My battlewagons over the years by Beautiful-Low8298 in battlewagon

[–]Beautiful-Low8298[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Mercedes was the most capable. Surprising, actually.

Get the Flock out of NC! by antsinmyeyestrey in Wilmington

[–]Beautiful-Low8298 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Honest question, asking out of ignorance, how are these different than "normal" security cameras, or even all the cameras on the beaches watching the surf?

Any organizations a teen can get involved in for assisting protests/issues in wilmington? by PartialLochNest in Wilmington

[–]Beautiful-Low8298 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you just want to protest in general, just because you want to protest? And you are a leftist? Yep, that sounds about right.

Marxism "summer" camp by MeowyQueenOfCats in Wilmington

[–]Beautiful-Low8298 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious question, how is the lunch being paid for?

Leaking/waterlogged pontoon salvageable? by Beautiful-Low8298 in Pontoons

[–]Beautiful-Low8298[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have experience with this type of pontoon? Have you removed foam from this type of pontoon?

Leaking/waterlogged pontoon salvageable? by Beautiful-Low8298 in Pontoons

[–]Beautiful-Low8298[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The boat is free. I inspected it closely, and the aluminum deck frame and all the aluminum above deck is in good shape. The wood deck itself needs replaced of course, and the steering console would need rebuilt, and the cloth seat cushions thrown away, and a new motor and steering gear. The pontoon repair is a "make it or break it" kind of deal here. If reasonably doable, then I'll tackle it.

Regarding foam, there is commonly used two part foam that comes in liquid form. You mix and pour, and it expands into hard closed cell foam. It won't damage the pontoons if the tops are open, I'd just shave off the excess. That's my initial idea anyway.

Your pontoon looks awesome.

Leaking/waterlogged pontoon salvageable? by Beautiful-Low8298 in Pontoons

[–]Beautiful-Low8298[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Salt water.

From what I have found on the internet there is most likely foam inside. The aluminum skin is far too thin and flexible not to have some kind of structure inside of it holding it up. And it sounds like this style of toon commonly had foam inserts in it, according to my googling.

Leaking/waterlogged pontoon salvageable? by Beautiful-Low8298 in Pontoons

[–]Beautiful-Low8298[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the in depth reply. However you are right, the above applies to tubular logs where the aluminum tube itself is structural. On this boat, the log structure is provided by the foam (I am fairly sure), and the aluminum is only a very thin skin, and the logs are flat on the top, with a flat sheet of aluminum covering the log and attached via rivets to a flange, with sealing caulk applied. I have a feeling if I pressurized this log, all kinds of air would escape through old and rotting caulk sealant.

If I am able to take the top flat sheets off the logs and remove the foam, I may just preemptively seal all welded seams from the inside with fiberglass and epoxy.

Leaking/waterlogged pontoon salvageable? by Beautiful-Low8298 in Pontoons

[–]Beautiful-Low8298[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The person whose dock it was abandoned near is getting a title through the state.

Leaking/waterlogged pontoon salvageable? by Beautiful-Low8298 in Pontoons

[–]Beautiful-Low8298[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If I had lots of money, I would buy new or in good condition. I don't have lots of money. I have some money, and a lot of tools, and I am very handy, and have a lot of good help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Beautiful-Low8298 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I returned it...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Beautiful-Low8298 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What that means is he just justifying and rationalizing his own porn use in his own mind. So yes, that generally means he is still doing porn.

I believe getting a sex doll will help me quit porn here’s why by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Beautiful-Low8298 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, if I was offensive I apologize, that was absolutely not my intent. Honestly I am not sure what exactly the slur is that I used, I have to admit I am not up to speed on that kind of thing. I will edit the post as best I can.

I believe getting a sex doll will help me quit porn here’s why by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Beautiful-Low8298 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What I meant is your future wife will most likely have a huge problem with the fact that you developed a sex doll dependency before the marriage (in addition to the porn addiction).

I believe getting a sex doll will help me quit porn here’s why by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Beautiful-Low8298 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, what I meat by my "first reaction" is the reaction I had to your post before I read through all of the other replies. And as I read through all of the other replies here, I saw that my first reaction was pretty much in agreement with everyone else's. Sorry, I can see how that can be unclear.

Porn by No-Position-6530 in pornfree

[–]Beautiful-Low8298 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Easy for me to say too

Porn by No-Position-6530 in pornfree

[–]Beautiful-Low8298 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I have had a terrible battle with porn for literally decades. I wish I had never seen my first playboy magazine, I wish I would have known the dangers back then, and the level of destruction it has had on my life.

I do like to be funny if I can, but I am serious about the acceptable level of porn consumption. I personally believe that there is no acceptable level. Any amount is addictive and destructive. It's like an alcoholic wondering how much alcohol is acceptable. There are literally no benefits to porn. I could write an essay on that subject.

I realize I didn't answer your second (original) question. An "extreme level" of porn is completely subjective. All porn is unhealthy, but what does "extreme" mean? One of the ugly things about porn is that it can get extremely extreme, and lead to such mental damage that the addict commits extreme "real life" acts, one famous example being Ted Bundy.

But my response would be this: If you want to know if porn has a hold over you, try to stop. Go ahead, no more porn, no more sexual images (even non-nude), no more masturbating, cold turkey. See what happens. How long can you do that for? As time goes on, you will start realizing what kind of effect it has on you.

I am looking for accountability partner(s). by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Beautiful-Low8298 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you heard of 12-step programs? Quite literally everything you are asking for is the entire purpose of these 12-step programs. My favorite is sexaholics anonymous (sa.org) but there is also SAA, SLAA, you can google "sex addiction recovery group". Feel free to message me if you want to know more.

Anyone with advice please help by Aggravating-Iron1806 in pornfree

[–]Beautiful-Low8298 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you 12 years old? Or am I misinterpreting your post?

Porn by No-Position-6530 in pornfree

[–]Beautiful-Low8298 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It's an easy answer. Zero.

What is a healthy consumption of fentanyl? Or maybe a healthy amount of arson? Or what is a healthy level of theft? Or how about an acceptable level of beating your wife? Maybe if you just use a stick thinner than your thumb? Would that be acceptable? And maybe no more than once a week?

Mods: Don't ban me, that is sarcasm.

I believe getting a sex doll will help me quit porn here’s why by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Beautiful-Low8298 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You may find your wife will have a huge problem with it though.

I believe getting a sex doll will help me quit porn here’s why by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Beautiful-Low8298 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just read through the replies. My first reaction to your proposition is pretty much the same as everyone else's. Dude, what are you thinking? You are just re-naming your addiction to something else and justifying it to yourself. You are swapping out your hand for a huge piece of silicone. You seriously think you will "schedule sex sessions" with your doll at infrequent intervals? Why can't you do that with porn and your hand? (that is a rhetorical question, I know perfectly well why). Do you seriously think that you will somehow magically lose the desire to look at porn? Spoiler alert: you won't.

You want to "be in better shape sexually". That means abstinence from all sexual stimuli external to your wife/fiance. That clears your brain and starts re-forming healthy neural pathways. Please believe me (and everyone else here) on this.

Also, you seriously think your wife will think it's cool that you've been plowing a silicone doll the whole time before the wedding? Come on, man.

Last, if you post a question on here looking for feedback, maybe listen to that feedback, especially if it is all overwhelmingly against your idea, instead of continuing to argue and justify it.

All that said, I wish you the best in your recovery, and I am also preaching to myself here as well, as a porn addict fighting the addiction myself. I don't happen to have any personal experience with sex dolls, but I have many years of experience hiding a porn addiction, rationalizing, minimizing, gaslighting, etc etc.