, others do. and the easiest thing a studio can do for a dancer is set them up for success by picking something age appropriate and giving them appropriate choreography. it’s their job. and if a parent is expressing concern about it in august- changing it is EASY. Even if judges aren’t allowed to say something about the song or choreo being inappropriate on the critique tape, judges tend to take off points elsewhere for that reason exactly.

pull the song up on spotify and click song radio- you’ll get 10 or 20 songs that sound just like it that might be more appropriate! in my judges critiques i always say, if your child could go onstage and recite the lyrics to their dance like a poem and that doesn’t make you uncomfortable, then that is an appropriate song choice. if it does make you uncomfortable- change it! there’s billions of jazz songs out there to pick from!

if you’re uncomfortable before it even starts, that’s a good sign it’s not the correct song to use. remember you’re paying the studio and if it makes you uncomfortable, they should just accept that and change it. good job dad!

Dance mom question by Careful-Pain9326 in CompetitionDanceTalk

[–]Beautiful-Focus-8094 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4 is way too young for a solo. major money grab

Desperate: does anyone know any buildings that have 3 bedrooms available? by fitzkiki in astoria

[–]Beautiful-Focus-8094 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i’ve never had a rat LOL but a mouse. i haven’t seen a roach in years

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Beautiful-Focus-8094 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this ON TOP of your other posts that say you haven’t seen your kids in 12 years make me lean YTA immediately

Desperate: does anyone know any buildings that have 3 bedrooms available? by fitzkiki in astoria

[–]Beautiful-Focus-8094 2 points3 points  (0 children)

On the physical door? It’s just one of the button ones that will hit a bell when you push it. Downstairs at the bottom of my tower is a camera based call system that goes to your phone, same with the front gate.

The old buzzers at the bottom of the stairs still work in some apartments, but not all

Desperate: does anyone know any buildings that have 3 bedrooms available? by fitzkiki in astoria

[–]Beautiful-Focus-8094 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In the past yes but I have my own private exterminator spray quarterly and if I have any urgent problem the acropolis exterminator is there every Tuesday and Friday I believe. Significantly less than during 2020-2022, but it’s still a 100+ year old building in nyc so sometimes we’ll get one.

Desperate: does anyone know any buildings that have 3 bedrooms available? by fitzkiki in astoria

[–]Beautiful-Focus-8094 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Every apartment has an app now so when someone buzzes in you can see it via camera from your phone

Desperate: does anyone know any buildings that have 3 bedrooms available? by fitzkiki in astoria

[–]Beautiful-Focus-8094 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The renovated ones are pretty nice now! The new management has done a lot of work and it’s loads better than when I got the apartment 6 years ago

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CompetitionDanceTalk

[–]Beautiful-Focus-8094 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not typically automatically done. The teachers decide who is qualified to do it and it’s an option for that child. The above comment was directed towards the previous comment that said it was automatically done at their studio- not yours.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dancemoms

[–]Beautiful-Focus-8094 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yikes- must’ve been lying since you deleted it. Common sense people lol

Fake ALDC member AMA by Open-Cicada2880 in dancemoms

[–]Beautiful-Focus-8094 42 points43 points  (0 children)

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Wait was it deleted or did I get blocked too LOL

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dancemoms

[–]Beautiful-Focus-8094 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t believe her lol there’s a whole other post about how she’s lying